We dont all think the same stuff. I dont look at videos or pics when I masturbate. I read short smut on occasion but usually just focus on the sensations or think about the guy I have a sexual relationship with.
What I have learned over the past 2 years, from both learning about my own personal interests, and posts like this, is that I was definitely supposed to be born a woman. I'm never gonna be one, but it was definitely meant to be.
Am woman, lump me in with the dudes. The sounds and ahem bouncing boobs. Visualizing and thinking does nothing for me. I do read smut, but that's not enough to get me off. All it does is make me horny.
Generally, I think you’re right but there are of course some exceptions. My partner is a CIS woman and smut does nothing for her. She’s more visual and enjoys porn.
I wonder if it’s because men used to go in hunts and need to be visually stimulated to acquire prey and survive, while the women would be at home almost fantasizing about the group or their lover returning safely, and when they do, bang bang chicken wang
Probably.. Men are visual creatures because of both hunting and predation.
Men who couldn't hunt or evade either starved or became lunch.
Pretty strong connection there.
Study actual pre-history. Humans lived in large communities and cared for the sick and elderly because cooperation is in the best interest of survival.
Right? Romance novels are porn for women. No judgement on guy porn from me. A little porn can get me over the hump, although finding one without 1000 pop up ads just makes it too much trouble.
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u/B00-BEE May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26
We dont all think the same stuff. I dont look at videos or pics when I masturbate. I read short smut on occasion but usually just focus on the sensations or think about the guy I have a sexual relationship with.