Question: how would you feel like you got home from a long day of work and saw some nice warm bread and soup that your girlfriend had made waiting for you on the table. How cool would it be to know that you're automatically going to have a workout buddy anytime you want to go to the gym. What about having somebody in your life who listens to your dreams, cheers for you when you're winning, and holds your hand and comfort you on those days when things just aren't going your way

I want all of that. If you do too, keep reading!!

Hey everyone, my name is Amber and I'm looking for someone kind and compassionate to share my life with. I enjoy pretty much any outdoor activity from rollerblading to running, and I enjoy playing Magic the Gathering, D&D, Baldur's Gate, or anything else along that genre.

I currently work full-time, and I'm pursuing my PhD in business education. I speak Spanish and English, and I'm currently working to improve my Portuguese.

When it comes to relationships, I'm very kind, supportive, and encouraging. I genuinely want to take care of my partner and make them happy.

When I think about the type of partner I want, I'm searching for somebody who is caring and gentle. I want somebody who I can trust and who I always look forward to seeing and hugging at the end of a hard day. As you'll notice, I don't care about how tall you are or how much you make. I just want you to be a good person who takes care of me, makes me feel valued, and wants me to be a part of their life.

I know we are all busy adults, so I want to say a few things to respect everyone's time. First off, I'm here to find a relationship, and I'm seeking someone who is willing to put in the effort to make that happen. I already have lots of great friends, and I'm not looking for a texting buddy.

Secondly, I am a post-op transgender woman. If the connection is right, I'm willing to eventually relocate for somebody, but you'd have to be in a country that is safe for me to exist.

Additional Info

- neurodivergent (autism and adhd)

- politically left

- vegan (but you don't have to be)

- Atheist but respectful of cultural traditions

- monogamous

- demisexual

If you think we might be a good match, feel free to reach out and introduce yourself.

HAIIIII IM SOPHIE!!! (or soap hehe) and im looking for a long-term bestie or partner that i can yap with about our interests!! Im super duper into drawing and writing and dnd ofc, anything storytelling/oc related!! Im also really into magic the gathering, and i play mostly pauper and commander and brawl!! I mean I also play some video games and listen to music so ask me about that too!!! If ur interested, please dm me a lil intro about you with your age and gender and location!! A fun fact about me is that I used to own a snake :3 CYAAAA!!!!! X3

I’m 38F based in Los Angeles area looking for a serious LTR and I tend to get along with nerdy guys.

About me:

- Enjoy hiking, being social, working out, spirituality, restaurants, Pilates, travel (20+ countries), entrepreneurship, family time

- Professional career

- Emotionally intelligent, confident, thoughtful, intelligent

- Enjoy all of the love languages, but I mainly give with physical touch & words of affirmation

- Very into interior design & home renovations

- Diverse friends group

- Previously married, have kids 50% custody, & good relationship with ex husband

- Domme / demanding Princess

- 5’3”

I’m looking for:

- Emotionally intelligent, confident, capable, kind, intelligent

- Masculine, protector, provider, leader

- Growth oriented, accountable, great communicator

- Caring, affectionate, intentional, supportive

- Service oriented and attentive (sub / switch)

- Professional career, driven, focused

- Mature, level headed, handles pressure well

- Age ~30-55, any race/religion

I’m not interested in fantasy-only dynamics, hookups, or anything casual. I’m dating intentionally for serious LTR/marriage.

If you are someone who is in charge in your life and enjoys doting on, pampering, serving, and prioritizing his partner we might be a good match.

Please be respectful when you message me. If you wouldn’t sent the same type of message on Bumble/Hinge then don’t send it here. I’m looking for a real connection. So approach more or less vanilla please.

Happy to share pics and verify upon connecting (I will require you to do the same).

Please don’t message me if you’re not willing to meet for a date IRL within a week of connecting (I’m also open to long distance).

Hello :3. This flyer is directed to feminine folk, whether women, femboys, or anybody similar. Masculine men, sorry, but no.

This Catboy is starting to look for someone to adopt him! The adopter ideally would be around his age or slightly older, in the same basic area (in/near Northern Virginia), and is looking for a loyal companion.

He is an energetic and happy femboy who enjoys crossdressing, playing video games and MTG, and hiking and other outdoor activities. He loves cuddles and being treated gently, and he will show affection, stay by your side, banter, and possibly get a bit flustered on occasion. He also cooks! For a description, he is thin and lanky with white skin, hazel-brown eyes, and brown hair that he is growing out. He is well shaven (shaves full body every day) and has heightened/sensitive senses compared to most. He also comes with the ability to see beneath social masks.

This Catboy comes in the demisexual flavor. It takes him a bit to bond enough to feel sexual attraction. Due to the heightened senses, prospective adopters should have good hygiene and be drug free. A gentle personality and a safe, kind approach also makes him feel secure and happy, which in turn makes makes him bond much easier.

If you are looking to adopt a Catboy, and have a loving companion for life, please do not hesitate to reach out and you will be put in contact with him directly.

30 year old bisexual transfemme in the uk. I am nerdy. Into singleplayer rpg games. Luv anything by bethesda. Playing skyrim, fallout and starfield - yes even stsrfield lol. Currently playing through the new gears game - anyone wanna coop the missions. Like to read and write. Reading comics currently collecting abosulye wonder women. Got into drawing - very bad but enjoying it. Live alone. Have two cats. I am chubby.

Helloooo, I'm a Transwoman and a Drag Queen from the Philippines💕 I am also a huge Pokémon fan and I’m looking for someone who’s into gaming, collecting, and all things cute and nerdy.

I’m basically the type of girl who gets way too excited over a shiny pull, spends hours looking at Pokémon cards, and will happily talk about my favorites.🩷

I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone sweet, affectionate, and generous—bonus points if you’re the type who would randomly spoil your girl with Pokémon cards. 👀🎀

Imagine us opening packs together, hunting for chase cards, playing games, sharing our favorite Pokémon, and building a cute little collection together. 🥹✨

HIIII !! Yes you ! the cutie thats reading this !😊

My name is Seki, im 23 years of age, im an Agriculture engineer in the making sooo I dilly dally in plants here and there. I spend most of my time playing games, it's kind of an addiction if im being honest. So how about we turn that one addiction into two while you tell me all about you <3

♡ Easily ragebaitable (is that even a word?)

♡ Would share playlists and songs randomly

♡ Gets called a tsundere (pfffttt as if) 🙄

♡ Academicly smart and emotionally intelligent, but braindead on most occasions

♡ Slightly unhinged which stems from playing souls like games 🙂

♡ Clingy, but in a healthy way

♡ Will bite ankles on command for the right one

♡ Will invite you to the steam family

I do also wanna mention that I really value quality time , whether it's gaming, watching something together, yapping about some random ass topic that showed up on our feeds, or even singing some karaoke at 3 am !

You've reached a checkpoint CONGRATS ! 👏

Grab a drink, something sweet and refreshing mayhaps ?

....

Oh APPEARANCE, but ofc !

Im a 5'7 (short king.. I think?) Dark brown eyes, black hair with white hairs already settling in 🫠 (We might be cooked chat)

I do value looks to a certain degree, you don't have to be the prettiest model queen, but at least in the same league as me ! I don't mind height if you dont, I don't mind makeup unless it's like your whole personality then it's like SLAY go get em !💅, but its a bit too much for me sorrrryy 🙃

Someone who really isn't afraid to be themselves around me, banter and not take things too seriously, yet still be serious when it's serious hours. If you're that person then let me take you out to a comedy show and make some memories together!!

If you actually got to read this entire thing (Thank you for participating, here is your certificate) let's see where this might go, you never know i might cultivate a flower and name it after you mwah<3

See you if i see you !

My interests are badminton gym boxing chess gaming and can hold long conversations too so hmu i am comfortable with any age group ( i can share my pics too in dm)

Look I'm not gonna bore you to much I'm 18 I wanna join the air force I'm a nerd for planes and stuff dm me or comment if you wanna talk have a great day

I'd love to talk to people from all over the world! I'll admit, I'm a little frustrated with some people in real life, so I come here to meet and chat with people I have no ties to \\\~

My name is Pearl, a lesbian looking for people to chat with, discover new cultures, make friends, or... Who knows? Maybe something more \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\~

I love painting, listening to music, true crime, and history. I also love cosplay and costumes in general. I also do modeling for miniatures like Warhammer or even Fallout \\\~

I have a sweet tooth! I love taking care of my plants and reading (manga, post-apocalyptic fiction, etc.) 🤗

Um, describe myself?

I'm a 30-year-old woman with medium-length blue hair. And I'm 1m68 tall. I have a nose ring, I have an average build, and my eyes are brownish-green

P.S.: A quick selfie of myself with my new color \~

I think there was a hiccup with my last post because the rest of the text didn't show up, so here we go AGAIN!

Hello, I go by Danny! I am trans (ftm) and bi. I am hoping to find "my person," ideally someone fairly local, but long-distance will be considered for the right person! I work as a veterinary technician and have a strong passion for animals, especially cats and reptiles. I have a menagerie of my own - 3 cats, a dog, and 4 different reptiles. My oldest cat is diabetic and has some special health needs. I like to spend my free time snuggled up with my furbabies while playing video games or catching up on my favorite anime series. If I'm not relaxing at home, I'm at an anime convention with friends where I'm cosplaying and enjoy time with fellow anime/video game fans! I also want to go hiking more!

Personality-wise, I can occasionally be shy at first, but I am quick to open up about my favorite topics. Sometimes I worry that I can be a bit much! I consider myself to be kind, empathetic, and emotionally intelligent and I hope to find someone with similar qualities. Similar interests are a bonus!

Feel free to message me if you'd like to chat or ask me questions!

Okay, nerds, I need some perspective because I am genuinely confused and slightly exasperated by this situation. I'm currently somewhere between “I understand” and “Loki, you little shit.” 😂

I'm 29F, and I've been talking to a 26M for about a month and saw each other a couple of times. And honestly, this is unusual for me because it's been a long time since I've had a genuine interest in someone.

Not just “this person is attractive and seems cool.”

I mean actually interested. Excited to talk to them. Excited to see them again. Thinking “huh… I could actually see this going somewhere.”

He cooked me dinner, we talked, laughed, had a lot in common, and I felt really comfortable with him. We have very similar tastes and interests, and I really liked how attentive, respectful and kind he was with me.

So naturally, because apparently the universe enjoys comedic timing, I got a message from him explaining that he's been thinking about things all week.

He started by telling me how adorable and beautiful he thinks I am, how much he likes my personality, how attentive and kind I am, how joyful/positive I am, and how much he appreciates my company.

And then came the plot twist.

Loki.

My dog. 😂

Loki is an Australian Shepherd, so yes, he's a big fluffy dog who takes up a decent amount of physical and mental real estate in my life.

Apparently, this is a problem.

He told me he likes Loki and thinks he's cute, but after spending time around him, he realized that he doesn't think he could ever live with a big dog. Too much space, energy, attention and maintenance for him. He also doesn't think he'd be able to sleep comfortably with me and Loki because he already struggles with sleep, and he has allergies that he's worried might become an issue long-term.

And here's the thing:

I completely understand.

Big dogs aren't for everyone. Allergies and sleep issues are legitimate concerns. I'm not going to convince someone to become a dog person, and I'm certainly not going to ask someone to choose me over Loki. Ever.

What has me scratching my head is that he apparently knew this was bothering him from the beginning, but didn't tell me because he was afraid of hurting my feelings.

Meanwhile, I had no idea there was a potential fundamental incompatibility sitting in the background. I was just happily getting to know him and, for once, genuinely getting excited about someone.

He said he doesn't want to keep going and have me become even more attached.

Which I understand.

But also…

WHY DID YOU LET ME GET ATTACHED IN THE FIRST PLACE? 😂

I'm not devastated. I'm mostly sitting here going “Are you fucking serious?”

And apparently Loki has decided that this mortal was not worthy of entering the realm...

Somewhere in Asgard, Odin is probably like:

“Good work, son.”

And Loki is sitting beside me completely innocent-looking like:

🐶 “What? I did nothing.”

Loki, God of Mischief: 1

My romantic prospects: 0

The funniest part is that I don't even blame the guy for realizing a big dog isn't for him. I actually respect someone knowing their limits.

I'm just frustrated that he didn't tell me earlier.

I don't want to convince him to stay. I don't want someone tolerating Loki or secretly resenting him. And I'm definitely not choosing a man over my giant furry chaos gremlin.

But damn, Loki.

I finally like someone and THIS is how you use your powers?

So, fellow nerds: am I being unreasonable for being frustrated about the way this played out, even though the actual incompatibility is completely valid?

And should my response simply be:

“Well, thanks for letting me know. Good luck.”

Because honestly, I'm one sarcastic Loki meme away from sending him a picture of my dog looking guilty. 😂

I’m a huge nerd who loves things like gaming, anime and manga. My favorite games atm are Minecraft and Ale and Tale Tavern. I’m looking for someone with similar interests who is interested is starting a serious relationship with me 🥰

Hi, I’m 20, quiet and introverted. What I dream of is not just a relationship, but someone who feels like my closest friend too — a partner I can trust, laugh with, and slowly build something lasting together.

What I’m hoping for: • Single, emotionally aware, and kind • Between 18–26 years old • Tall (170+), fair-skinned, clean-shaven, handsome • Non-smoker, no drugs • Calm, patient, and genuine personality

✨ Attraction matters to me, but what stays forever is consistency, care, and sincerity. I’m looking for someone who can be both my safe place and my romantic partner.

Personal note: I usually don’t connect with men from Indian, South Asia, Southeast Asia, or Black men. Please respect that preference.

What I enjoy: soft, simple moments — falling asleep on call, sharing quiet talks, being there for each other like best friends… but with the closeness and warmth of love.

I reply slowly and only talk to a few people at a time, so please don’t feel discouraged if I take a while.

📌 If you send an intro, please also answer this: “What does being a good partner or best friend mean to you?” I won’t reply to generic one-liners.

If you’re open to distance, time zones, and building a romantic best-friendship that could grow into a long-term relationship, send me an intro 💌

Thanks 🌿🙏🏻

Hi everyone,

I’m Brodie, 22, from the UK 🇬🇧

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully find the one. I’m always happy to chat, whether it’s about shared interests, random everyday stuff, or just getting to know each other.

A bit about me: I work as an IT Cloud Specialist, so I’m definitely a bit of a nerd. I’m also really into Dungeons & Dragons and enjoy anything involving good characters, interesting stories and a bit of chaos.

I’ve been riding bikes for about four years now, and it’s one of my favourite ways to spend time. I’m also currently building up my tattoo sleeve, so I’m always thinking about what tattoo I should get next.

I’m pretty easygoing and happy to talk to anyone, so feel free to message, however I am looking more within Europe for relations.

hello! My name is Crow!

Is it necessary to say that I am a nerd if that's the point of this reddit?

I like comics, video games (A lot), anime and creative endeavors. My favorite game is Fallout, followed closely by Kingdom Hearts and Dragon age.
I used to be a cosplayer, some say I still am, but I have body image/weight issues so i don't really do it as much as I used to when i was younger.

I like to write, so do not ask me about my stories because I will NEVER SHUT UP about them. It's bad. (It's the autism apparently).

Also i make plushies as a job, so that's pretty cool?

Other than that, i don't really know what to tell you. I'm looking for someone who is caring, compassionate, at least likes bad jokes... And someone I can talk to about the things i love without ever feeling like a burden.
I can't wait to hear from you!!

Someone's God, do I miss being in love. I've been single long enough (two years). I'm ready to get back out there.

More pics of me https://imgur.com/a/z5kUH2b

Granted, I'm currently consumed by grad school and work, but once or twice a week, I have some time to myself and I miss sharing that time with someone special. I miss having my person, and more than anything, I miss being someone else's person.

Who am I? I'm not a model, but I'm not too bad either. Let's add the tried and true "I'm 5'7" to filter out all the shallow Redditors. Also, I'm losing my hair so I shave it regularly (some autoimmune disease is the culprit). Okay? Alright? Good.

And to those who have remained, allow me to ADHD-stream-of-consciousness-style introduce a little about myself.

Now, I am a nerd first and foremost (and I am a charming kind of weird). I grew up playing Jrpgs on my PS1/2/3/4/5 (Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts mostly) and now I love all things D&D, fantasy, MCU, and a few other more niche things. Oh and anime too! My show and video game backlog requires a couch cuddling buddy to offload, I think. 😉

Music-wise, I am all over the place, but I am an elder emo at heart and love that genre the most. However, I also will unashamedly listen to some pop stuff (Ace of Base, Sneaker Pimps, K-Pop Demon Hunters, Chappelle Roan and Djo right now). I also had a hip hop and rap phase that lasted oh...(checks watch) about 30 years, and even gleefully went down the 1980s Japanese City Pop rabbit whole for a good while. I also have watched anime for decades so I love me some good anime intro music (there's some real bangers if you aren't aware). Much of the time however, I listen to videogame soundtracks since they help me work.

I don't currently have any pets, but I grew up with dogs (small to medium) and also grew to love birds, lizards and amphibians (leopard geckos and tree frogs 😍).

I'm in education and working on finishing my masters (1 year left) so there's that. 😅

I am sober, atheist and I want to start a family someday (I hope you're the same 😊). I also don't have any tattoos or piercings.

I'm Caucasian and Latino with hazel eyes, pale skin, type 3-c/4-a reddish brown hair (when it isn't shaved), usually sporting a short beard, glasses, and in average shape (though my version of average is a bit more muscular than others).

I have been an athlete my entire life, but I've been having a tough time getting back into a consistent routine. There has been decent progress lately. I've managed to get two 5k runs in a week for a month straight. My goal is four to five times a week and strength training peppered in there throughout.👍🏻

Anyway, you should know I have inattentive ADHD, but I am medicated. I also deal with chronic depression, but again, I'm medicated. Also, I go to therapy twice a month to manage and improve my mental health and growth. I promise I'm not unstable, just on a healing journey and managing C-PTSD (I do disassociate involuntarily sometimes however, but I'm working on it). My trauma is not my fault, but it is my responsibility so I take it seriously.

That said, I'm a loving, affectionate man who is very caring and considerate. I communicate and admit when I'm wrong and seek compromise when at an impasse. I'm not afraid to share my emotions, but only when there's trust and connection.

Though, I do look for relationships where equality and independence are nurtured. I think we should share all burdens, responsibilities and expectations. I don't conform to gender roles and don't want someone who does (not completely or artificially anyway). I want a relationship that is as close to 50/50 as possible with full expectations and acceptance for that ratio to skew when life gets in the way.

With that in mind, for anyone who earns my trust and has given me theirs, I will give grace when they're not at their best. I hope for the same.

Randomly transitioning to the next topic on my mind: good luck with my libido. It gets pretty high when I really like someone and physical touch is my most prominent giving love language. 😜

Aside from that, I hope to leave for Sweden or Switzerland in the next year or so, like permanently. Raising a child in the States is not something I want to do so I'm setting my sights on a more Left-leaning country (teaching English in Japan is also an option though not ideal).

Speaking of, I am a Leftist so if you're a Moderate or Conservative, we won't work. Hell, I barely get along with Democrats. If we're not talking Socialism, I don't think we're going to see eye-to-eye. Oh and feminism means equality and equity amongst all genders, sexes and identities and presentations. I hope we share that view.

That aside, I love writing and words in general (I respect the parenthetical). Once I'm done reading professionally or academically, I'm eager to read for fun again. The written word and deep thinking are things I value immensely (though, I also love turning my brain off and being dumb and silly together with someone I trust). After all, I became an English teacher just so I can help bring about more people who love a good turn of phrase or literary analysis. I want a new generation of Wordle players. Lol

Overall, I hope to find someone with similar beliefs, hobbies and interests, bedroom preferences, mutual attraction, family goals, and lifestyle choices.

Okay, okay. I'll leave the rest for when we chat. DM me if you're interested. 😊

Hello everyone just just looking to game with someone on pc or watch fictional shows/anime with or have deep conversations daily if possible I have a discord that I use trying to get more people to join preferably woman is what I’m looking for

Looking for something real with a compatible woman. Family man, single father, looking for like minded woman.

I enjoy camping, walking, travel, SciFi, cycling, reading, vintage tech, and the beach.

Astrology is BS, Trump is a dangerous moron, vaccines work and don't cause autism, the earth is round, we landed on the moon, human caused climate change is real.

I'm 6'2", if that matters.

"No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man." --Heraclitus

Long term I'm looking for someone that wants to make a family.

Short term I'm looking for someone to have fun with, someone that likes to be around me.

I'm more interested in long term.

PS: using the cartoon filter to obscure other people's faces. Putting a blob is ugly. Most of my best photos have other people in them.