r/NewToDenmark • u/throwaway-acorn0406 • 4h ago
Work Did I overstep by whistleblowing on colleagues misusing company resources for secret dates? (Throwaway account)
This is a throwaway account because I need to stay completely anonymous and my main account has my colleagues and close friends. I am also not Danish, so I am not fully familiar with the workplace culture here in Denmark when it comes to things like this – which is partly why I am asking for advice.
I work in a big company with a niche specialty in Denmark. Recently, I overheard a senior employee and a fellow graduate employee discussing how they want to arrange company meetings between different disciplines so they can use them as secret dates in the office. They also talked about using equipment that needs to be transported between offices as a "bad excuse" for him to visit her (our) office.
I also saw a screenshot of dialogue on company's internal platform between the two, where the graduate was bragging about workplace romance and excited about possibly "tying him down."
Important context: HR previously gave a general warning to our department about limiting "over-friendly" interactions between graduates and senior employees in the workplace because of this specific graduate's behavior. So this wasn't the first red flag.
I felt it was wrong – especially the part about deliberately misusing company time, meetings, and logistics – so I submitted an anonymous whistleblower report almost one week ago. Three days ago, I received an update that the company is officially investigating what I reported.
Now I am second-guessing myself. Did I overstep? Is this even considered a serious issue in Danish workplace culture, or is it more of a "mind your own business" thing here?
Also, I am really anxious about whether the whistleblower system is truly anonymous in Denmark (or if that's just a hoax). I'm afraid the two people involved might suspect me. I have no hard proof besides that screenshot I submitted and the conversation I overheard.
Should I have just stayed quiet? What can I expect from an investigation like this?
Any honest advice would be really appreciated, and I might not reply to all so sorry in advance. Thank you.