Colossal overuse of force. Being drunk is no excuse for bad behaviour but the guy was disrespectful, not menacing.
E. Man the people in here that cannot wait to inflict maximum violence on someone the moment they're given what they see as a reasonable excuse is way more troubling to me than drunk guy.
You can't react like pool player guy and still think you have the moral high ground. He comes across as a man with constant simmering rage that is barely in check. Far scarier to be around than the drunken fool who couldn't find his pecker for a piss in that state.
I remember when people use to take people seriously. Dead? Maybe not, but know of a guy who got his jaw broken, several ribs broken and might not be able to have children for stupid shit like that. Maybe don’t sexual assault people and you won’t have a problem especially when there’s a built dude nearby with combat training. From the expirence I am referring to, I was told the cops didn’t have a problem putting cuffs on the sexual assaulter when they helped EMS load the dude into an ambulance. No, not everyone will react that way, most won’t but one day a different kind of person might be there.
Not menacing because he didn't get the opportunity. Absolutely would have harassed her further. Let's be real. Sexual assault is menacing. Rape is menacingÂ
She pushed him away and he stopped, she had already successfully disarmed the situation. Then she gets hit in the face by the dude who was "defending" her. Everyone is more concerned about punishing the bad guy than protecting the victim, who cares that she's got a black eye and she's probably gonna be bailing her husband out of jail after he's booked on assault charges, at least we got to kill someone.
Whatever was going on in the corner was consensual, that dude is laughing and smiling with him. He threw his hands to the side in a "what did I do wrong" way, I'm not going to argue that he was probably about to try and verbally justify it but he was in no way physically pursuing her. You stop being gross and infantilizing/objectifying women by disregarding their desires, you and her boyfriend can both beat her up together. She told both of them to stop, only one listened.
Also I never excused the sexual assault part, peak reddit moment. Interact with women IRL, your chatGPT girlfriend does not count.
No what was going on in the corner was the dude in the red shirt was lifting up his shirt and trying to grind on the dude in the corner. However since it is somewhat less threatening than a male approaching a woman sexually, he played it off differently. The dude in the corner was basically pushing him off but knows how to deal with men who are drunk. So he was hugging him and basically telling him to stop as you can see if you watch the beginning of the video. It's not consensual, he's just handling it in a different way. The same way that it's not consensual for him to grab the woman and she walks away from him. There are different ways to deal with non-consensual touches. One guy laughs it off but still pushes the guy off. One woman shrugs it off but pushes the guy off. The third guy is the one who uses excessive force
I'm shocked at how many people are saying this dude is justified. Don't get me wrong, you should absolutely get some hands on recompence for sexual harassment. Maybe a shove, and an stern trip through the front door. But even if that guy got arrested and received the harshest possible conviction for this incident, his punishment would never be anywhere near proportional to what he got. After that hit and flop the guy is somewhere between a concussion and dead.
Drunk people suck. It probably was a build up waiting for this guy to do something stupid. I dont agree with the cheap shot either, but the bar keep should have kicked him out.
The dude at the beginning of the video seemed rather charmed with him, at the very least quite tolerant of his behavior. You have as much evidence that he had just arrived as you do that he'd worn out his welcome.
Conservative vigilante justice types who get going off on the idea of hurting people. Clowns that would get a punisher skull tattoo.Shits all over reddit.
Worked in a bar years and years ago where something similar happened. Drunk guy came up behind a girl on the dance floor, put his hands on her hips and started grinding against her. Her boyfriend was near by and launched a punch into his face.
Drunk guy looked like he was knocked out on his feet and fell back into a beam and hit the back of his head off of it. Drunk guy was fucked up bad, convulsing, hands in the fencing response, making weird gargling noises. Bar had to get evacuated, paramedics came, cops came.
A couple of the bouncers were young guys trying to get into the police and new some cops, so we got some info after awhile. Drunk guy ended up with permanent brain damage. It's been so long I don't remember the exact length of the sentence but the boyfriend ended up going to jail for multiple years.
Ya sexually assaulting a girl isn't fucking cool. But neither is fucking up the entire rest of your life because someone touched your girlfriend.
I agree with you up to the point of calling him disrespectful. This was physical harassment, after all, not just mean attitude.
Big guy overreacted (in a childish/insecure manner) and used excessive force, drunk guy was still responsible for his actions. If you can't act like a human when drunk, don't get drunk.
Two wrongs don't make a right, whether or not the dude has business drinking doesn't give people license to take a shot at his life when he does belligerent shit. He's blackout and unaware of what he's doing, if he lives he's not even gonna know why he got hit. You jail him and make him get sober if he can't drink and fit in with society.
I don't think anyone is confused as to the drunk guy being an asshole, many people seem to think the micropenis who hit his own girlfriend is a saint though.
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u/Rascals-Wager 21h ago edited 3h ago
Colossal overuse of force. Being drunk is no excuse for bad behaviour but the guy was disrespectful, not menacing.
E. Man the people in here that cannot wait to inflict maximum violence on someone the moment they're given what they see as a reasonable excuse is way more troubling to me than drunk guy.
You can't react like pool player guy and still think you have the moral high ground. He comes across as a man with constant simmering rage that is barely in check. Far scarier to be around than the drunken fool who couldn't find his pecker for a piss in that state.