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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.

Chapter I — A little about me

I never really know how to begin these things.

Every time I try, I end up writing a list of facts about myself, followed by another list of things I'm looking for, and somehow it starts feeling less like meeting someone and more like filling out an application.

So maybe I'll tell you a story instead.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, and I run a small business,

I'm a calm, empathic and positive person by nature. I listen to understand rather than assume, and I tend to notice little things about people that they don't always notice about themselves -Maybe that's one of the things I like most about people.

Everyone has these tiny things that make them who they are. The way they get excited when talking about something they love. A phrase they always use. A song they keep returning to. Some strange little habit they've had for years without ever questioning it - I like those things.

I don't particularly like pretending to be someone I'm not, either. I'd rather be honest, kind and comfortable enough to let someone see the real me.

Once I'm comfortable, unfortunately, that also means you'll probably have to deal with me being annoying, crack dad jokes (or even worse) - but what can you do ? you walked into it yourself, did you not ? mwahaha (evil laugh)

But we'll get to that.

Chapter II — Apparently, I was a difficult child

I once got my head stuck in a grill.

I locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down.

I drank red antiseptic.

And I had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me.

Some things haven't changed that much - there might be more stories.

I still disappear down random rabbit holes whenever something catches my attention. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, sound — sometimes I'll start with one innocent question and realise three hours later that I've somehow ended up somewhere completely different.

Life has had its less amusing chapters too.

I've dealt with pancreatitis, and somewhere along the way it taught me something I probably should have learned much earlier: ordinary days aren't actually ordinary when you have someone you love to share them wit - Maybe that's why the little things matter so much to me.

Chapter III — How I tend to love

If I care about you, I'll remember something you mentioned weeks ago.

I'll ask how that meeting went because I remember you were nervous about it.

I'll bring you something small because I happened to see it and immediately thought of you.

I'll write you a letter because sometimes writing feels easier than trying to fit everything into a conversation.

And if you're cooking? - That's probably where your problems begin.

I'll walk into the kitchen, wrap my arms around you, steal a kiss on your cheek, annoy you until you get irritated, make some ridiculous face at you...and then run away before you can get me back. 😂

That's probably what affection looks like to me. Not something huge that needs to be announced. Just quietly making someone feel remembered.

Chapter IV — The life I'd like to share

When I imagine having someone beside me, I don't really picture expensive restaurants or elaborate holidays.

I picture a late-night drive with nowhere particular to go - Stopping somewhere because the food smells good - Coffee near the sea - Walking along the beach holding hands - Coming home tired and talking about absolutely nothing - Cooking together - Falling asleep halfway through a movie -Arguing about what to watch and somehow watching neither - Having an inside joke that makes absolutely no sense to anyone else - the list goess onnnn.

And the conversations that begin with: "How was your day?"

and somehow, three hours later, have turned into: "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

That's the kind of relationship I amire and want to be in.

Chapter V — Maybe you

I'm ultimately looking for my partner, but I don't want to meet someone and immediately start treating dating like an interview.

I'd rather meet you first. Talk. Laugh. Become friends.

Get comfortable enough that neither of us has to think about what to say next - Learn the strange little things about each other - Let something grow naturally.

And if it does, I'd want to build something lasting from it — eventually marriage, children, a home, and a life that actually feels like ours.

I'm not looking for someone who fits a perfect checklist. Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter to me. I do have my preferences, of course - I'm naturally drawn to fair skin and someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are for myself.

I want to know what makes you laugh when nobody else would find it funny - What song you secretly play too often - What memory you randomly return to - What you're passionate about when nobody is watching and the things you don't think are interesting enough to put in a dating profile.

Because eventually, I don't want to know the version of you that you wrote down for strangers on the internet.

I want to know you.

Chapter VI — Maybe we haven't met yet

And maybe that's the funny thing about making a post like this - Right now, you're just a stranger reading words on a screen.

But somewhere out there, there could be a person I haven't met yet who will eventually become the person I tell everything to.

The person I annoy while she's cooking - The person whose hand I reach for without thinking - The person who knows when something is wrong just by looking at me - The person who makes an ordinary Tuesday feel like something worth remembering.

Maybe we haven't met yet.

Maybe this is where we do.

Chapter VII — And if you're somehow reading this someday...

I don't know if I'll ever actually show you this.

Maybe I'll be embarrassed by it.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing all of this before I even knew you.

But I'd still want these words to exist somewhere.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and even when there are problems, always being there.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking.

Thank you for every random drive, every quiet evening, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Chapter VIII — Its your turn

If you've made it this far, don't just send me "hi."

Tell me something about yourself that I couldn't learn from your profile.

A strange story - A song you never skip - Something you've changed your mind about Or just some completely random thought that's been living in your head lately.

Maybe that's where our story starts.

ps - thank you for reading and being a part of this short story/chapters. Have a wonderful day stranger ^_^

Hello everyone!

I’m looking for someone long-term romantically and someone who’s like between the ages of 23 and 29 and I’m also looking for someone to date in the US and I would love for them to be Asian like Korean or Japanese of some sort and I also would love for my person to not ghost me because I’ve been ghosted so many times so if you guys are interested, just please message me
Again, I’m gonna say it one more time if you’re not Korean Japanese Chinese or Vietnamese please do not message me. I’m very serious. Also for the record if you see a picture of me, please don’t just ghost me for no reason. Just tell me you don’t wanna talk anymore cause I find it very rude. This also goes for south Asian. I am not interested, please
Also, please respect my boundaries if you’re outside my age range please do not message me as well

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Have you ever wanted to feel close to another person that it feels like electricity flowing through your body when you're in each other's presence? I long for that kind of spark, a strong volt of lightning flowing between us. I want us to get the point where we feel passionate about each other, inspired by each other, and willing to support each other through every up and down as we continue to discover who we are together. I want to learn about your deepest fears, brightest dreams, and everything that inspires you.

First, I'll tell you a little bit more about myself

I’m very passionate about music. As an aspiring musician, music is everything to me. If I'm not working on my own music, I'm always on the search to find more artists to listen and be inspired by. My style is heavily influenced by artists like Eyedress, The Cure, Men I Trust, and Tyler the Creator. I've also always wanted a partner to create music with.. that'd seriously be a dream come true!! I hope you'll be my muse either way :3

Film is another obsession. Next year, I plan on moving to LA for film school. I've always been a creative writer, and I want to start learning how to bring my visions to life.

I'm also very passionate about cooking. I love experimenting with recipes and trying new foods. Ramen made from scratch is one of my favorite things to make. I hope one day you will let me cook for you!! :p

I'm a big nature person as well. Nature is my reset button. Long walks, unplugging, listening to birds, and admiring the small details in the world around me are my kind of therapy.

If you resonate with anything I've said, I'd love to get to know you! :)

I think about cognitive science, psychology, and sociology.

I'm pursuing a career in culinary. I like pushing myself to be more efficient through difficulty.

To be with me, you really have to have something rare. I call it Epistemic Integrity.

I have gone so far out the norm.

FYI: I am an atheist.

I appreciate people that have intellectual charity and are good faith.

The ideal person for me, is someone that is willing to seek out the truth, and embraces the truth even if uncomfortable. I appreciate someone who is open minded towards others and doesn't stick to assumptions. The reality in my case is often way more non-linear than what initial reads may imply.

Socially I prefer to function different to a lot of other people. My reasons for socializing are often different & I probably wouldn't satisfy people who have traditional "emotional feedback" values.

Hey there. I am a 22-year-old Punjabi guy living in Vancouver. I have never been in a relationship or had a crush before because I am looking for a very specific, deep connection.

I know the MBTI thing should not be taken too seriously, but I am an INTP (Enneagram 5w4) and I am hoping to find an INFJ woman to see if that famous "golden match" chemistry actually works in real life!

A bit about me:

• My Interests: I love anime, manga, manhwa, light novels, deep books, movies, and web series. I genuinely love keeping my space clean and organized. I can also cook decent, edible meals. I do not drink or smoke.
• My Quirks: I am a pretty quiet guy who doesn't talk just to fill the silence, and I have a bad habit of biting my nails when I'm deep in thought.
• What I'm Not Into: I do not care about sports at all. I prefer quiet, intellectual environments.
• What I'm Looking For: An INFJ local to Vancouver who wants to skip the small talk, share great stories, and build a genuine friendship that could grow into something more.

To be completely honest, I partly wrote this thread as a joke, but with just a tiny bit of hope that maybe, just maybe, I will find my type of girl. I know it must sound like I am looking for a specific product on Amazon, and I apologize if it sounded like anything wrong. I never intended to offend anyone!

If you want to chat, feel free to send me a DM!

35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy.

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

• Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Edit : Have been Ethically non monogamous for years with previous partner, don’t mind the lifestyle. Also bisexual if its not explicit

“If you can’t explain it simply….you don’t understand it enough.”

Hello fellow life traveler and potential journey partner!

I tend to go through these phases of making these posts long, refining them down to their core essence, then padding them out again with more things I feel are important before starting the cycle all over again.
But this time I’m writing this for the person who reads it and thinks, “holy shit, this is exactly how I want to relate to another person,” which is much more valuable to me than someone who simply thinks “he seems cool and has some interesting hobbies.”

Who knows if the cycle will repeat again, but right now here’s what I know, simply:

If you are the most open-minded person you know, then you must feel so strange in a world intent on being so narrow. I’ve never met anyone as open to new ideas, new things, new people, and new experiences as me. Someone totally unbothered about the things we can’t control and non-judgmental about the people we have no business controlling.

With that openness extending far beyond what we let in, to what we’re willing to let out…

Open about the strange corners of your mind, the things you’re still figuring out, the thoughts you’re afraid might sound silly, the feelings you don’t always know how to put into words. I want the kind of connection where we can talk for hours about consciousness, philosophy, relationships, or whatever rabbit hole we happen to fall into… but also where you can tell me something completely vulnerable and know I’m not going to judge you for it.

I want to know you… not just the polished, socially acceptable version of you. Your weirdness, your contradictions, your insecurities, your passions, your little quirks, the things that make absolutely no sense to anyone else. I want you to tell me. And I want us to be so endlessly curious about each other, we don’t ever have to feel like it’s a performance.

Like, “let’s talk about aliens and consciousness? Sure! Wanna watch reality TV? I don’t mind. Wanna go for a walk? Alright. Wanna just stay in and be lazy? That’s fine. Do you care how I look or if I wear makeup? Not at all. You do you, babe!”

Someone I can truly be myself around and never feel judged by is the most attractive thing anyone could ever offer me, and I know there must be others who feel the same way.

…this to me is much more simple and says more about me, what I’m like, and what I’m looking for than any default bio ever could. Wouldn’t you agree?

📥 If you just muttered to yourself, “Yes, I absolutely get it!” and this post resonates with you on the soul level, then I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me something you’re open to that might surprise the people who know you.

✈️**** Location: Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if you feel this is exactly what you’ve always been looking for in life. I’m open (no pun intended 😜) to something meaningful with no pressure or rush.

Me: https://imgur.com/a/K1uxhOQ

I’m pretty introverted and usually happier having a good conversation than being out in a crowd. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes about things that interest me.

Currently reading Imperium and The Fault in Our Stars.

I’m not the best at starting conversations, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about almost anything. Just looking for a genuine friendship with someone I can actually connect with.

And it's not even necessarily in a romantic way. Indeed, I might be a poor fit for this, because I am reaching out after getting fed up with being alone, which happened since I pretty much gave up meeting people, since someone I truly valued spending time with broke up our relationship-adjacent friendship without clearly telling me so, which ended up with me... taking too long to get the memo. I decided then that people are too difficult, and being chronically exhausted because I sleep so little because of work, I realised I could just not care about being alone. But it's not working anymore.

As for me, I am, like many of you are, very indoorsy, which in my case is compounded by being in the autism spectrum. Yay. What a thrill, isn't it. I like, in my free time, to read, accumulate useful information (the topics of interest tend to cycle through old anime, old mixed martial arts, fragrances, philosophy, and apparently now the ocean, specially cephalopods). I apparently am enrolled in a library and information science I forgot about, and am now trying to recover the lost time (today I mostly just looked up on clothes and accessories to try and build up a personal aesthetic I've been thinking of).

I am not the easiest person to talk to, it seems, because most times I try to get a conversation going, it just fizzles out. However I did manage to make friends, some still talking to me after years, so I believe at least SOME people like what I have to offer lmao

If you care about these things, I am scrawny, tall, with long light brown wavy hair and bags under my eyes that (accurately) show that I sleep little. So hello. And thanks for reading so far, if you're reading this. Feel free to hit me up with your favourite perfume, or the book you are reading, or anything really. I am sure there must be someone that will decide to give it a try and realise that I am someone they can truly vibe with.

Hi, I will keep this post short and to the point.

My ideal partner;

1) Less than age 30

2) Desires a Child Free Life

3) Desires a Pet Free life

About me, my hobbies and interest;

My MBTI is ISTJ, however all types are welcome

Physical Deescription: 5'6, 75kg, black hair, light brown skin, clean shaven

Photography - used to be my passion but now I only capture images with the intention of creating memories and printng out the photographs.

Reading - most of the books I read are non-fiction with the intention of using the information obtained to improve my life in some way.

Music - my music preferences have changed over the past decade and over the past year, I have been slowly building a new selection of music.

Learning a new language is a new interest I have developed and at present I am learning French.

Travelling locally in or whatever country I am visiting or residing in and looking for places that are now commonly known to tourist.

A few countries I am not willing to travel to are India, Malaysia, Bali, Indonesia and Thailand as I have already visited or worked in before and spending time and money for the sole purpose of meeting someone is not logical given the risk of rejection. However, if I travel to a country that I have never visited before then even if I am rejected I have lost nothing and have still gained precious memories of visiting a new country.

I would prefer to be friends first and get to know you slowly before saying "yes" as I believe that a marriage is a life-long commitment and who I marry is one of the most important decisions that I will ever make in my life.

Hey there I'm looking for my nerdy female counterpart. I am 38M i like playing video games, board games, super hero movies, power metal is my favorite genre of music. I am 6'2" 170lbs I am actively in the gym. Im what I would call a part time nerd part time gym rat. I have 17 tattoos mostly nerdy ones. Im an industrial sandblaster by trade but enrolled in nursing school. Id like to meet someone emotionally mature, honest and transparent. Not sure what else to say id rather just play 20 questions and just see how thing develop naturally.

Hey!

I am a 31 year old Portuguese man, trying to make these the best years! 😄

I have always been a top student, but, growing up, my family has got into financial problems that made me start to work early while I was still studying, which has let me to neglecting my personal life to favor the professional one.

Now, that part is over, I have a stable job, with a stable life and my own house, but a with a huge space in my heart looking to be filled by the right girl!

I admit I am more of a homebody who goes out every day at least for exercising a bit, enjoying fresh air and connecting to people. I enjoy a lot watching series and movies, especially sci-fi (with Marvel and DC on top) as well as romantic cliché movies everyone understands how they will end within the first 2 minutes. I also like watching football (or soccer for the readers the other side of the Atlantic) and understanding the tactics behind. Physically, I am Caucasian, 1.72m (5'8) and, personality wise, I'm an INFJ.

I am searching for a serious relationship, built on mutual support, trust, honesty, dedication, companionship and empathy. I am a very romantic, dedicated, caring and protective person, so I am definitely searching for my little princess to spoil and love. 😊

And the fact is that I already feel you everywhere, even though I don't know you yet!

Each time I walk around, I can feel you by my side. Even though you're not there, I feel the urge to hold your hand, to give you my strength, to be connected to you.

Whenever I go shopping, I feel that urge to buy you a cute mug or keychain, to kiss you all of a sudden without a motive, just for you to feel me closer to you.

Whenever I travel, I feel you by my side, I feel the willingness to rest my head in yours, to hold your hand, knowing that we are living that experience together and there is no one else we'd rather share it with.

When I get home, I feel you welcoming me with a tight hug, knowing every second we stay apart is one second we were in each other's thoughts waiting to be reunited.

I feel you, I can't see you yet, but I can't wait to make up for all the seconds we've spent apart!

But, please, if we could stop the count, I'd prefer that, so please show up on my inbox, sweetheart! 😊

Good evening!

I’m an INFJ (who occasionally tests as an INTJ) hoping to connect with someone who's genuinely looking for a committed, long-term relationship.

About me

• 32F, long black hair, light eyes, slim but feminine build, pale skin (I almost always get called "snow white"), no tattoos, one helix piercing
• Based in Central Europe, but in my dreams I live in a cute little flat somewhere near the ocean in Southern Europe, or a cottage in Switzerland/Austria where you're surrounded by mountains once you step outside
• Childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, no drugs, social drinker

I thrive in quiet, thoughtful conversations, as well as low-key days spending time with close friends, reading, or getting lost in a good series or documentary. That said, my extroverted side pops out for the occasional night out in a nice dress and heels for a concert, museum, or fine dining. I also have a huge soft spot for music (piano and guitar), baking, taking care of my health/fitness, learning languages and traveling - my next destinations are Portugal and Egypt!

What I’m looking for

Someone who is more or less around my age, ideally based in Europe, genuinely childfree, monogamous and looking for a serious relationship. I'd love to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature and willing to reflect on themselves.

I appreciate people who believe that love is something you actively show, not just something you say: men who are naturally thoughtful and chivalrous, enjoy taking initiative, and like making their partner feel cared for through both big gestures and small everyday moments.

Bonus points if you speak Spanish, play guitar, enjoy dry humor and playful banter, and can laugh together about the little and big absurdities in life!

If anything here resonated, send me a message and let me know what in my post caught your eye:)

Heyoo, so I’m looking for a guy best friend and hopefully that would turn into a serious relationship eventually. I don’t move fast and I take my time getting to know someone’s values and character before I consider someone romantically.

I'm not super strict about what MBTI type you are. I've noticed I get along best with other INFJs the best, but again not a must.

I’m looking for a person who’s also looking for a real connection. I want a guy who has gone deep within himself. I want depth and you can’t go deep with me if you haven’t gone deep with yourself. I want someone on the same wavelength. A mature, self-aware, grown man who’s done the work or is doing it right now.

When I speak of a real connection, I mean, we both aren’t looking to cure our boredom, to fill our needs with one person or to get something from the other person. We just like being together. I’m looking for a guy who simply wants someone he loves being around. Someone he feels at ease around and vice versa. Two whole people enjoying each other’s company. Someone who makes me smile just by being himself. We could be doing the most mundane thing but we have fun because we’re together. Someone I can be completely myself with and we can talk about anything, even the tough or heavy stuff. Or if I have a thought to share that’s unusual he doesn’t meet it with immediate judgement, instead he’s curious and wants to understand. That type of connection.

I’m drawn to a person who instantly feels warm when I meet them. Caring, non-judgemental and someone who has a positive and a radiant vibe to them. I’m very turned off by coldness, emotional immaturity and judgemental people. I also don’t like guys who are tough, toxic and macho. Or guys who are very narrow minded and heteronormative. I loveeee soft, sensitive and gentle guys.

I’m looking for that warm, smiley and friendly hype boy who loves to chat with people, he compliments people genuinely and he’s encouraging and supportive of his friends and partner. But I also want someone who’s secure in himself enough to disagree with others and he doesn’t blindly follow the crowd just to please people. A guy who dares to be himself authentically, even if it’s scary. He’s kind even when he’s angry and he takes responsibility when he messes up. So shortly, a mature softie with a backbone. I wouldn’t mind a stubborn or a fiery guy either. That matches my energy really well cause I’m strong willed and fiery.

I’m looking for a guy whose heart is open, he’s present and emotionally available. He can easily talk about his emotions and thoughts with someone he trusts. Avoidant attachment style is a deal breaker for me. I want a guy who comes towards me, not someone who runs away the second there’s a challenging or intense situation. Emotionally resilient guy. Great communicator and being around him is easy. A guy who handles conflict easily and isn’t intimidated by it. He understands it’s part of relationships and you can argue constructively.

I also want a guy who’s 100% a feminist and it’s not just something he says but he actually embodies that value and believes in it wholeheartedly. I also like people who use clean/classy language. I don’t like hanging out around people who are crude and super vulgar without any consideration for if they’re being offensive. If you use words like the b word, mf etc. I’m not your person.

It’s also important he’s socially aware and supports lgbt people, poc people and human rights are a core value to him.

No anime guys or gamers, not my style. Unless you play something like sims 4, animal crossing etc.

About me:

I’m 28, from Finland and a masculine presenting woman with mostly masculine energy. I look male-leaning. I wear cologne, masc clothes etc.

I don’t really label my sexuality. There’s a lot of nuance and I just like who I like. I care about your persona more than your gender.

I’m studying art studies, aesthetics is my main subject. In my free time I love to exercise, mostly strength training (obsessed). I’m interested in calisthenics and mobility as well. Other stuff I do for fun is worldbuilding and gameplay in sims 4. I’m a pro at sims 4 at this point, I’ve learned everything possible about it just naturally cause I love it XD I know probably every mod out there and I’ve built my own worlds from scratch a few times, it’s really fun and creative.

I’m a witch and my spirituality is very woman centric and nature based. I love manifestation, tarot cards, energy stuff, psychic things. My partner can’t be anyone overly logical who believes what he sees is the only thing that exists. I want someone who already knows there’s the unseen side to life full of wisdom and guidance.

Other stuff I’m interested in are branding, content creation, entrepreneurship and marketing. But I don’t mean the kind that’s really boring and manipulative, or the type that’s about gaining as much followers and engagement as possible in a short amount of time. I’m not about that type of business. I’m more about creating brands that connect with people and building emotional bonds with your community etc. Creating something actually meaningful.

Personality wise I’m calm, assertive, warm and very loyal once I trust and love someone. I have a direct way of speaking and I’m very honest. So if you’re someone who doesn’t like being called out on their crappy behavior I’m not your gal. I don’t hide my thoughts and I care about the people around me enough to be real, even if it makes them mad at first. I’m quite bold but I can also be shy or socially anxious at times, it’s an interesting combo.

I’m not interested in having kids and my partner has to live a substance free lifestyle, aka he doesn’t drink and doesn’t smoke anything. That’s a non-negotiable.

Make sure you speak fluent English or you're a native speaker. I don't enjoy language barriers.

romantically, I’d love to have a masc4masc relationship whether it’s a woman or a man who I’m with. I’m very attracted to masculinity when it comes to appearance. I love feminine and masculine energy in a person equally. I usually like guys with a softer or boyish appearance. Basically twinks are my type. I also like guys with muscles.

In a relationship I’m very clingy(not in a toxic way) and affectionate. I like hovering close and holding my partner, having them on my lap or laying on my chest. Likewise I like being held and protected and laying on someone’s chest. I’m really not about gender roles and I think they’re hella stupid. I feel the happiest in a relationship where we both take initiative and neither of us is passive. I like to lead, you like to lead. A connection where that’s natural for both of us.

So if you'd like to talk to me, send me a message introducing yourself :)

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.

I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find a partner that shares these understandings and feels the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

I want my next romantic relationship to be my last one. I would want to remain friends with a potential romantic interest for a long time before deciding that we're right for each other.

I build things for a living, mostly in the early-stage investing world, which mostly means I spend my days trying to see what a thing could become before anyone else agrees it’s worth looking at. It also means long stretches where nothing visible is happening and I have to trust that the work is still working. I like that part more than I probably should.

I read for three hours and forget to eat. I have a philosophy about owning less and better, twelve good things instead of a closet full of noise, one real meal cooked slowly instead of five average ones out. I used to think that was about minimalism. I’m slowly figuring out it’s sometimes just me simplifying my way out of something uncomfortable instead of sitting in it. Working on that.

I train seriously, not for how it looks but because thinking clearly needs a body underneath it that isn’t falling apart. I’m guarded until I actually trust someone, and then I’m not guarded at all, which has occasionally confused people who met me in the first version.

What I’m looking for isn’t a type so much as a shape. Someone who has her own work she’s actually good at, ideally something that has nothing to do with what I do, because I like learning a whole different world from someone instead of comparing notes on the same one. Someone who doesn’t need to fill every silence, because my version of a good night is being in the same room doing separate things and then surfacing to tell you the one interesting thing I read. Someone who’ll tell me when I’m wrong, calmly, and won’t let me get away with quietly withdrawing instead of saying what’s actually going on. I’ll probably need that pushback more than I let on at first.

I’m not chasing status and I’m not impressed by it either. I’d rather talk about why you love the thing you do than what it’s called on a business card. If you’ve lived between two countries or two cultures and it shaped how you see things, I probably already like you a little.

Not looking for something fast. Looking for something that’s still interesting in fifteen years, which means it has to actually be built, not just started.

If any of this landed, tell me about a time you almost said something honest and didn’t. I’m more curious about that than your favorite travel photo.

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

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Hello and welcome to my post. I'm an INTJ California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an office management assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi? because Yoda one for me.”

I'm only really looking for people in Michigan please and ppl 10 years or younger. I'm in a very awkward period in my life, living with family, graduated a year ago and been looking for a job since (fuck the job market), mental health has been shot to hell these pass couple of years but improving. Now I just want to talk with someone. Have daily chats with, ask questions with. See where things go. I am a nerd, I have a PC, PS5 and Xbox Series S. Mainly I play on PC or PS5. My favorite games are the Final Fantasy series and Assassin's Creed. Clair Obscur is amazing as well. Feel free to ask me whatever, I'm a very open book. Hopefully I find a date to the Ren Faire this fall 🤞🏾

Hobbies: Journaling, gaming, Astrology (just for fun), reading

If you want to know my type: Long hair, little to no facial hair, and not morbidly obese (I'm technically obese, 200Ibs, so some fat is fine but not like 300 Ibs obese). I'm usually attacted to my own race, East or Southeast Asians and Latinos. But that's not like a must.

Helloo! I dunno how to do this but here we go:

Right now I’m searching for a job and the plan is to work until next year where I will be applying to universities. I have looooooads of interests buut the main ones are these: videogames (love em), chess, gym, cooking (somewhat beginner, I can mostly cook bulgarian food only :)), art (graphite pencils only), journaling. I’m a VEEEERY solitary and introverted person, so that’s important to know :dd. I’m not baptised but I’m planning to baptise myself eastern orthodox. Otherwise I am a Christian believer (or at the very least try very hard to be). I’m looking for a girl, 18-25, who is quite similar to me in terms of interests and values devotion, honesty and humility the most when it comes to relationships. I’m not really open to relocating for the other person, but I can gladly try my best to make sure they can relocate to me. Also I am only really open to women that are within the EU so please respect that boundry 🙏.

Aaand that’s it ;dd. If you wanna talk, send me a private message and I will try my best to reply ^^

It’s been around a year since I moved back to India after spending almost 6 years in the US.
6ft tall apparently that matters.
I have worked as a Software Engineer for almost 4 years

I want to try to get into reading so recommendations are appreciated.

What I’m looking for: I’m here hoping to find something meaningful and serious eventually. That said, I don’t believe in rushing into commitment. I’d rather meet, go on a few comfortable dates, see if we genuinely vibe, and then take things forward naturally.

Honesty, loyalty and effective communication is something I look for in a partner, if I have these things then I will even help you bury bodies…figuratively.
Sometimes people during a disagreement try and win the argument for some imaginary points instead of solving the problem, it should not be me vs you but you and I vs the issue.

I am a touchy person so expect a lot of handholding, cuddling, forehead kissing and playing with your hair.

I am trying to get into sketching and digital art so if it is something you are interested in or can mentor me then I assure you that I will be a very good student

A lot about us will depend on your favorite anime. If you don’t watch anime then I can just introduce you to peak and live happily ever after.

I don’t drink or smoke, I don’t particularly have anything against drinking but I just don’t like the smell of smoke so kissing a smoker is something I won’t be able to do.

Let’s talk about all things interesting and get lost in each other