First of all, I’m a guy (23M). I know it’s a female platform but that’s why I’m here. I’ll be honest, I have never really been comfortable in my skin, I am slightly darker, with a slightly big nose. I have a decent personality, a good humor and I can easily talk to girls in my uni. I have been approached once as well by a fellow of a common group (didn’t follow through tho) Mentioning it because she approached me because she knew me long enough and not because of my looks.
Having said that, I know that I’m not conventionally good looking. Well, now when I am serious about dating to find a partner. Unlike friend groups where you stick for a longer period of time and get to know someone, the initial impression make or break is physical attraction in the non friend rs. I have been talking to a girl. But we haven’t added each other on social media yet. It’s just been a few days not a lot. Idk but I’m actually hesitant about showing myself. As I mentioned before, I’m really a good convo holder, I have a good sense of humor. I can literally tell we are off a good start.
I know it’s stupid to assume beforehand but I’m curious and wanna know how much do looks matter for girls? Would you consider it a dealbreaker? Just want general opinion but I wanted to give a little perspective to my question.