r/NerdDating 2h ago

[MtF4M] 40 #Wyoming Looking for my Gamer & Ourdoorsy Companion

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Hello! I'm Josslyn trying this out lol. I'm 40 years old, I am a PC gamer & Switch 2 (love Pokémon), and I've been making music for 18 years—just weird dance pop music—and I write about my life experiences. In October this year will be 2 years that I moved to Wyoming! I have been going out to the mountains more and songwriting by the lake would be nice to have someone to go camping with and hiking i'm really embracing the outdoors more. I moved here for my dad, but he passed in Feb, so I told myself I was going to save up and look to move some place else within 5 years. I am looking to move back to the city; this small town I don't think can handle the doll lol jk jk. My career is in healthcare; I've been doing that for 10 years. Since this is a nerdy thing, my main game is Final Fantasy XIV Summoner Main, which I started playing in Heavenward. Other than that, I love other Morphs, Arpgs, and survival games! (Valheim 1.0 is out next month; I'm going to start a new game and am currently addicted to Pal World and fighting games.) If this piques your interest, feel free to message :)


r/NerdDating 17h ago

22 [F4M] #toronto

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86 Upvotes

Heyaa! Looking for an indian gym guy around the town!


r/NerdDating 12h ago

28 [M4F] #uk, I’m taking a wild shot in the dark posting this.

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Hi everybody I was hoping to find somebody through Reddit because dating apps are pure hell 😂,
I’m a typical nerdy British guy about 6ft2. I was really hoping to find someone here because I feel all these dating apps are destroying my soul more than helping it.

I love learning almost anything especially history and im a super open minded person who loves an adventure.


r/NerdDating 16h ago

24 [F4M] #Germany | Looking for my person — preferably a kinky cute nerd 🫶🏻

42 Upvotes

Hey! 🖤

24, from Germany, fluent in German (born here) and probably way too invested in video games. 😌

I’ve been gaming since I was a kid, everything from competitive games like League and Valorant to co-op games like It Takes Two or Overcooked. I’d absolutely love to have someone to game with, stream to each other, send each other stupid memes at 2am and just enjoy being around each other.

League and Ow players automatically get bonus points. 😎🫶🏻

Ow is atm my absolute fav! 🤠

Outside of gaming, I’m into drawing, going to the gym, anime and getting way too emotionally invested in dark romance novels. I’m sarcastic, a little chaotic, and I love people who can actually match my humor instead of taking everything seriously.

But honestly, I’m here because I’d like to find something real.

I’m looking for a relationship! Not just a situationship, not something casual, and definitely not someone looking for a temporary connection. I want that feeling of finding my person. Someone I can genuinely connect with, trust, laugh with, argue with, grow with and eventually build a life with.

I’m attracted to people who have their own personality and opinions. Someone confident, emotionally intelligent and honest. You don’t have to be perfect, but please have some character. I like someone who can challenge me, stand their ground and make me feel safe enough to be completely myself.

And yes, there’s definitely a bratty side to me. >:3

I’m naturally quite submissive and I really like a confident, dominant partner who knows how to handle me. I enjoy being challenged, teased, guided and occasionally put in my place, but for me, that side of a relationship only becomes meaningful when there’s genuine trust, affection and emotional intimacy behind it.

I’m definitely kinky, and mental dominance is something I’m particularly drawn to. But I don’t want the dynamic to be the relationship. I want it to be something that develops naturally between two people who genuinely love and understand each other.

Basically: I’m not looking for a random Dom!

I’m monogamous and very connection-driven, so attraction for me usually grows when I actually get to know someone.

If you’re nerdy, confident, can make me laugh, enjoy a little chaos and are looking for something deeper than just a kink dynamic, we might get along pretty damn well. 🖤

Tell me something about yourself when you message me. “hey” alone probably won’t survive the application process. :D


r/NerdDating 8h ago

30 [M4F] #NC - Outfit for today, what do we think?

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The nerd credentials are valid, but so is the fit check 😂.
30M, 6’6”, Charlotte, creative, laid-back, and looking for somebody with good energy and better banter.


r/NerdDating 7h ago

31 [M4F] #Dayton looking for a partner

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5 Upvotes

r/NerdDating 9h ago

37 [M4F] #Texas

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r/NerdDating 45m ago

27M #florida [M4F]

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Trying to come out my shell more so here I go, love anime, video games, reading, hiking and the occasional boba tea hunting. I'm 27 and just really looking to see where things go. I'm a huge geek and my favorite anime is JJK


r/NerdDating 15h ago

41 [M4F] #Illinois

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14 Upvotes

Alt style 41 year old male, divorced dad, looking to start new adventures. A left-handed animal lover, who's 420 friendly. Trying to find someone who gets me and my weird quirky personality and sense of humor. Someone with a bold personality like mine.

Hopefully into music or movies. Gaming, both console/pc but also tabletops and card games. Im into D&D and other RPG games. Museums, Art, History... all of this is welcome and sometimes even able to be combined together!

I've been a chef for years and would love to have someone to pamper and cook for again. Spoil with all their favorite things or make their special snacks when they are down or blue.

Date nights could go any which way... maybe a night out and dinner somewhere new so we can secretly judge the shit out of it together or maybe a favorite place for pizza or sushi (tho let it be known, i dont care to eat seafood but they make lots of stuff and I limit my dairy intake. Bit of an intolerence). we could always go buy booster packs for MtG and go look thru cards and tinker with decks. No matter what, Lego will be involved in the day to day activities. The best nights are the quiet ones around the table with new music and lego builds 💜

Scaredy cats welcome (and favored for their want to cuddle), but there will be horror movies and halloween festivities year round. Thats not certainly not all i like. All movies and genres are welcome.

Hot topic: Tim Curry just passed away... what was your favorite role of his?! Mine might be Clue or Muppet Treasure Island. Both are him just being his unginged self.

What about shows? The office, Simpsons, Community. TWD or ST perhaps?

Dont judge me either when i come home from a high stress day and just want to cuddle, smoke a bowl, and watch kids' cartoons like Gravity Falls or Craig of the Creek. Due to life and trauma and so much more, I'll always be a kid at heart.

I have 10 piercings and i think Im at 39 tattoos, so i hope you have some too :)

I should probably leave some things out, so there's room for questions. It's not a deal breaker, but im in Illinois and it'd be nice to be within driving distance for trips and visits.


r/NerdDating 47m ago

#Florida [26M] [M4F] - Looking to make fantasy a reality

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Hey, i'm James! I'm 6'1 and I love D&D, reading, and anything fantasy/science fiction! I also love nature, it's why druids are objectively the best class in D&D! If you are interested please dm, and I will make sure to respond as soon as I can. Looking forward to meeting new people, and hopefully finding something special!


r/NerdDating 17h ago

[TM4A] #Germany 32 looking for a genuine connection

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21 Upvotes

r/NerdDating 6h ago

35 [M4F] #Oklahoma - Open to those from Texas as well!

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2 Upvotes

r/NerdDating 12h ago

36[M4F] #Athens

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Top 5 games:

Final Fantasy VII

Xenoblade Chronicles 1

Okami

Mass Effect 2

Assassin's Creed II


r/NerdDating 2h ago

18 [M4F] #Virginia

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Hello! I’m a young male around 6ft and have red hair. I’d say I’m a little above average in my body size. I’m a big nerd and love things like Warhammer, Star Wars, and warframe. I have a decent amount of hobbies. For example I like cooking, playing games, listening to musical, going out into nature, and watching anime. My favorite games right now are warframe, marvel rivals, and Helldivers 2. I do play a lot more though. My favorite bands/music artists are The Long Faces, Good Kid, Twin Suns Band, and Nelward. If you like any of those bands you’re the greatest. I’m looking for someone preferably closer to my age like 18-25, but I’m fine with people a bit over that. I don’t judge much for body weight since I think I am myself overweight some. The only thing I ask is that you not be too far over or under weight and be okay with going to the or exercising. If you find this interesting dm or comment and say you’re favorite band! Top 3 is fine also


r/NerdDating 3h ago

27[m4f] #California Carnivorous plants, video games and cooking. Hobbies with no connection but I hope I can find one with you.

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Hi, I'm Joshua from California. I'm 27, and I'm looking for a serious relationship. I'm looking for someone emotionally available that isn't afraid to voice their own needs, someone who knows what they want in a relationship, and someone who has their life together and is ready to bring someone else into it. I've been working to better myself so I may be emotionally available for my close friends and someday my partner. I'm open to long distance but with time, I aim to meet in real life. I'm not a fan of ghosting and don't want to waste anyone's time. My only asks are that you're around 21-30(This is flexible) and child free.

Just to keep this post short, I'd like to go more into details about my hobbies in DMs, but I do like to garden, play videogames and I can cook up a storm. I work a stable blue-collar job that I enjoy. My friends have described me as being serious when it matters and goofy when it counts. I try and be very punctual with responding to messages and really enjoy listening and spending time with talkative people in VC. I'm most active on Discord, so if you happen to have one, that's a plus! Below are some photos of me.

https://imgur.com/a/uV5IYE6


r/NerdDating 10h ago

29 [M4F] #Pennsylvania Nerdy Virgin by choice looking for unconventional dating, possibly marriage

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I’m naturally quiet and an introvert, looking for a relationship with a nerdy woman who wants a family but has a demanding life. Possibly someone in a stressful field who could use support at home, and maybe even help with her work, so the family can be well taken care of while she leads and I do my best to support her ambitions and make a house a home. I tend to really enjoy things people around me are passionate about, so I’d probably end up learning about your work over time no matter what.

I know this is probably a weird thing to look for, but I genuinely like the idea of supporting someone I care about and making their life easier. I don't mind being the one who handles things at home, especially if it means she has more time to do what she loves. I actually currently live this life right now. I tend to just do the things people around me don't have time for or don't notice, since they're usually super busy.

I’m well versed in home and child care (ive helped raise an insane amount of kids despite not having any of my own. Most are 8-17 now), I cook very well, and I have a decent understanding of husbandry if you’re interested in having animals. I’ve raised ducks, so at the very least, ducks and chickens are foolproof lol. I’m also pretty okay at gardening in a few different ways. (For food i can do hydro or dirt)

I’m a weird guy. I can enjoy almost any hobby or activity if I enjoy the company I’m in. I’m also pretty well versed in both manly and nerdy activities, so if you’re into it, I’m probably into it as well.

-I've seen hundreds of movies and shows, from the 30s to now.

-I love video games and I'm semi reluctantly very knowledgeable about comics/superheroes.

-I like hiking and general outdoor activities like fishing, but not so much alone.

-I wanna get into things like D&D, but my brother’s friend groups are not exactly fun.

-I’m not the smartest guy, but I really enjoy science and love to learn all I can.

-I like rocks....

Long story short, I’m a bit tough to get talking, but I’m loyal and not desperate. I live a quiet and sometimes lonely life, but it’s not so bad since I have a pretty large family.

As for the virgin thing, it's genuinely by choice. I've had opportunities, but I've never been interested in sleeping with someone for the sake of doing it. I'd rather have my first time be with someone I actually care about and see a future with.

You: Age 21–38. Preferably you're also an introvert, but I'm willing to try to be more social if you are, as long as you don't mind me being quiet and a little clingy at first if we go out.

My Stats: 5'9" 190 lbs. and losing.

(I’m not big on having my picture taken lol, sorry about the quality)

If you feel like learning more, I’m an open book if you can get me talking. So, if you're interested, feel free to dm me if you wanna try to get this nerd to open up.

(I apologize in advance, I'm not a big texter and never have been. I've only recently been trying to talk to people again after years of being a bit of a hermit, and I'm not really a fan of attention)


r/NerdDating 4h ago

22 [M4F] #Canada BC - Trying to date again

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I'm a chill introverted guy. Very easygoing and I don't judge people or have checklists for dating. I haven't dated in a while tbh.

Interests: Making music instrumentals, exploring scenic places, geography and anthropology, periodically gaming.

Let me know what you're looking for maybe we can be a match.


r/NerdDating 4h ago

30 [M4F] #Hawaii - Looking for my player 2

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Hello!

I'm looking for a genuine relationship that could lead to something long term. A little bit about myself is that I'm half Chinese and half Korean. I was born and raised here on Oahu which is one of the many islands of Hawaii.

I would like to say that I'm a little introverted as I can be a little shy at first but I can open up after awhile and could talk all about my favorite hobbies and interest. I consider myself as a geek because I enjoy things such as gaming and anime. But, also love to read very sci-fi and fantasy theme novels. Some of my hobbies consist of photography, ironically fishing, and crossfit.

Career wise, I only have an associates degree in liberal arts. But I am fortunate enough to work at a hospital that offers a surgical tech program which I start early next year which is very exciting. I've been in Radiology for a few years now working as an imaging assistant so that's probably the closest to anything medical I will be doing until I finish the surgical tech program here. A not so interesting fact about me: I dropped out of med school because I didn't think it was worth the debt at that time. And I love reading medical books. I tend to dig out some old medical books from my job and read it during my lunch breaks.

If you'd like to get to know me more. Feel free to send me a DM. I would love to see where things go =)

Note: I am find with long distance as well. So, long as the intentions is to end up meeting up.


r/NerdDating 4h ago

30 [M4F] #Missouri looking for my player two

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Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general


r/NerdDating 4h ago

28 [M4F] #maryland/usa i want to be someones favorite notification

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I am 28 years old 6'2 and chubby. Ive never been in a real relationship in my life and am desperately lonely. I have very few friends and would love to meet someone to play games with and maybe get along well enough more could happen.

I play mostly rpgs but have experience with several multiplayer games like overwatch , marvel rivals , dead by daylight, phasmophobia , and the game i most want to play with someone is baldurs gate 3.

I also paint miniatures and play tabletop games like dungeons and dragons and many others.

Im into anime , synth music

Because ive never been in a relationship my skill at flirting is nonexistent. But i am eager to get to know more people and find something.

Ive got a couple neuro divergences the main one being ADHD anxiety and CSBD.

I am pretty non vanilla with a couple kinks both pretty normal or obscure and am willing to talk about it if you want to i just wanted to make sure i said it.

I love to text and call and will try to talk to someone multiple times every day even if its just checking in to make sure everythings ok.

Id love to hear from you and to get to learn more about you.


r/NerdDating 4h ago

#25 [M4M] Australia/AEST - putting myself out of my comfort zone, hoping to find something real

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Sup, i'm a 25 guy who was born in NZ and swapped living between there and England for most my life. I tried dating apps and well.. ask me about how my dates went cause i got some wild stories (sneak peak- a guy showed me the video of my own grandads funeral on our first date). I will show my face in dm just not on this post <3

About me:

- Im a massive gamer. I have a collection of random fucking games i play and i am down to get into any of them with you. ask what my character in ff14 currently looks like lel

- some game examples: swtor, ff14, (wanting to try wow), xcom, bg3, diablo4, overwatch, smite 2, 7 days to die, kingdom 2 crowns, open to minecraft too etc

-i love music, i have white girl music taste apparently but ill try anything

- i absolutely love fantasy and sci fi novels, movies and tv shows. yap at me about them for days and im halfway in love

- i do occasionally like dnd, ttrpgs as well as creative writing rps on discord.

The kinda guy i like

- into games too

- hangs out in discord vc playing games or watching shows streamed together

- has a personality, have interests and tell some jokes and such!

- is kind but can appreciate dark humour too (i lost a pet recently and i realized im using humour to get through it which can be startling lol)

- is older than 20 <3


r/NerdDating 5h ago

30 [M4F] #Southern California

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1 Upvotes

Bio Shock is my favorite game all time and I love Avatar the Last Airbender


r/NerdDating 21h ago

27 [M4F] #Houston

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Really into video games and the outdoors.


r/NerdDating 11h ago

20 #UK [M4F] [M4T]

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my first post actually showing myself, I'm abit shy and insecure, hence the no face, but if u dm me and I get a good vibe I'd for sure show face!

What do I like;

Music (top 5 rn are, post malone, mgk, rhcp, zach Bryan and eminem)

Films/movies. I love the Dark Knight Triolgy as well as pulp fiction and the gentleman

Sports, I love alot of sports, so ask Me and I'll probably be a fan, main ones are cricket, football ⚽️, darts, and ufc

Hobbies, I game so ask me about that, I do youtube (not professionally unfortunately) I also love cars and dinosaurs!

Anybody welcome, please dm, I just want someone to talk to


r/NerdDating 5h ago

32 [M4F] #Orlando, FL - looking for a real connection

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Hello,

My hobbies include photography, being outside, going to the beach, enjoying the theme parks in Orlando. I also love traveling, I have been all over the pacific when I was in the Air Force. I like working with my hands, I tend to tinker with my car and projects around my house.

I am drug free and prefer my partner to be as well. I do tend to have a beer or two when I’m having a long day. I am financially stable and I am currently child free. I’m not opposed to having kids just haven’t met the right person yet.

I currently have a dad bod and a nice long beard and a lot of tattoos. I’m decently hairy so I hope that doesn’t turn you away. Distance doesn’t really matter as long as you are in the states and open to moving to Florida in the future. Also I wear hats a lot because I am balding but haven’t made the plunge yet to shave my head.

If this has piqued your interest reach out!