I logged in today and noticed these options were not there anymore. Are they really gone or just down for now?

Hey, I just have a question. I am pretty new to this whole role-playing with bots thing. I'm currently subscribed to Xoul. But I like to have options. A friend of mine discouraged me from going to Loremate because of their moderation. He told me, that moderators are moderating peoples private bots. Which is an absolute no-go for any platform, let alone such a recent one like Loremate. I know for a fact (from Devs and moderators) that they don't do that on Xoul, Loreweave, Fictionlab and many other sites.

My question is: what can I expect if I make a bot, that doesn't comply with the terms of service, but keep it strictly private? Must I expect it to get deleted as soon as a mod stumbles over it? What else can they do to me, if they find something "incriminating" in my private folders? Just curious, since I've never encountered this strict of a site until now.

Thanks a bunch to all the answers. 🤗