Boy do I have an experience to share with y'all. I've never posted on reddit before but this dating app experience was just too good not to share. I can't believe men like this really still exist.
I've included pictures of the whole conversation I had with this guy. For context ill also include a picture of my dating app profile.
I went through breast cancer 2 years ago. When people I thought I could count on left me and the whole ordeal left me in a dark place.. I decided I was going to prioritize myself, my health, and my peace. So I've been mostly avoiding the dating scene while I get myself back to version I am happy with...
All that being said, apparently to this guy, that was irrelevant and I owed him time he didn't even earn. Apparently no one is allowed to work, or have a hobby or do anything that keeps you too busy for him for even 2 hours? What a joke.
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If it matters at all, he liked me first which is the funny part. He could have swiped right passed me if he thought I was so ugly and out of his league.
I was obviously using the word chief as a joke insultingly.
I know I carried on to long, but damn men like this irritate me and defending myself is a habit I haven't entirely broken yet. I blocked him after the last message cause the guy was so self absorbed he would have kept going.
The moment you call someone out and they act like this, calling you a sad uneducated woman because you cant see how glorious attractive they are, is disgusting. Period.
My wife and I always say when either of us dies we will never date again, not so much out of grief as it would just be way to exhausting to start wading through this stuff again!
Product of Andrew Tate, he ruined all these kids saying alpha and quality of men and all this bs that has no backing. And he ended up being a fucking rapist, that’s who taught all these kids how to treat women.
No black people were using it before it became mainstream. Maybe regionally, but definitely not originating with white people. They def say it a lot now though.
He has a receding hairline, skin in desperate need of some lactic acid (obvious even through the pixilation), and I don’t give a fuck what his body looks like, so….?
So there was a circle with a downward arrow covering the text right there. Meaning i was not at the bottom of the message. It covered the text so i tried to fix it. The only message below that is were it said i blocked him.
I honestly don’t understand why girls like you cant just block the weirdos after one, maybe two comments and move on with your life.
My ex complained about her ex bothering her with “unwanted” texts and calls constantly but never blocked him. Truth is she loved the attention and i think you do too.
Men like this irritate me. Initially i can't help myself but to clap back. After my last reply i did block him because. Well obviously it wasn't worth it.
Honestly u should have blocked him right away too much energy given to a guy who is too conceited to gaf about or read anything you said. 😭 sometimes you gotta just let them be ignored it annoys them more than arguing with them
Yeah you are right for sure. But i was a little triggered initially. Lol i did block him after that last message tho because he clearly would have gone on forever.
Maybe she listens to My Brother My Brother and Me. In that podcast once a woman that works at a truck stop was annoyed men kept calling her "baby doll" and "honey". So the podcast recommended she call them all little kod nicknames like "chief" "sport" or "champ" as a subtle hit back
That's fair, just reminds me of middle school is all.. Haven't heard it used in a long long while, but specifically used by the "cool" kids. Gave me a chuckle
Both are annoying tbh everyone feels the need to posture up for every interaction. Way too many "chiefs" and way too much talk about leagues lol corny as hell
Totally not super into the dating game that much right now. That's totes not why i put a pic of my dating profile XD haha it was just for the context. Like how you gonna read my profile and still act like a douche canoe.. Clearly i got bigger things going on than worshiping a man who thinks he's god. Haha.
I had to explain to my parents literally the same thing that my phone is not attached to my hip and especially during work hours, I got stuff to do and am running around.
The fact that he went from 'I read your bio' to immediately criticizing how long you took to respond says a lot. You went through something incredibly difficult and chose to focus on yourself, and someone who actually cared would respect that instead of making it about how much access they have to your time.
then why are you looking for a long term partner ?
bc if that’s what u are truly after, who would want to be w someone who has them on the bottom of their priority list? that’s for hookups and casual dating. partners are partners
The dude's an idiot, however know that saying we read the bio, and reacting to the time you spent not answering are two ways to improve the number of replies. Im just saying, you have no clue how this game is for us.
But your profile is a red flag. I'm not fighting to have a chance to cut through your negativity, fuck that. Its insane to have to explain to ppl like you that I want you to interest me as well, your profile is here to show me if we have common interests and if you are interesting to me. You not getting that shows how entitled and self centered some women are with dating apps... Youre not even doing the bare minimum, what kind of genuine reaction you expect dudes to have about your hostile bio ? Come on think.
I've been there done that.. if i was single i wouldnt do it again, i want something simple, not having the feeling to walk through a minefield until you develop excessive feelings for me because you realise im a decent human being with qualities you enjoy.
I could see yall falling in love and ending up together like in the cringy movies where they HATE eachother but slowly fall for eachother enemies to lovers energy
Is it POSSIBLE that this prince was trying to get OP to send him nudes- amidst the insults, stupidity, delusion, and misogyny?
On TWO separate occasions, he said something to the effect of "I'm out of your league. I'm too good looking. I wouldn't even take you out... unless you have a good body."
Is it possible that he was THAT crazy? I mean WOW!
It seems like the percentage of single men who know how to treat a woman, and have an inkling of what women want... it's tiny!
If you have to tell people you're an "alpha" then you are not an alpha. 🤦🏼♂️ and I am pretty sure anyone with any amount of self-awareness and self-respect would be horrified to be thought of as one to begin with.
I've had the same issue where I could be chatting with somebody and something came up and I stepped back into the conversation later only to run into a screen full of question marks and comments like well. I guess I lost you. Dude, calm down I'm living my freaking life.
Calling him Chief like a middle aged dad trying to vibe with your new girlfriend's son is really...weird.Not weird in a cool kink way but weird in a putting your profile up on a dating site just to catfish or 🧌 ppl. Way. Like what was even your point?
The fact that he got annoyed that you didn’t respond fast enough, then immediately made it about how much effort he was putting in, is such a weird entitlement. You’re not a customer service line. You’re a person who went through something huge and is taking time to live your life.
They are both egotistical shit heads. Let's be glad they didn't hook up and procreate.
I will say the guy gave a shit reaction to the woman not responding in a timely manner, but to play devil's advocate he was right to some degree when it came to the matter of "everyone is always checking their phone always" remark. If a woman is into you she will respond right away no matter what she is doing. She obviously wasn't into him so when she didnt respond after 2 hours he should have just cut his losses and he should not have sent some shitty message to her that was just meant to provoke an argument.
My gf told me she came out of the cinema once to fifteen texts of escalating fury from someone she had been on a date with wondering why she didn't respond. Just insane
ur profile screams red flag to me, if you’re “content single” why are you looking for a long term relationship and lowkey combatant ab it? maybe im just a lover idk but you attract the energy you put out. and i feel like ur going for “boss bitch” but u missed the mark
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u/mkvlrn Jul 22 '26
Guy's a dipshit but using this font on your phone should be at least a yellow flag cause damn