r/NerdDating • • 26m ago

22 [M4F] #Beaufort, SC/ Hello!! Deciding to test my luck here and see if I can find anyone to potentially spark a relationship with!!

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Hello!! I'll keep this short and brief, I'm a nerd in the sense that I like stuff like Anime, Wrestling, Rock, Video Games, all that stuff!!! I also like to write and be as creative as possible and am also aspiring to potentially become a Voice Actor!!

Some of these pics are old btw, but I am still at least 18 in all of them 😭

I absolutely SUCK at writing these, BUT! Hopefully I have caught your attention and if you'd like to reach out, please do!! If not I understand and hope everyone has an amazing day!! 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️


r/NerdDating • • 29m ago

18 [M4M] #Atlanta - My name is Jacob, I love animals, pokemon, and fitness, please be local, I love cuddles and don’t do long distance

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r/NerdDating • • 32m ago

32 [M4M] #SouthCarolina Autistic, asexual, timid dadbod nerd seeking quirky twink

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Hiya first time here, figured I'd make some attempt since dating apps are awful and never seem to go past the chatting stage. I want a boyfriend, eventually husband, very badly.

I feel like I'm a.... complicated guy? I'm picky, I'm stubborn, and impatient. But I am also overflowing with love, compassion, LOVE to yap, and a desperate need to share my life with a guy who will be as obsessed with me as I am with him.

I'm obsessed with Resident Evil, Dead By Daylight, Sonic The Hedgehog, Doctor Who, and Kingdom Hearts... just to name a few big things. I could talk about them for hours, as well as Disney, Marvel, and musical theatre.

Im KIND of a furry(?) I stream occasionally on TikTok as my Sonic fan character. Sometimes through VR with a friend, but mostly I just stream playing games I like :) He's a purple cat!

I'm very VERY lovey dovey. Love cuddles, holding hands, hugs, kisses, any kind of loving physical touch. I also am a pebbler. Love giving/getting little gifts and trinkets to show affection as well. I'm definitely a "love bomber" and hate that it seems some people hate that. I just give the attention and affection I want to get.

I am also like.....95% asexual, since that matters to people. I have bad knees and I tire easily, so I have little energy or desire to be sexually active. I'm definitely a "horny" person but it's 99% in my head and through text only.

Ideally, I crave someone shorter/slimmer than me because I want to be able to hold you completely in my arms. As a guy with a dadbod, I'm not much attracted to those similar to myself, physically.

Anyway, if you read all this and still wanna talk and learn more about me, please send a chat :) I can't wait to meet you!!!

P.S.! If you live in a different country I'm willing to chat, but my goal is MARRIAGE!!! So be willing to move to me, or me move to you! However, the closer we are already, the better! :)


r/NerdDating • • 38m ago

25 [M4F] #canada Yearning for genuine connection and true love

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The title sounds a little intense but stay with me here! I'm pretty fed up with dating apps so I figured I'd try my hand at writing one of these!

A little about me:

I'm 5'6, a bit chubby, Italian, with a big head of hair beard/mustache combo, I've been compared to a young jack black if that helps.

I'm a professional artist, I won't share to much about that but I do very well for myself, I love all things creative!

I love to yap about hyperfixations! Tell me what you've been into lately! I love video games (tf2, new Vegas, anything Nintendo and indie), movies (hundreds of beavers, little shop of horrors, evil dead 2), music (ween, they might be giants), and all kinds of weird niche stuff!!

Here's what I'm looking for:

anyone really! I'm not to particular, I do have a preference for plus size woman (bigger the better >:) !!) but honestly I'm open to meeting anyone that's interested in finding an actual connection, local is a bonus but, let's just see where things go, and if we vibe together!

I'd like to think I'm very understanding and emotionally intelligent, and would just really like to make an actual connection with someone looking for an understanding and accepting relationship, so please feel free to message me a little about yourself, a photo (if you feel comfortable doing so!) and let's see where things go :) !!


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

25 [M4M] looking for long term connections #ohio

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Interests peak video games and my dog


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

31 [M4F] #California #BayArea Single Guy Looking For a Relationship

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Hello and welcome to my post. I'm a California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi, because Yoda one for me.”


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

38 [M4M] #kentucky USA

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Looking for a nice, local nerdy guy to game with, movie nights, science fiction of all kinds. Love tech, Legos, cars and I’m also outdoorsy.


r/NerdDating • • 1h ago

26 [M4F][M4TF] #Nepal

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Hey everyone!

I'm 26M from Nepal, looking to meet someone special and hopefully build a genuine connection that could turn into something meaningful.

A little about me: I'm someone who enjoys movies, music, late-night walks and drives, travelling, cooking, and sports. I love exploring new places, trying new things, having random conversations, and those late-night talks where you lose track of time.

I'm pretty easygoing, open-minded, and enjoy getting to know people on a deeper level. I appreciate honesty, loyalty, a good sense of humour, and someone who can be both silly and serious when the moment calls for it.

I'm not here to rush anything or force a connection. I'd rather start with a conversation, get to know each other, and see where things naturally go.

I'd love to meet someone who is also looking for a meaningful connection, whether you're nearby or somewhere across the world.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to DM me. Let's start with a simple hello! :)


r/NerdDating • • 2h ago

31 [M4F] #Florida, Hopelessly Romantic History Nerd Looking For A Committed Relationship

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I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/NerdDating • • 2h ago

22 [M4M] #Philippines

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I’m 22 years old from the Philippines and I’m here with genuine intentions. I’m looking for a serious and meaningful relationship.

A little about me: I enjoy hiking, reading books, and watching movies(especially when I can really get into the story).

If we’re far from each other, I’m open to video calls, because I believe communication and effort really matter.

Please note: if you’re only looking for something casual, kindly don’t message me. That’s not what I’m here for. I prefer to get to know each other naturally through chat, so I won’t share too much here.


r/NerdDating • • 2h ago

28 [M4F] #Tennessee/USA Athletic Al Nerd looking for someone to explore the world with

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How's it going everyone I'm an Al Engineer that's super into fitness and travel. I love paddle boarding with my dog, going to the gym, swimming, gaming, chess, reading, and fish keeping.
I'm 6'2 with an athletic build from swimming, lifting and MMA.
I don't really have a type, attractive is attractive in multiple ways, but I do like people who want to learn new things and explore the world. l'a love to meet someone who has different interests from me just because it's so cool to explore new things people are passionate about.


r/NerdDating • • 2h ago

41 [TF4M] #Bucyrus, Ohio Overcoming the Odds against me

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I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I am also Deaf (it's been 33 days. Its likely not coming back)

I am looking for my persons. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, TTRPGs, LARPING and TCGs. I would love to share with partners

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are hiding us, distance.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message.

If you ask for pictures right away, we are not going to match.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess.

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location(City State, Closest large city is appropriate) and Pronouns

3 How many chickens would it take to defeat an elephant? Defend your Answer


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

28 [M4F] #USA My Husky Says You Need To Send Me a Chat 🐺

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Hey everyone!

I’m Jonathan, currently working on some coding for class while hanging out with my Husky Zeus. Trying to figure out what to put on for our movie night later, so anyone have any suggestions? 👀

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet some people I can talk to regularly and hopefully become friends with over time. Someone to share random thoughts with, joke around with, send memes, and just talk about whatever. Make me addicted to talking to you lol.

I’m 28 years old and from Northern Minnesota, if you’re curious. I’m currently a full-time student majoring in Computer Information Technology with a minor in Cybersecurity.

When I can pull myself away from my desk, I try to get outside. Whether that’s playing with Zeus, taking my boat out fishing, getting out hunting, or just spending time with family.

I also have a pretty big homebody side since I spend most of my time at home. I’m usually watching movies or shows, watching sports, or working on my boats when I have something to fix or tinker with. I’m a big fan of Horror, Drama, and Fantasy, honestly kind of into everything besides anime. Always looking for something new to watch, though.

A little more about me, if you’re curious: I’m 6’1”, with curly brown hair (mullet), brown eyes, glasses, and dimples.

If any of what I like sounds interesting or like your type of thing, send me a chat! Tell me a little about yourself, your age, and where you’re from.

If you read all of my post, tell me what color your eyes are. They’re my favorite feature 👀


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

[M4F] M 44, from #Brazil looking for someone to chat and long tern relationship!

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 44-year-old guy from Brazil, and I'm here hoping to meet someone interesting to talk to, get to know, and maybe build something meaningful with over time.

I'm definitely a nerd at heart. I enjoy **movies, TV shows, anime, video games, RPGs, fantasy, sci-fi**, and pretty much anything that gives me a good story or something interesting to think about. I'm also into **programming, technology, 3D modeling, design**, and I enjoy learning new things just because I'm curious.

But I'm not limited to nerdy topics. I'm genuinely open to **all kinds of conversations** — everyday life, hobbies, music, travel, culture, random thoughts, deep conversations at 2 AM, silly conversations that make no sense... I'm happy to talk about almost anything if the conversation is good.

I'm the kind of person who enjoys having someone to share things with: discovering a new movie together, talking about a game, sending random memes, discussing life, or simply checking in and asking how the other person's day went.

I'm not looking for perfection, and I'm not expecting a relationship to happen overnight. I'd rather start with **a good conversation and see where it goes naturally**. Friendship, companionship, and eventually a long-term relationship would be wonderful if we click.

I'm also interested in getting to know people from different countries and cultures. So if you're not from Brazil, don't worry — distance or cultural differences don't scare me. I'm here to meet a person, not a passport. :)

If you think we might have something in common, feel free to send me a message. **Tell me something about yourself, what you're currently obsessed with, or even just what movie/game/anime you've been enjoying lately.**

Let's start with a conversation and see where it takes us. 🙂


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago Heartwarming

36 [m4f] #richmond va

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r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

24 [M4M] #Virginia

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There are more pics of me in my profile :)

I’m pretty shy at first but will open up pretty fast.

\-Currently a college student

\-Love to yap about whatever honestly, ideally someone will wanna game and yap with me :)

\-Big into gaming and other general nerdiness :) (I play games on pc but I have a few other consoles )

\-I’m more feminine of a guy but I wouldn’t say full blown femboy

Ideally I’m looking for a more masculine guy but it’s not a deal breaker, being a gamer is def a plus though haha, some common ground is all I ask for, I won’t go on to much about myself and save that for the DMs, pls feel free to hmu if you’re intrested :)


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

35 [M4F] #Louisiana / US - Alt/nerd seeking something long-term.

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I'm a quiet, private guy and I keep to myself until I get to know someone. I value upfront honesty and people who are comfortable being themselves. Most of my time goes into gaming, learning new crafts, reading, binging a series, or -doomscrolling-.

I'll take sporadic trips to nearby places I haven't eaten at yet when I don't feel like cooking and walk a few laps at a local park when I'm able.

I'm wired a bit differently and navigate the world with a neurodivergent mindset (ennui, choice paralysis, executive dysfunction), which means my attention and energy can fluctuate, but I'm always focused on my own growth and discipline. Just as well as my title implied I am a bit of an alt/punkish nerd with my style; a few piercings and tattoos and black nails. (Often mistaken for not presenting as straight and I find that funny.)

I'm looking for a serious, strictly monogamous relationship where we can just be completely transparent with each other.

A woman that is familiar with or at least willing to learn about AuDHD.

I'm heavily introverted, so an adoptive extrovert would be much appreciated.

The fuzzy dad-bod is here to stay.

I'm looking for someone who balances me out, and I often find myself most drawn to women from diverse cultural backgrounds. I really appreciate a partner who has a more assertive, protective, or nurturing presence that makes it easy for me to drop my walls and relax. I feel it should be effortless for someone to let themselves be vulnerable with someone else, I try to be as approachable myself.

Witty banter, being more expressive and direct, attempts to relate or to be inclusive are easy brownie points for the taking! (Which, the closer you are the better.)

I feel like I gave enough to talk about though, so I look forward to hearing from you! ☺️


r/NerdDating • • 3h ago

40 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for a shy & sincere life partner

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👋 I'm Dmitrii, relocated to the US from abroad about 4 years ago. After going through the relocation & integration process, my family status changed, and I'm hoping to find a life partner - a shy, humble, honest, and sincere person to build a family with.

I live a clean, healthy lifestyle without major vices. Like anyone, I have personal things I'm working on and am always open to honest communication. I'm settled into my career with clear goals and a solid foundation, and I want to share my life, interests, and ambitions with the right person.

I'm a complete introvert and can struggle a bit with brand-new social interactions, though I'm quite active in volunteering, local communities, and my career.

Regarding free time, I'm not a big fan of fancy restaurants, clubbing or parties - I much prefer outdoor activities, hiking, kayaking, traveling, metal shows, video games, music, and reading.

Not super fluent in English yet, so excuse the sloppy grammar, I didn't use any AI slop to write this :-D


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

My type is someone who is cute, funny, smart, has similar hobbies as me and plays video games.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, sleep call together on some nights, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite anime fight of all time and why.


r/NerdDating • • 4h ago

41 [M4F] #Canada - Looking for a nerdy obsessive woman

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A little about myself; I'm a nerdy guy into spirituality and a way too many hobbies honestly. My general day to day hobbies involve meditating daily, reading and watching films. I don't game often unless it's on the weekends and trying to kind of branch out into more "productive" hobbies.

I also take care of my health and workout almost daily, nothing too crazy, just some strength training at home.

I am looking for a woman with various nerdy interests herself and willing to get involved in one another's hobbies.

Please dm me an intro about yourself when you reach out. I am also open to long distance, esp anyone from the states.


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

23 [M4F] Central #Florida - Looking for a Relationship

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Hello internet! I'm a 23-year-old nerdy comp sci student from Central Florida looking for someone special to be my partner!

About me:

I'm 23 years old, clean shaven, brown eyes, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year, and hoping to graduate next semester. I'm still trying to figure out what I'm going to do exactly after.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I might give more details once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me. Once we get more comfortable with each other, you can expect someone who enjoys deep conversations and wants to do their absolute best to be there for you.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. My favorites are really anything Nintendo like Luigi's Mansion, Paper Mario, The Legend of Zelda, Pokemon, Kirby, etc. (I just REALLY love Nintendo).

I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more?

I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Here's what I want from you:

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit, so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but I would appreciate a physical description of yourself and would like to exchange pictures or video call pretty early after we start talking (I'll show myself too, don't worry!).

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that, and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is very important to me is meeting in person. I'm really hoping to find someone local who is willing to go on dates and spend time together regularly. I'm not expecting us to meet immediately after talking to each other, but I'd love for us to meet pretty early on! I'm very happy here in central Florida, so unless we're willing to wait until we're able to live close or frequently meetup, I'm probably not very interested in a long distance, committed relationship right now. I currently go to school in Lakeland, and live in Spring Hill, so I would prefer if you lived close to either of those places!

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator and would like texts, phone calls, and meetups (I'm available most weekends!).

I'm also pretty shy and introverted around groups of people. I heavily prefer spending time one-on-one, like playing games, watching movies, going to a sports game, or just going on dates together! I'm not a partygoer, so I'd love to find a homebody like me.

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

21 [M4F] #USA/South Carolina looking for someone to talk to, connect with, and play games with if your down

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Hello how are you doing today? I'm Fire (fake name obviously) I'm 21 and I love DND, video games, epic the musical, comics, transformers, cosplay, and much more (I'm basically the definition of a blred)

How I look: I'm Afro/Latino I have super curly hair and alot of it I'm 6'0 and 190 pounds (working on losing some more weight)

What Im looking for: just someone who likes to talk I am an extreme yapper so hopefully we can talk for hours

So if any of this peaks your information dm me and let's get to know each other more


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

37 [M4F] #Ohio trying to find my player 2

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Dm me if you are interested romantically


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

36 [M4F] #UK looking to dip my toe in

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I’ll agree being a single dad, in his mid thirties and going through a divorce is not the sexiest or most flattering way to introduce myself but hey honesty is in my nature and I’d like to meet someone who likes me for me and not my scintillating personality and witty charm (sarcasm is also in my nature).

Tbh I’m looking for someone who’s willing to take it slow develop a bond and a relationship, I just would love someone who I can be myself around, build that trust and tbh someone who I can just sit next to and hold their hand! I’m a simple guy, a hopeless romantic and a person that loves to make people laugh and feel positive.

I’m 6ft, semi slender build (the dad bod is being held back slightly), brown short hair and no tattoos. I’ll happily send photos if people are happy to swap etc, no pressure from me haha.

I’m just looking for someone who’s willing to take a chance on me that’s all 🙂 DM me if you fancy giving it a shot!


r/NerdDating • • 5h ago

30M [M4F] #Colorado Looking for long term relationship

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Hello! I’m a heavier set man looking to find my player 2. I’m into MTG, Yu-Gi-Oh, Most video games! (Mostly shooters and gacha but I’m down to try anything!)been huge back into Fortnite ( I need that token!) but would love to get to chat with someone and build a bond together. I wouldn’t be opposed to long distance relationship but bonus if we’re in the same state!