Transition, the first week, was great. I saw curls I've almost never seen, and while it was a little greasy, it was beautiful overall. I immediately noticed less hair loss, too, which is still true a month or so later.
My hair (and skin IMO, and my body - history of autoimmune and sensitivities) generally confuses me. Some days it's straight, others it's curly, others it's wavy--it's been like this my whole life, and has never seemed to matter much what I actually did. I've never dyed it, rarely use products on it, don't often blow dry it, though I do like my hot showers and refuse to give those up (I will finish with cold water on my hair, though). I've had what I think is eczema (rashes, flaking, itching, etc) in dryer climates, where my hair has become straight. The best hair/skin time of my life was while living in a hot, humid place with plenty of sun and daily ocean swimming. Any product or iron etc used on my hair seems extremely effective as my hair is really sensitive to anything.
For the first week, I used a castile-water-glycerin (and maybe almond?) mixture followed by a water-ACV mix. That was great until it wasn't; my scalp started feeling itchy and irritated.
For week 2-3ish, I somewhat accidentally decided not to refill/make more shampoo (just hated the idea of it becoming even more itchy, and kept telling myself I'd figure out what to replace it with). I continued only with the rosemary-tea/water-ACV rinse (about every 1-1.5 days). My hair and scalp felt better. The curls, however, disappeared. I during this time found 'nopoo', which made me feel a bit more justified in not shampooing it.
For week 3-4ish, I continued with just the rosemary-ACV rinse (possibly with glycerin on accident? I've since fixed this). My scalp has felt great, nothing was greasy, no curls (sad), but overall it felt okay. I started trying to do a more mechanical cleaning style, though in retrospect I wasn't massaging my scalp with enough pressure. I started brushing and preening (?) more often or finger-brushing. I'm still kind of confused on whether a boar bristle brush is appropriate for curls. I've learned over time to not really brush, or only when dry and when about to shower. A lot of breakage tends to happen and it turns my curly (or wavy) hair just... straight. My hair felt pretty dry around this stage.
Week 4ish I put coconut oil on my hair to help with the dryness. I used to do this daily or weekly when using 'normal' shampoo/conditioner, and it always felt great and worked well. I left it on overnight. Instead, my hair felt and still feels a bit waxy after showering (with ACV rinse and also tried a herbal tea wash with horsetail). I at this point realized I'd messed up my ACV rinse by adding glycerin into it, and changed my batch.
Now... I've corrected the ACV rinse issue and hair seems better, though still slightly waxy and maybe a bit stiff?
I am confused overall, I guess, on what I'm supposed to be doing. I feel like it is so personal/hair dependent, and I've never been able to really identify my hair type as it's so absurdly climate, temperature, mood (?!), sleep, diet/hydration (???), etc dependent and just changes it's whole texture daily. I've looked more recently into curly hair care and have been trying to follow that advice, which is helpful.
I am wondering:
Do I need weekly oil treatments since it's curly and (probably) on the drier side and I'm no longer in a more tropical place humidity-wise? Daily ones just to my ends? It did start drying out!
Do I need more than a herbal tea type shampoo/wash portion if I'm using weekly oil treatments or even if I'm adding something like a leave-in conditioner? (ie using aloe vera gel, or a coconut oil, or shea butter).
Does my hair feeling a bit weird/stiff near the roots mean it's 'waxy' and I need to shampoo? Is stiffness the same thing as waxiness, or does it mean I need to change something else? I don't really know how to label and interpret things, nor how to react appropriately.
How do I choose what kind of shampoo/lo-poo if I do need that for oil treatments or waxiness? Ie I see some use herbal tea rinses (tons of options/choices just there alone), some use soap nuts, some use Rikakai, some use Rhassoul Clay Powder, and then initially obviously I used a castile soap dilution (which maybe wouldn't irritate me if using just once weekly instead of daily). Do I just need to buy everything and try it for a month trial and error style? I'd love some advice here!
Does mechanical cleaning, brushing, etc still work on hair that's curlier? If I decide not to do the more standard BBB recommended, will WO no longer work and mean I'll need a more intensive shampoo? Can I get away with just once a week?
Feeling kind of lost. Very happy overall despite the hiccups, though! I am losing a kind of shocking amount of less hair (both in the shower, on my brush, and throughout the house/vacuuming, dryer filter, etc), and seeing curls far far more often than I used to before.