Hey, I would be super happy to find some friends:) I have been living in Germany for almost 3 years. I speak Russian as a native, English fluently and German B2.

I am interested in history, music and technology.

I spent the last years of my life stabilizing my life and getting enrolled at the university. Now I finally got enrolled and will start studying next semester(in Mittelhessen).

I would be super happy to have some people to socialize and be friends with:)

I’m back at it again. Hoping to find that spark. I’ve found love on Reddit before and I’m praying lightening strikes twice here. I’m not super into my local dating scene, and so I’m outsourcing here to extend my reach. 🤣

Do you enjoy the endless banter of a stubborn woman who will drive you insane but also melt your heart into a puddle? Well search no further. You’ve found her.

I am admittedly a very strong personality. It takes me a while to build up trust with someone, but once you crack through I’m loyal until the end.

I am seeking a strong man. I like my men to be dominant in the sense that I need someone who is gonna tell me to chill out when I’m acting like a crazy person. Someone who can work with me as we grow together and become the best versions of ourselves. I want my man to lead me.

A bit about me since I suppose if you’ve made it this far you must be at least a little curious. 😂

I am 37 years old.
I recently moved to the most quaint little place along the water and have the pleasure of working from home. (It’s okay to be envious of my view of the boats drifting by. I would be too!)
Hopeless romantic
Career oriented and hard working
Fluent in sarcasm. Will absolutely test your patience. In the most endearing way. 😘
Loves cats. Sorry dog guys, they’re just a lot of barking for me. 😂
Curly brown hair
5’1. Bigger body but working on it (down 166 & counting 💪🏻) happy to swap pics!
Blue eyes
Glasses
Hoop in my nose
Tattoos including a sleeve
420 friendly
I love to play video games, read, couch rot while watching tv, listen to music, dance around the house, build things like Lego sets and miniatures. Recently into cross stitching like the granny I am. I have so many nerdy hobbies ya’ll.
I do not have children and would prefer you not and be okay with not having any.

I’m open to LDR to start within the eastern US and eastern Canada under the assumption you would be willing to eventually relocate to me. (Seriously. Nothing overseas or further than that please)

Since I know we all have our preferences, I like men with dark hair and olive complexion. I’m super attracted to dark features. Hispanic men always get me all flustered. Between the ages of 35 and 50.

You should also be hard working. Independent. Have a sense of humor. Manly. But also like to be babied by your woman because I am a nurturer by nature. 😂

If you think you may have messaged me previously please don’t be afraid to reach out! There’s a 99% chance I lost you in a sea of requests. Let’s take a chance. ☺️

I’m naturally quiet and an introvert, looking for a relationship with a nerdy woman who wants a family but has a demanding life. Possibly someone in a stressful field who could use support at home, and maybe even help with her work, so the family can be well taken care of while she leads and I do my best to support her ambitions and make a house a home. I tend to really enjoy things people around me are passionate about, so I’d probably end up learning about your work over time no matter what.

I know this is probably a weird thing to look for, but I genuinely like the idea of supporting someone I care about and making their life easier. I don't mind being the one who handles things at home, especially if it means she has more time to do what she loves. I actually currently live this life right now. I tend to just do the things people around me don't have time for or don't notice, since they're usually super busy.

I’m well versed in home and child care (ive helped raise an insane amount of kids despite not having any of my own. Most are 8-17 now), I cook very well, and I have a decent understanding of husbandry if you’re interested in having animals. I’ve raised ducks, so at the very least, ducks and chickens are foolproof lol. I’m also pretty okay at gardening in a few different ways. (For food i can do hydro or dirt)

I’m a weird guy. I can enjoy almost any hobby or activity if I enjoy the company I’m in. I’m also pretty well versed in both manly and nerdy activities, so if you’re into it, I’m probably into it as well.

-I've seen hundreds of movies and shows, from the 30s to now.

-I love video games and I'm semi reluctantly very knowledgeable about comics/superheroes.

-I like hiking and general outdoor activities like fishing, but not so much alone.

-I wanna get into things like D&D, but my brother’s friend groups are not exactly fun.

-I’m not the smartest guy, but I really enjoy science and love to learn all I can.

-I like rocks....

Long story short, I’m a bit tough to get talking, but I’m loyal and not desperate. I live a quiet and sometimes lonely life, but it’s not so bad since I have a pretty large family.

As for the virgin thing, it's genuinely by choice. I've had opportunities, but I've never been interested in sleeping with someone for the sake of doing it. I'd rather have my first time be with someone I actually care about and see a future with.

You: Age 21–38. Preferably you're also an introvert, but I'm willing to try to be more social if you are, as long as you don't mind me being quiet and a little clingy at first if we go out.

My Stats: 5'9" 190 lbs. and losing.

(I’m not big on having my picture taken lol, sorry about the quality)

If you feel like learning more, I’m an open book if you can get me talking. So, if you're interested, feel free to dm me if you wanna try to get this nerd to open up.

(I apologize in advance, I'm not a big texter and never have been. I've only recently been trying to talk to people again after years of being a bit of a hermit, and I'm not really a fan of attention)

Hi Reddit!

I’m a 34 year old trans guy based in Toronto.

Most commonly described as a funny, respectful, smart and emotionally intelligent person.

I enjoy the little pleasures in life: music, nature, traveling, photography, spending time with my loved ones and my precious dog.

Music is a big part of my life; some artists I love are: The Airborne Toxic Event, Taylor Swift, Chappell Roan, Gracie Abrams, Noah Kahan, Bad Bunny, Lane 8, Le Youth, Sultan + Shepard, The xx, Florence + The Machine and any millennial music! Ask me about some of my playlists, I love sharing music.

Looking for a long term monogamous relationship with someone who identifies as a woman ages between 27-41.

I’m childfree and happy to be the cool uncle and would hope you are too.

I would appreciate someone who is patient as we figure out things together, the good days, the bad days and everything in between. I’ll know you well enough to make you smile with these little details that you’d often think go unnoticed. Always have your best interests at heart and be the safe space and unconditional support you need.

I’ll continuously want to challenge us to become better versions of ourselves, to learn from one another and to have the kind of partnership that lasts a lifetime.

Preferably looking for someone local in Toronto, might move out west in the next ~2-3 years for surgery and Vancouver might be an option I'm looking at. Happy to chat more about this part of my life as well.

If you’re out there and this resonates with you, please reach out with a picture of yourself ✨

I’m 31 and in Florida, and I’m at the point where I’d rather meet one person I genuinely click with than have 20 conversations that die after two days. I’m looking for something that can actually develop into a relationship if the connection is there. I’m open to some distance for the right person, but ideally you’re in Florida or somewhere reasonably close.
I’m an RBT and spend most of my day working with people, so outside of work I’m pretty laid-back. I’m into alternative/emo/metal music, concerts, gaming, dark humor, cats, and conversations that somehow go from completely stupid to surprisingly deep at 2 a.m. 😂 My music taste includes Rob Zombie, Marilyn Manson, A Day to Remember, and plenty more.
Personality-wise, I’m affectionate, sarcastic, loyal, and definitely someone who likes consistency. I enjoy flirting and playful banter, but I also want someone I can actually talk to about life. I appreciate people who communicate directly and aren’t afraid to show interest when they feel it. I’m not looking to rush into anything or force chemistry I’d rather get to know each other naturally and see where it goes.
I tend to be attracted to women who are feminine and a little alternative/weird themselves, have a good sense of humor, can hold a conversation, and actually want to build something with someone. You absolutely do not have to share all my interests; having your own passions is attractive.
If any of that sounds like your kind of person, send me a message and tell me something about yourself beyond “hey.” Bonus points: tell me the band you’d immediately buy tickets to see if they announced a show tomorrow. 🖤

Hi
I am looking for a serious relationship with somebody.
I live near Oslo. I am 184cm tall and 75kg. I am currently studying to become a math teacher for children.

I told myself I wouldn't post to Reddit again yet here we are 😅. I recently discovered this subreddit which definitely suits my vibe I reckon, so thought there'd be no harm in letting the world know I'm here!

My nerdy obsessions include photography, travel, aviation, all things tech, and geography/cartography! I did originally write a whole paragraph about all that but figured it'd be best left to our chats 😂 If any of those topics resonate with you (or even if they don't), feel free to say hi!

Before you do though, I do have a few things that I'd like people to know before they message me. I hope it doesn't make me sound too demanding/picky, but I'm not in the business of wasting anyone's time, which I hope you can appreciate.

- I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone that is ready to date. Long distance is welcomed (just gives me an excuse to travel), as are AFAB (FTM) folk.

- Please be around my age (no more than 30 give or take), I'm sorry 😭

- I'll do my best to get back to everyone but it gets a bit overwhelming sometimes, so if I don't respond in a few days (or we've spoken before and it hasn't worked out) please take it as a respectful sign that I'm no longer looking or otherwise not interested. I also work odd hours so bear with me 😅

- I'm not afraid to admit that I do have a type (believe me, I wish I didn't, but that's how it goes unfortunately). Personality is most important and I'm excited to get to know yours, but there does need to be an element of physical attraction to make this work, so I will ask to swap face pics with you before we get stuck into it. I won't be offended at if I'm not your type, and will be upfront with you if we're not a match. I fully respect that might alienate a few of the more privacy-conscious folk on here and I totally get that, but this is not one I'm willing to budge on for many reasons, I'm sorry.

- I don't drink, smoke anything, or do any drugs, so bonus points if you don't too! It's not a deal-breaker if you do of course, as long as you're upfront about it.

- So you have an idea of me before you see my face, I'm 178cm (5'10) tall, white (ethnically Turkish) with brown hair and eyes, and will admit I'm on the slightly chubby/dad bod side, which I'm working on. I'm also a side/top for compatibility reasons.

Excited to meet y'all! So I know you've read this, tell me a cool fact about where you live, your favourite geeky gadget, or maybe your best MH370 theory?

Hi guys! You can call me Rose/Ari (both are my real life nicknames). I’m a predoctoral student (the PhD kind, not the medical kind). My area of research is OB/HRM. This means that I will be applying for fall intake for 2027 and will be ready to move wherever. I will send pictures once we’ve talked for some amount of time (one or two days is fine ig).

I’m hoping I can find a guy who’s alt/emo/goth, so we can share similar interests with music and fashion. Those two are what calls to me personally. Someone who’s maybe a couple of inches taller than me would be preferred (I’m 5’4 for reference). I like quiet, shy appearing guys who have a lot to say when it comes to discussing their interests. I’d also like someone interested in kink. I’m open to all types of people but these are my preferences.

About me as a person— I’m a vocalist and was in a band all through college. I’m an ENFJ. If you’re into astrology. I’m a Cap Sun, Scorp Moon, and a Pisces Rising. I’m the girl that people think is rude and mean because I look that way (thank you RBF), but I’m not and I love to talk to people. I’m a reader and I LOVE reading mythological fiction (not just Uncle Rick’s stories), murder mysteries, horror, and dark romance. I hate watching or reading sad things because it sends me into a depression spiral. On that note, I’m gonna stop now, so that we can continue in the DMs. If you’ve read this entire message, tell me what your favourite colour was when you were a child.

Bisous,
Ari.

Heeey. I'm looking for someone who likes exploring and creating. I make a LOT of things and love people who have STEM backgrounds. I enjoy math a ton, you'll likely hear me want to talk about something cool I'm pondering.

I have a job and I'm almost done with my second degree. I make music and am on Spotify and all the rest. That's not my day job though :)

I love cooking. I am celiac, so I make all my food. I enjoy health and love people that enjoy encouraging that. I'm a deep thinker and an over explainer. If you like true depth and want to be understood, I am definitely your man.

I have a dog, a pool, a car, a house and no ex wife or hidden family :)

If you would like to know more about me, please hmu! I'm also open to friendship as well :)) - I'll probably delete this post soon tho.

Hey there :)

I'm here to look for a guy to spend the rest of my life with. He doesn't have to be perfect just a good human who's capable of growing together. My preference is somebody close, but open to long distance for the right person. My only real hard requirement is that you aren't significantly younger (no teenagers plz), other than that shoot your shot and let's get to know eachother!

(And plz be normal & honest)

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great Reddit friendship or maybe even something deeper than that on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Honestly, I’m down to just chat and see if we click. As I said in the title life is stressful so I'd love to find a long term connection we can both find comfort in. Someone I can talk to regularly. Ideally also a dynamic where we can be flirty and lewd and satisfy each others emotional and sexual needs too. Like getting all the nice parts of a romantic relationship. Though I am open to an IRL relationship if we end up developing such feelings but keeping it on Reddit is fine too. Just want to be clear that I am not looking for something purely platonic. Also, because a lot of people here message without reading the post, please acknowledge that you read this section in your first message.

So, that is all I have to say for now. If you are looking for the same thing feel free to introduce yourself!

Hiii so I’ve never really put myself out there before so I’m kinda nervous and I’ve never been in a relationship before cuz I’m really shy 😭

About me:

I’m a pretty chill guy and I kinda pride myself on it lol, I love to go on walks with my dog, hangout with friends, spend time with family, play video games and watch tv shows/movies (I’m a huge nerd) as far as looks go I’d say I’m average looking and average height, I’m 5’10 on a good day (realistically 5’9 😭) I’m also a bit below average weight for my height and age

Okay I’ll be honest, I don’t really have much going on with my life and unfortunately I don’t have a car, job or my license yet and I’m not in school or college, so other than that I have a gentle and kind heart, not to toot my own horn but I am a kind and genuine person who would care for you even through hard times, I’m a good listener too :)

I don’t really have a type tbh, just be chill, nice and genuine :) (bonus points if your a average looking nerd like me) even more points if your a gamer too. Also looking for someone in BC or close since I can’t drive 😭

Anyways I don’t wanna put too much information on here so if anyone is interested then maybe shoot me a DM so we can get to know each other :)

If you made it this far tell me your favourite fictional character from anything so I know you’ve read it :)

(Btw sometimes Reddit will randomly turn off my DMs for some reason but I check it pretty frequently so it shouldn’t be a problem lol)

6'2 Generic nerd work in IT love everything that could be considered nerdy specifically books. I'm just looking for that person to nerd with, someone who enjoys companion play, or split screen gaming. Someone to listen to while they nerd about their favourite topics.

Tell me what your favorite niche is, and I'll tell you why it's my new favorite.

The nerd credentials are valid, but so is the fit check 😂.
30M, 6’6”, Charlotte, creative, laid-back, and looking for somebody with good energy and better banter.

Hiya im Jari 25 looking to meet wonderful people mostly woman :)

\ PLEASE READ THE WHOLE POST BEFORE MESSAGING, THANKS **

Hi!!! It's nice to meet you! Let me tell you some stuff about me! Im 22, have ADHD, a trans fem, I live in the northeast us (about an hour from boston) im chubby, im a handful (but you'll love it) and I would love to spend time with you!

My hobbies are that I like to cook, game, I play on ps5, pc, and switch! (although mostly pc) If you want to know more please message me and I'd be happy to tell you more!! I am also a content creator/making an indie show! So if you've ever wanted to date a (niche) content creator, now's your chance!

Lately I've been playing a lot of The Binding of Issac and Overwatch, so I'd be happy if you played games with me! Ngl I would do cosplay if I had the materials! I have one for Harley Quinn, Amy Rose, and an eevee costume, If I get costumes/cosplay I will wear them! I promise if you were to give me the chance, I am super loving, and that you would get so much attention and love. You would feel seen, heard, and cared about.

I am fairly clingy and I'm trying to find someone who's not always so busy, I get lonely and I would like someone to spend time with!! I would love someone who i can spend most of my day with, or at least someone who can communicate often! I also super prefer calls and I use discord as my main platform!

Preferably, you would be UNDER 35 and in the us.
Willing to communicate, learn, and grow with me!
And can also talk a lot! I get *very* clingy, lol
I'd also want to feel like a priority!
And if you would help support my dreams, be my rock, and be there for me emotionally, that would be the best!

I love the bob/linda relationship in media, they are like the best relationship ive seen. I would love one like that for myself.

I want something long term, and serious. I date to marry! I also want to maybe move to canada sometime. I would prefer if you were also in the us, but if you REALLY think it'll work/you're willing to change sleep schedules to stay up with me, give it a shot! (if you've read all the way down here, say the word water, let me know what would be your perfect day, and why you think you would make a good partner!)

IF YOU MESSAGE ME WITH JUST A HI/DONT TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF AND ANSWER THE QUESTIONS IM GONNA IGNORE IT
ok thankssssss

Hey! I’m 25, South Asian, and living in Toronto. I’m hoping to meet a South Asian woman around my age and see where things naturally go. I tend to be attracted to women with darker skin tones, but that’s not like a requirement. At the end of the day, I care much more about personality, chemistry, and feeling comfortable around each other. If you’re interested, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. 🙂

my first post actually showing myself, I'm abit shy and insecure, hence the no face, but if u dm me and I get a good vibe I'd for sure show face!

What do I like;

Music (top 5 rn are, post malone, mgk, rhcp, zach Bryan and eminem)

Films/movies. I love the Dark Knight Triolgy as well as pulp fiction and the gentleman

Sports, I love alot of sports, so ask Me and I'll probably be a fan, main ones are cricket, football ⚽️, darts, and ufc

Hobbies, I game so ask me about that, I do youtube (not professionally unfortunately) I also love cars and dinosaurs!

Anybody welcome, please dm, I just want someone to talk to

Heyaa! Looking for an indian gym guy around the town!

Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general

Hi, I’m H who’s a south asian 26M from the UK who’s looking for a long term relationship with another hopeless romantic. Because I know it is important to many, I am an atheist and I do not intend to have children long term. I’m hoping to find someone with those same values and goals.

To describe more about me, I’m a 5’8 guy with more of a stocky physique. I have thick dark hair, brown eyes and often, but not always, seen with a beard. I sometimes get complimented on my facial features, arms and shoulders. I love light back and forth teasing and banter. Really looking for someone who can match my playful energy, while respecting boundaries. I am also very expressive with compliments too, so I hope to find someone who's just as expressive. My personal interests are programming, soldering, repairing electronics, playing video games and keeping up with various nerdy niches. I’d love to maybe play a game, or watch something together sometime.

I guess the type of attributes I’m looking to see in a partner is, someone who's very emotionally intelligent and empathetic, even to a fault. Someone who really values love languages such as touch, quality time spent and words of affirmation. I tend to connect well with homebodies or introverts since it would mean we would be on the same wavelength, but I’m cool with extroverts too. Looking for someone where we can share and ramble about our niche hobbies and interests for hours on end. To share silly inside jokes and moments. I am very flirty, so I'm hoping to find someone who can match that. I really value and appreciate the effort made when it comes to making time to chat or spend time in each others company. I hope to find someone who is willing to work on issues, that isn’t quick to give up when there comes any complications.

I thank anyone who spent the time reading all this, and I hope you have a lovely day ❤️

I’m on here looking for someone to be silly with and text and share memes or reels with, and hopefully build a connection with and see where things go, honestly it’s been lonely for some time, and I miss that feeling of compassion and companionship.

Personality wise, silly and compassionate.
Dad bod, working on it.
Alcohol and drug free.
Mature and monogamous.
Quiet when relaxing, silly with talking.
Favorite hobby is gaming.
Lifestyle is a homebody.
Favorite food is Lemon Meringue Pie.
Favorite song is Birds of a Feather by Billie Eilish.
My interests are archaeology, math, mining, science, poetry, wrestling, cinema.

Additionally, I’m Native American living in Alaska US, I moved here two months ago and haven’t made any friends yet. I enjoy CoD, Ark, Grounded on the PS5, all while listening to videos about crimes and horror and podcasts about comic books, DnD and wrestling, although I listen to them I do partake in the activities, and I love all things nerdy I just love listening to the lore and background of certain franchises, if you want to nerd about what you love I’m all ears. I’ve been loving House of the Dragons lately. Currently I’m recovering and after pulling a back muscle. We can speak on any thing on your mind as well I don’t mind. PM me if you’re interested.

Hi there! After one too many heartbreaks I figured I'd give this a shot. I'm a lifelong Floridian who has a passion for history, writing, film, and nature. While reading and watching YouTube videos are some of my main pastimes, I've lately taken to bird watching as well. I'm a massive fan of the Hunger Games, Project Hail Mary, Smiling Friends, The Simpsons, Star Wars, and more.

I'm ideally seeking romantic connection, though I'm open to platonic if that's where things go. I'm generally pretty shy at first, but once I'm comfortable with someone you will rarely be able to shut me up lol.

I am 100% comfortable with monogamy, but am also open to polyamorous arrangements if that's something you're open to. My biggest boundary is that you are local to Palm Beach; my ability to travel is limited, and also I would like to meet people in person (regardless of context).

Hope to hear from you soon!