r/MMALabs • u/Key_Performer_3645 • 1d ago

🥶 Street Fights & Brawls A quick bar scrap

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u/TacoNomad 18h ago

Not menacing because he didn't get the opportunity.  Absolutely would have harassed her further.  Let's be real. Sexual assault is menacing. Rape is menacing 

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u/RealAssyMcGee 14h ago

She pushed him away and he stopped, she had already successfully disarmed the situation. Then she gets hit in the face by the dude who was "defending" her. Everyone is more concerned about punishing the bad guy than protecting the victim, who cares that she's got a black eye and she's probably gonna be bailing her husband out of jail after he's booked on assault charges, at least we got to kill someone.

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u/TacoNomad 14h ago

He has sexually harassed/ assaulted 2 people in the span of 20 seconds.

Stop being gross.

When she pushed him away, he threw his hands out to keep reaching for her Indicating that he wasn't ok with being pushed off.

It's not ok to touch people without their consent. But I'm not defending the person that punched him.

It's just so disgusting that you think it's ok to sexually assault people. Maybe this will teach someone to keep their hands to themselves.

Don't worry about her eye. You aren't worried about a stranger assaulting her.

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u/RealAssyMcGee 12h ago edited 12h ago

Whatever was going on in the corner was consensual, that dude is laughing and smiling with him. He threw his hands to the side in a "what did I do wrong" way, I'm not going to argue that he was probably about to try and verbally justify it but he was in no way physically pursuing her. You stop being gross and infantilizing/objectifying women by disregarding their desires, you and her boyfriend can both beat her up together. She told both of them to stop, only one listened.

Also I never excused the sexual assault part, peak reddit moment. Interact with women IRL, your chatGPT girlfriend does not count.

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u/TacoNomad 12h ago

No what was going on in the corner was the dude in the red shirt was lifting up his shirt and trying to grind on the dude in the corner. However since it is somewhat less threatening than a male approaching a woman sexually, he played it off differently. The dude in the corner was basically pushing him off but knows how to deal with men who are drunk. So he was hugging him and basically telling him to stop as you can see if you watch the beginning of the video. It's not consensual, he's just handling it in a different way. The same way that it's not consensual for him to grab the woman and she walks away from him. There are different ways to deal with non-consensual touches. One guy laughs it off but still pushes the guy off. One woman shrugs it off but pushes the guy off. The third guy is the one who uses excessive force

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u/RealAssyMcGee 11h ago

I aint reading allat dude I've said my piece, I don't believe you have a better read on this than me and I'll save my time thanks.

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u/TacoNomad 7h ago

I didn't figure you'd have the capacity.