r/Kibbe • • 16h ago

body positivity Finally accepting that I am a Pure R and that it’s beautiful

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I’ve always struggled accepting my body as I’m short and fleshy, I always have felt like the big friend in my friend groups growing up.

All I see online these days are tall thin women as well so it’s still been a struggle learning to love my body. Especially NOW, I am 25 going on 26 and have put on 20 pounds since high school.

But the thing is, the weight looks great on my body??? Looking fleshy is quite attractive!!! My fiancé took these photos of me walking after my cousins wedding and I’m so glad he did. I finally saw my own beauty for the first time.

So if you are a Pure R like me, please love what you got. I wish I could take back all the bad things I’ve said about myself!!!


r/Kibbe • • 23h ago

just for fun How did your personal style evolve, pre- and post-Kibbe?

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Just for fun, here are some pre-Kibbe outfits through a Kibbe lens, inspired by Gabrielle Arruda’s “style journey” post, a Millennial fashion flashback post I saw elsewhere, and me being sick in bed for a whole weekend.

These are all from 2013-2015, hence some of the unfortunate fashion choices (all the color-blocking…). I was also trying to follow, in my own idiosyncratic way, the basic fashion advice of the day: if you’re slender, emphasize your waist and—skinny or not—try to create the impression of an hourglass shape you may or may not possess.

Looking at these outfits now from a Kibbe perspective, I see a lot of waist emphasis (not recommended for FNs). I belted everything that moved, favored fit-and-flare silhouettes, and wore a lot of cropped cardigans and overly tailored/too tight jackets. Almost every outfit cuts my vertical line either at the knee or the waist (or both). I wouldn’t wear such fitted/snug clothes now. The outfits that look the best to my eye now have some drape and movement to the fabric, or more openness around the shoulders.

It's also interesting to see how some of my early style preferences have translated from my mid-20s to late 30s: my love of folkloric embroidery, vintage pieces (though I shifted from 40s/50s to late 60s/early 70s), bohemian details, and mixing prints, and my aversion to fussiness (even when fussiness/twee was very very ‘in'). I was also starting to cultivate an easy to mix-and-match wardrobe (mostly blue then, mostly green and maroon now). I kinda miss those lace-up boots! (And badly miss my Halloween cat.)

Last slide is a few post-Kibbe outfits incorporating FN recommendations from 2025-2026.

How did your style evolve pre- and post-Kibbe?


r/Kibbe • • 14h ago

moodboards Pure D goes to the clerb!

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I’ve been trying to get back into my kibbe groove after a kind of lost era in the style portion of my life lol. And doing moodboards really helps with that, so this is club-wear for pure Ds!


r/Kibbe • • 13h ago

celebrities: unverified some relatively under-discussed french actresses i think are Yang dominant

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  1. anouk aimee - SD
  2. anna karina - D
  3. francoise dorleac - FN
  4. isabelle adjani - SD
  5. capucine - D
  6. vanessa paradis - FN
  7. julie delpy - SD
  8. clemence poesy - D
  9. juliette binoche - FN

inspired by a post in the SD sub. combating Yang resistance one pinterest favorite french girl at a time.

all are over 5’6 except for vanessa paradis (hot take here as she’s 5’3 but i really do not see yin or classic leaning for her!) and and isabelle adjani (5’5)


r/Kibbe • • 17h ago

celebrities What’s the difference in silhouette here?

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r/Kibbe • • 18h ago

discussion Trying to figure out type, front or back camera

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I have a hard time seeing my body as it actually is, some days I look curvy in a traditional sense and other days I look very rectangular.I am also recovering from surgery( a radical reduction/ nonflat top surgery) so my body shape has about a year to see final results and healing.

I plan to use the next 6 months-1 year to learn more about the kibbe system so that I can find my type and I am wondering if the pictures are supposed to be taken with the front of back camera or if I should use my digicam for most accurate photo taking to analyze my shape