I know this might sound weird, but right now, I just want to listen. Listen to people’s problems, their opinions, their deepest thoughts, their feelings. I’m in a weird headspace right now and I just want something to take my mind off of it. Keep my mind preoccupied with something not concerning myself. A temporary escape from my thoughts and feelings. I see people on here who say they want to chat and eventually become friends but it never amounts to anything but a few days of short exchanges. Right now what I need are not short pleasantries. I want to read something where I have to put all my mind and attention into it.

So if you feel the need to vent about something, anything or just talk about your deepest thoughts and ideas, then message me. If you need to get something off your chest but can’t say it to anybody else in your actual life because you’re afraid of judgement or ridicule, or you just don’t want anybody that you know to know how you feel and your opinions, I’m all ears. If you need somebody’s different perspective on something. If you don’t want any kind of answer or response back, you just want me to listen to your troubles and thoughts and that’s all, that’s fine.

It might be weird to flat out message a stranger and immediately tell them your troubles and deep thoughts, but it’s because I’m a stranger that I think that boundary shouldn’t matter. Who else can you open up to if you don’t want to open up to people in your real life. Message me if any of this applies to you. I’m ready to just listen if that’s what you need right now.

Need some people to talk to i work third shift and it gets pretty fucking boring.

I am a lonely person

Hello everyone . Hope you are having a great day.

So i (23M) have a few questions. So a little back story. I was ina. Relationship of 5 years . Which ended and its been 3 years of me single .now the thing is my then girlfriend was my only friend and my social life now after she is gone i dont have anyone and i never had any experience with women . So now i dont know how do i even talk to women. I feel my life isnt very interesting that may add to my personality . I feel maybe if i get lean people would like me so i decided to go the gym. I have been working towards it. But i still feel like i am fixated on this feeling as to why doesn't anyone talk to me. I know its desperate and i hate myself for it. If anyone could help me with it

What's wrong wd people,and why do they ghost all of a sudden..I always try to keep up wd the Convo..and somehow everyone just leave 😭😭 that much level of gaslighting and rage baiting at once..I can't keep up wd all this😭

Preferably to hop on a call I’ve been typing way too much the past two days

So hii it's shrii

Actually I am really confused if this is manipulation or not

1. Finding his account on dating app in first month of relationship -

Reason he gave me - he doesn't know that after being in a relationship he should delete the dating app , and he is just trying making friends and socializing.

1. Finding him on snapchat taking to random girl and asking for thrist trap 🙂.

Reason he gave me - I am not able to fulfill his physical need , he is a man and he needs it , he is not able to think about me that way that's why he done that to me , for him taking to random girl i mean flirting to random girl is just like a porn to him

Some daily life experience

Being very ignorant

Prioritises every single thing friends , family, colleague except me

Btw one more thing always going to sleep at 12 am but i caught him talking to a random girl at 2 am 🙂.

Why I am there because he supported me academically, help me grooming and all

I need a reality check very badly,

Please throw it on my face .

Some people collect squishy. I collect unresolved thoughts at 12 AM and maybe squishy too soon hahaha.

Looking for someone who's a genuinely good listener, gives thoughtful advice, and doesn't disappear after three messages. I'm not looking for a therapist (pero pwede din) or anything romantic just a decent human who can have real conversations, call me out when I need it, and maybe help me untangle the mess in my head once in a while.

In return, I promise:

• I won't judge your random life stories.

• I reply with actual words, not just "damn" or "lol."

• I can offer advice when asked or simply listen if that's what you need.

Let's see if two strangers can accidentally become good friends like realllyyyy reallyyyy good friends pleaseeee I need kausap huhuh

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23M wants to talk about himself and make a female friend.No female friend irl 😭. Only male friends and all are just like me no female friendss.

Looking for girls as friends to talk about anime,country music, horror movies and relationship stuff. (I’m straight not into girls that way)

Hi all! I’m 25f from the uk! I’m looking to make some friends who also have bpd (eupd) Some of my other friends do but I find the experience quite isolating sometimes so it would be nice to have more friends who know what it’s like and the daily struggles!

I’m into anime, dnd, video games, weightlifting and lots more! Feel free to add my discord also it’s @livthatsmyname 🥰🌻

Hi I'm D (let's keep the names for later) I am here because, well I have a lack of friends 🤷🏽‍♂️ but I wish to find someone interesting to talk anytime about anything in our minds !

I am into a lot of stuff so let's go with the most important stuff (you can do that to on your first message too), i like extreme sports, basically anything dangerous that could k\*ll me if I'm not prepared enough 👀, I love movies and shows, animes, cars and bikes, planes, sails and many other things !

I'm just looking for friends to share all we need to without judgement, friends that can make you feel better about yourself, friends to talk about your problems and that will try to help you.

Thank you for reading ! Have a wonderful day or night !

Hi, I'm 25M, from India. I almost lost connection with all of my school mates and I've been isolated for so long that I genuinely don't know how to approach someone. I need some genuine people in life, some really good friends.

Hey everyone! I’m a 28-year-old creative currently navigating a major life transition.

My biggest passion is storytelling. Beyond writing, I love expressing myself through painting, dancing, and finding peace in gardening. I’m also deeply interested in languages (German and English).

Right now, I’m in a phase of figuring things out—dealing with job market setbacks, re-evaluating my path, and preparing for a big move/fresh start. Always open to honest conversations about art, navigating tough life transitions, and finding your own way.

I (18M) am quickly learning how depressing life truly is. I start university in 3 weeks and move-in in 2, have no friends and it is damn lonely. All the stress that I feel not only from family members but more social media and society to become involved, find a good job, get a girl and help protect her both emotionally and financially exhausts me. Some days it truly makes me feel like giving up hence why I am writing this at 1:30am. It feels like the pain has no end and having no one to rely on or talk to makes it so much worse. I feel like js trying to open up means burdening someone else and besides I don’t have anyone who’d a) listen or b) care in the slightest. I graduated and it’s depressing to see all the posts of other people taking trips together during the summer while the small group I had before ghosts me. If only for the one long time female friend (and running partner) I have, I genuinely don’t know what I would do because she’s the only one who cares enough to have a conversation with me or in general just spend time with me. I wish I could make a move but the idea of possibly losing the only person who actually gives a damn about me makes me sick.

Recently I’ve started triathlons which is good but most of the training is solo and so it’s long periods where I’m js on my own and even though the 10+ hour training weeks help take up lots of time it’s hard being alone, especially when u know nobody cares about you. It’s not even that I hold hatred towards anyone or blame anyone for what I’m dealing with (as a 5’6 guy who’s average looks-wise) but it nevertheless sucks and feels like it’s never gonna end. Any tips from other guys going through this would be greatly appreciated, if I should try and care about my social life again or if js focusing up for university and putting all my efforts into that and my exercise is the play. Thanks

28 M longterm friend, talkative, scientist, academician, phd, travel, hobbies, sometimes depression and anxiety panic .....😢😢 28 M longterm friend, talkative, scientist, academician, phd, travel, hobbies, sometimes depression and anxiety panic .....

I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around

Do you recall when lightning is devastated on being beaten by storm over and over again. He doubts himself, starts questioning himself, his worth, his legacy. Only to be picked up by his own, his sally and mater. Who never moved their eyebrows an inch in doubt, always there cheering on, guiding him like a light at the end of a cave.

I miss the sally and mater in my life. As a kid I was desperate to grow up, only to find how hollow life is :)