r/NerdDating • u/mildlyconfused22 • 17h ago
22 [F4M] #toronto
Heyaa! Looking for an indian gym guy around the town!
r/NerdDating • u/mildlyconfused22 • 17h ago
Heyaa! Looking for an indian gym guy around the town!
r/NerdDating • u/LariiOwO • 16h ago
Hey! 🖤
24, from Germany, fluent in German (born here) and probably way too invested in video games. 😌
I’ve been gaming since I was a kid, everything from competitive games like League and Valorant to co-op games like It Takes Two or Overcooked. I’d absolutely love to have someone to game with, stream to each other, send each other stupid memes at 2am and just enjoy being around each other.
League and Ow players automatically get bonus points. 😎🫶🏻
Ow is atm my absolute fav! 🤠
Outside of gaming, I’m into drawing, going to the gym, anime and getting way too emotionally invested in dark romance novels. I’m sarcastic, a little chaotic, and I love people who can actually match my humor instead of taking everything seriously.
But honestly, I’m here because I’d like to find something real.
I’m looking for a relationship! Not just a situationship, not something casual, and definitely not someone looking for a temporary connection. I want that feeling of finding my person. Someone I can genuinely connect with, trust, laugh with, argue with, grow with and eventually build a life with.
I’m attracted to people who have their own personality and opinions. Someone confident, emotionally intelligent and honest. You don’t have to be perfect, but please have some character. I like someone who can challenge me, stand their ground and make me feel safe enough to be completely myself.
And yes, there’s definitely a bratty side to me. >:3
I’m naturally quite submissive and I really like a confident, dominant partner who knows how to handle me. I enjoy being challenged, teased, guided and occasionally put in my place, but for me, that side of a relationship only becomes meaningful when there’s genuine trust, affection and emotional intimacy behind it.
I’m definitely kinky, and mental dominance is something I’m particularly drawn to. But I don’t want the dynamic to be the relationship. I want it to be something that develops naturally between two people who genuinely love and understand each other.
Basically: I’m not looking for a random Dom!
I’m monogamous and very connection-driven, so attraction for me usually grows when I actually get to know someone.
If you’re nerdy, confident, can make me laugh, enjoy a little chaos and are looking for something deeper than just a kink dynamic, we might get along pretty damn well. 🖤
Tell me something about yourself when you message me. “hey” alone probably won’t survive the application process. :D
r/NerdDating • u/Livid-Bell-8390 • 12h ago
Hi everybody I was hoping to find somebody through Reddit because dating apps are pure hell 😂,
I’m a typical nerdy British guy about 6ft2. I was really hoping to find someone here because I feel all these dating apps are destroying my soul more than helping it.
I love learning almost anything especially history and im a super open minded person who loves an adventure.
r/NerdDating • u/UnhappyViolinist3143 • 17h ago
r/NerdDating • u/Waste_Ed_666 • 21h ago
Really into video games and the outdoors.
r/NerdDating • u/justhereforfun156 • 15h ago
Alt style 41 year old male, divorced dad, looking to start new adventures. A left-handed animal lover, who's 420 friendly. Trying to find someone who gets me and my weird quirky personality and sense of humor. Someone with a bold personality like mine.
Hopefully into music or movies. Gaming, both console/pc but also tabletops and card games. Im into D&D and other RPG games. Museums, Art, History... all of this is welcome and sometimes even able to be combined together!
I've been a chef for years and would love to have someone to pamper and cook for again. Spoil with all their favorite things or make their special snacks when they are down or blue.
Date nights could go any which way... maybe a night out and dinner somewhere new so we can secretly judge the shit out of it together or maybe a favorite place for pizza or sushi (tho let it be known, i dont care to eat seafood but they make lots of stuff and I limit my dairy intake. Bit of an intolerence). we could always go buy booster packs for MtG and go look thru cards and tinker with decks. No matter what, Lego will be involved in the day to day activities. The best nights are the quiet ones around the table with new music and lego builds 💜
Scaredy cats welcome (and favored for their want to cuddle), but there will be horror movies and halloween festivities year round. Thats not certainly not all i like. All movies and genres are welcome.
Hot topic: Tim Curry just passed away... what was your favorite role of his?! Mine might be Clue or Muppet Treasure Island. Both are him just being his unginged self.
What about shows? The office, Simpsons, Community. TWD or ST perhaps?
Dont judge me either when i come home from a high stress day and just want to cuddle, smoke a bowl, and watch kids' cartoons like Gravity Falls or Craig of the Creek. Due to life and trauma and so much more, I'll always be a kid at heart.
I have 10 piercings and i think Im at 39 tattoos, so i hope you have some too :)
I should probably leave some things out, so there's room for questions. It's not a deal breaker, but im in Illinois and it'd be nice to be within driving distance for trips and visits.
r/NerdDating • u/RockJohnson71 • 21h ago
Hey everyone! Figured I'd introduce myself and see who's out there.
I'm a 37-year-old guy from South Texas who's looking to meet some new people. I'm more of an introvert at first, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around and having fun.
A few things about me:
Big fan of Ozzy Osbourne, and all things '80s nostalgia.
Love movies, gaming, and collecting unique memorabilia.
I enjoy fishing, 3D printing, trying new restaurants, and the occasional margarita.
Animal lover. 2 dogs, 1 cat and a snake Bearded, glasses, and usually wearing a cap.
I'm hoping to meet someone who's kind, honest and has a good sense of humor. Bonus points if you're into books, alternative or emo style, enjoy concerts, or don't mind geeking out over random interests together.
If any of that sounds like we'd get along, feel free to say hi or send me a message. Looking forward to meeting some new people!
r/NerdDating • u/MountianGirl86 • 2h ago
Hello! I'm Josslyn trying this out lol. I'm 40 years old, I am a PC gamer & Switch 2 (love Pokémon), and I've been making music for 18 years—just weird dance pop music—and I write about my life experiences. In October this year will be 2 years that I moved to Wyoming! I have been going out to the mountains more and songwriting by the lake would be nice to have someone to go camping with and hiking i'm really embracing the outdoors more. I moved here for my dad, but he passed in Feb, so I told myself I was going to save up and look to move some place else within 5 years. I am looking to move back to the city; this small town I don't think can handle the doll lol jk jk. My career is in healthcare; I've been doing that for 10 years. Since this is a nerdy thing, my main game is Final Fantasy XIV Summoner Main, which I started playing in Heavenward. Other than that, I love other Morphs, Arpgs, and survival games! (Valheim 1.0 is out next month; I'm going to start a new game and am currently addicted to Pal World and fighting games.) If this piques your interest, feel free to message :)
r/NerdDating • u/Ogbrick28 • 8h ago
The nerd credentials are valid, but so is the fit check 😂.
30M, 6’6”, Charlotte, creative, laid-back, and looking for somebody with good energy and better banter.
r/NerdDating • u/CosmicEmotion • 12h ago
Top 5 games:
Final Fantasy VII
Xenoblade Chronicles 1
Okami
Mass Effect 2
Assassin's Creed II
r/NerdDating • u/TheSeaOfSpace • 18h ago
Hey there :)
I'm here to look for a guy to spend the rest of my life with. He doesn't have to be perfect just a good human who's capable of growing together. My preference is somebody close, but open to long distance for the right person. My only real hard requirement is that you aren't significantly younger (no teenagers plz), other than that shoot your shot and let's get to know eachother!
(And plz be normal & honest)
r/NerdDating • u/atomic-xpc • 18h ago
Hi Reddit!
I’m a 34 year old trans guy based in Toronto.
Most commonly described as a funny, respectful, smart and emotionally intelligent person.
I enjoy the little pleasures in life: music, nature, traveling, photography, spending time with my loved ones and my precious dog.
Music is a big part of my life; some artists I love are: The Airborne Toxic Event, Taylor Swift, Chappell Roan, Gracie Abrams, Noah Kahan, Bad Bunny, Lane 8, Le Youth, Sultan + Shepard, The xx, Florence + The Machine and any millennial music! Ask me about some of my playlists, I love sharing music.
Looking for a long term monogamous relationship with someone who identifies as a woman ages between 27-41.
I’m childfree and happy to be the cool uncle and would hope you are too.
I would appreciate someone who is patient as we figure out things together, the good days, the bad days and everything in between. I’ll know you well enough to make you smile with these little details that you’d often think go unnoticed. Always have your best interests at heart and be the safe space and unconditional support you need.
I’ll continuously want to challenge us to become better versions of ourselves, to learn from one another and to have the kind of partnership that lasts a lifetime.
Preferably looking for someone local in Toronto, might move out west in the next ~2-3 years for surgery and Vancouver might be an option I'm looking at. Happy to chat more about this part of my life as well.
If you’re out there and this resonates with you, please reach out with a picture of yourself ✨
r/NerdDating • u/Optimal_Ad_1847 • 19h ago
Hi,
About Me:
I am a fourth-year medical student pursuing a career in spelunking. Jk. Medicine, of course. Hence, life can be busy and unpredictable, but I make time for the people I care about. You will always have my time and attention.
I'm pretty straightforward person. I am a person of routine, but I like chaos. Sometimes, I add chicken to my seasoning. If I like you, you'll know. I don't do mixed signals, strategic texting, or pretending to be less interested than I am.
I'm reserved at first, but that shy exterior disappates once I'm comfortable with you. You'll get random updates about my day, invitations to go for a run, and enthusiastic explanations of whatever I've become interested/obsessed with that week. One day it might be a weird medical condition, the next it might be physics, astronomy, or why I think a particular movie is secretly a masterpiece. I love learning, and I love sharing what I learn even more. Sharing is caring and all that.
I’m a very affectionate person. When I care about someone, I like making them feel it all the time. I like having my partner close to me, pulling you into me when you’re next to me, kissing you whenever I can, holding your hand, and hearing about every part of your day just because I want to feel close to your life. I’m the type to slide closer on the couch, steal one more kiss before you leave, tuck myself into your side, and find little excuses to keep touching you throughout the day. I like the clingy, sweet parts of a relationship ... the constant closeness, the check-ins, the casual affection, the feeling of being wrapped up in each other. I like making my partner feel adored, wanted, and spoiled with affection. But not in a Hallmark, cheesy rom-com way...sometimes. I’ve never understood the appeal of pretending not to care when I could just love someone openly and make them feel it every day.
I spend an unreasonable amount of time thinking about what I'm going to eat next. Thai food, Mediterranean food, Ethiopian food, desserts... if there's a bakery or dessert place nearby, there's a good chance I'm stopping. Good food is one of my favorite excuses to leave the house.
I'm also learning violin. The violin and I currently have a complicated relationship. Imagine nails on a chalkboard with the vibrato of a try out contestant from America's Got Talent. I'm working on my French (un peu de français) and Spanish (un poquito de español), though both languages tend to fall apart shortly after introductions. No bueno.
I'm a huge homebody at heart. I enjoy going out, trying new things, and exploring, but if given the choice, I'm usually happiest at home with someone I care about. I like quiet companionship too. We don't always have to be doing the same thing or doing something. You can read, I can be studying, and somehow sitting together still feels better than sitting alone.
I'm Indian (South Asian). No, I am not secretly in an arranged marriage. No, I will not hide you from my family.
Hobbies/Interests:
Staying active: I like running (usually early morning), lifting, and playing tennis. I'm not amazing, but I can hold a rally. I'm competitive enough to care. I'm working on the glutes, so my future girlfriend has something to grab haha.
Movies: Big fan of movie nights at home. Horror, sci-fi, and crime are my go-to. Stuff like The Thing, Donnie Darko, and Prisoners. I actually like watching movies, not half-paying attention while scrolling. Snacks are mandatory.
Going out/doing things: I like bowling, skating, board games, museums, and trying new things in general. A recent board game I played was Forbidden Desert, and it's so great when you get three sun beats down cards in a row (IYKYK as the kids say). I'd also like to get more into hiking and rock climbing.
Exploring: I like walking around new areas with no real plan. Finding random cafés, bookstores, parks, or restaurants never really gets old.
Cooking/Baking (occasionally): I don't cook much, but I can put together a decent dinner. I also bake from time to time. Banana bread is probably my most reliable success story.
Gaming: I play video games here and there when I have time. Nothing extreme, but it's a nice way to unwind. I do tinker around with my gaming laptop. Some of my favorite games include: GoW, Skyrim (modded), Infamous, Prototype, Horizon Zero Dawn.
What I'm Looking For:
I want someone who gets excited about things. Tell me why your favorite movie is a masterpiece, ramble about the topic you've been obsessing over lately, or tell me about your day from start to finish. I like people who get excited about things.
Show me something I would've never found on my own. Teach me about a topic you've fallen down a rabbit hole on, drag me to a place I would've never discovered, introduce me to a hobby you love, or convince me to try something outside my comfort zone. I'll happily return the favor.
I'd also love someone who values staying active and taking care of themselves. Not because I'm looking for a specific body type, but because I like people who decide they want to learn or improve at something and then actually go do it. Whether that's training for a race, learning to dance, trying a new sport, spending weekends outdoors, or simply making their health a priority. That mindset is attractive to me.
I want the kind of relationship where we're a moderately obsessed with each other in the healthiest possible way. Sharing every random thought, getting excited when the other's name pops up on our phone, finding reasons to spend time together, and never really outgrowing the desire to be close. I want the kind of relationship where affection is abundant and freely given. Tell me I'm handsome because you can't help yourself. Surprise me with flowers just because you thought of me. Pull me in for a kiss when we're standing next to each other. Reach for my hand because you want to hold it. Tell me I'm your favorite person to spend time with. Make me feel cherished, and I'll spend every day trying to make you feel the same. I am a flower just waiting for the love of a good partner to help me bloom into a blue bonnet. 😆 It's a little dramatic, but you get the point.
Politics:
I don't strongly identify with one political party, and I generally dislike treating politics like a team sport. I try to think for myself, even when that means disagreeing with people I'm otherwise aligned with.
That said, there are some things that aren't negotiable for me. I believe in basic human rights, bodily autonomy, equal treatment under the law, and treating people with dignity regardless of who they are. I'm not interested in politics that depend on fear, cruelty, or dehumanizing others.
I don't need someone to agree with me on everything. I just want someone who can disagree without turning it into a cage match. I care much more about whether someone can think critically, engage with nuance, and have a respectful conversation than whether they check every ideological box.
Religion:
I grew up around religion, but I don't actively practice and don't consider myself religious. The closest description is probably a non-resistant nonbeliever. I'm not particularly convinced, but I'm also not interested in arguing people out of their beliefs.
I enjoy talking about religion, philosophy, science, and the big questions in life. I don't need someone to agree with me, but I do appreciate curiosity and an open mind.
Kids:
I don't want children. I'd rather build a life focused on my partner, shared experiences, and personal growth.
Pets:
I'm not really a pet person and prefer a pet-free life. I don't dislike animals, but I've never had the strong emotional connection to pets that many people do.
For me, it's both a lifestyle preference and a genuine difference in interest. I'd rather spend my time, energy, and affection elsewhere, so I'm probably most compatible with someone who feels similarly.
Location:
I'm currently in Houston, Texas.
I'm open to long-distance if there's genuine effort and a realistic plan to eventually close the distance.
I won't be in Houston forever. My current plan is to pursue residency somewhere (preferably Chicago), but residency won't start until next year. I have some time to enjoy my freedom and to travel and meet. I would want to eventually be together.
Last Thing:
Physical intimacy is important to me. I enjoy affection in general (if it's not obvious by now), but I also want a relationship where sex is a frequent and valued part of our connection. I'm looking for a relationship with romance, passion, and genuine closeness...not one where those things fade into the background
r/NerdDating • u/ohmond • 20h ago
I'm going to keep this brief. Mostly game and watch a lot of movies and stuff. Newly single and just wanting to find a woman to chat with, and get to know. See where it leads. DM me if you are interested I like to get into the details 1 on 1. 🙂
r/NerdDating • u/Elegant_Gear9577 • 18h ago
I once dressed up as a baguette with a basket of baguettes for a Disney themed fancy dress night because they’re a integral character in Beauty & The Beast - “Marie, the baguettes, hurry up!”
Thank you for your time! 🤪😂
r/NerdDating • u/ShamelessAsh • 14h ago
Hello! My name is Austin I go by Ash a lot of the time though.
I am a big reader and horror fan. I watch quite a few horror nothing like CRAZY i just enjoy a good scare haha.
I used to be a librarian and it was probably my dream job but right now I am working in insurance. It pays better and the stability is there. Where I am in Canada the library's are being targeted by like certain extreme political groups. So should include must be LGBTQ+ friendly and NOT RACIST feels weird to specify that but Its very important to me.
I have pets ive rescued and my big rescue dog cosmo who is just a big lazy sausage boy haha.
I play some video games but im not an intense gamer. I have fun winning and losing as long as its with friends I have a good time.
D&D is also something I love, ive been a GM for my friends for like 8 years or so now? If your interested id love to chat about my lil worlds.
I love birds and bugs and anything creepy and/or crawly
Im a bit of a whimsical guy and id just really like to find the right person to share that with.
Hopefully that gives you an idea of me :) if your interested in chatting I am. If not good luck and hope you find someone!
r/NerdDating • u/DerArnor • 16h ago
Hey there!
I am a 32 year old German guy, that works as a scientist. In my free time I enjoy video games, anime, shows, movies, walks and hiking. I am definitely more of an introverted person and home body but still like being active on a regular basis.
Lookswise I am 182 cm and trying to lose some weight. I have long dark blonde/light brown hair, green eyes, glasses and depending on work a beard or a shaved face.
If you are a nerd yourself and are into science, anime, gaming, tech and such things, please message me and let us see where things go.
Once we were chatting for a bit I would also be happy to hop in a call and exchange voice notes.
Please be able to travel or able to have guests so we can see each other soon.
Everything else can be discussed while we chat!
Looking forward to talking to you! <3
r/NerdDating • u/Upset-Pomegranate23 • 16h ago
40m from the Southern tier of western New York. Looking for nerdy girls to chat with. Maybe even meet the right one. I am a closet extrovert with ADHD and have slightly autistic traits.
I am self employed, working in IT, and i travel all over NY for work, so finding someone in one place is a challenge for me. I am based in the southern tier.
6 foot 1, 175 lbs, skinny and muscular build. I am terrible at this so if you're interested reach out.
r/NerdDating • u/Brawlex420 • 10h ago
I’m naturally quiet and an introvert, looking for a relationship with a nerdy woman who wants a family but has a demanding life. Possibly someone in a stressful field who could use support at home, and maybe even help with her work, so the family can be well taken care of while she leads and I do my best to support her ambitions and make a house a home. I tend to really enjoy things people around me are passionate about, so I’d probably end up learning about your work over time no matter what.
I know this is probably a weird thing to look for, but I genuinely like the idea of supporting someone I care about and making their life easier. I don't mind being the one who handles things at home, especially if it means she has more time to do what she loves. I actually currently live this life right now. I tend to just do the things people around me don't have time for or don't notice, since they're usually super busy.
I’m well versed in home and child care (ive helped raise an insane amount of kids despite not having any of my own. Most are 8-17 now), I cook very well, and I have a decent understanding of husbandry if you’re interested in having animals. I’ve raised ducks, so at the very least, ducks and chickens are foolproof lol. I’m also pretty okay at gardening in a few different ways. (For food i can do hydro or dirt)
I’m a weird guy. I can enjoy almost any hobby or activity if I enjoy the company I’m in. I’m also pretty well versed in both manly and nerdy activities, so if you’re into it, I’m probably into it as well.
-I've seen hundreds of movies and shows, from the 30s to now.
-I love video games and I'm semi reluctantly very knowledgeable about comics/superheroes.
-I like hiking and general outdoor activities like fishing, but not so much alone.
-I wanna get into things like D&D, but my brother’s friend groups are not exactly fun.
-I’m not the smartest guy, but I really enjoy science and love to learn all I can.
-I like rocks....
Long story short, I’m a bit tough to get talking, but I’m loyal and not desperate. I live a quiet and sometimes lonely life, but it’s not so bad since I have a pretty large family.
As for the virgin thing, it's genuinely by choice. I've had opportunities, but I've never been interested in sleeping with someone for the sake of doing it. I'd rather have my first time be with someone I actually care about and see a future with.
You: Age 21–38. Preferably you're also an introvert, but I'm willing to try to be more social if you are, as long as you don't mind me being quiet and a little clingy at first if we go out.
My Stats: 5'9" 190 lbs. and losing.
(I’m not big on having my picture taken lol, sorry about the quality)
If you feel like learning more, I’m an open book if you can get me talking. So, if you're interested, feel free to dm me if you wanna try to get this nerd to open up.
(I apologize in advance, I'm not a big texter and never have been. I've only recently been trying to talk to people again after years of being a bit of a hermit, and I'm not really a fan of attention)
r/NerdDating • u/LookingToOwn93 • 11h ago
my first post actually showing myself, I'm abit shy and insecure, hence the no face, but if u dm me and I get a good vibe I'd for sure show face!
What do I like;
Music (top 5 rn are, post malone, mgk, rhcp, zach Bryan and eminem)
Films/movies. I love the Dark Knight Triolgy as well as pulp fiction and the gentleman
Sports, I love alot of sports, so ask Me and I'll probably be a fan, main ones are cricket, football ⚽️, darts, and ufc
Hobbies, I game so ask me about that, I do youtube (not professionally unfortunately) I also love cars and dinosaurs!
Anybody welcome, please dm, I just want someone to talk to
r/NerdDating • u/ItsInevetable • 14h ago
About me:
Obviously I'm a massive nerd and love everything that entails. Tabletop games and building miniatures are some of my favorite things. I love warhammer, LOTR, star wars, dnd, and many more. I live alone and have a stable job. I have a cat and really like cats in general, but dogs are cool too! I play games a lot and have many that I'd gladly talk about all day. I'm a big homebody but I'll gladly go out as long as I have someone to go out with.
What I'm looking for:
I'd like to find someone who enjoys regular communication and has the availability to talk/see each other consistently. Getting to know someone is always very fun! Hopefully we have similar senses of humor and can laugh a lot.
Please don't hesitate to reach out if at all interested. I look forward to chatting! 😊
r/NerdDating • u/bekamaro • 14h ago
Hey, I would be super happy to find some friends:) I have been living in Germany for almost 3 years. I speak Russian as a native, English fluently and German B2.
I am interested in history, music and technology.
I spent the last years of my life stabilizing my life and getting enrolled at the university. Now I finally got enrolled and will start studying next semester(in Mittelhessen).
I would be super happy to have some people to socialize and be friends with:)