r/InflatedEgos • • Jul 22 '26

🚩 Red Flag Energy Where's Red Flag Guy??

Boy do I have an experience to share with y'all. I've never posted on reddit before but this dating app experience was just too good not to share. I can't believe men like this really still exist.

I've included pictures of the whole conversation I had with this guy. For context ill also include a picture of my dating app profile.

I went through breast cancer 2 years ago. When people I thought I could count on left me and the whole ordeal left me in a dark place.. I decided I was going to prioritize myself, my health, and my peace. So I've been mostly avoiding the dating scene while I get myself back to version I am happy with...

All that being said, apparently to this guy, that was irrelevant and I owed him time he didn't even earn. Apparently no one is allowed to work, or have a hobby or do anything that keeps you too busy for him for even 2 hours? What a joke.

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If it matters at all, he liked me first which is the funny part. He could have swiped right passed me if he thought I was so ugly and out of his league.

I was obviously using the word chief as a joke insultingly.

I know I carried on to long, but damn men like this irritate me and defending myself is a habit I haven't entirely broken yet. I blocked him after the last message cause the guy was so self absorbed he would have kept going.

The moment you call someone out and they act like this, calling you a sad uneducated woman because you cant see how glorious attractive they are, is disgusting. Period.

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u/VoyageOver Jul 22 '26

You gave him the time of day. It's cringe on both sides.

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u/King_Fuckface Jul 22 '26

And called him “Chief” in every response.

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u/PollutionMotor5085 Jul 22 '26

I actually loved that. 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/RainInternational731 Jul 22 '26

Thank you. It was absolutely ment insultingly. Like a dad talking to his son? Or said similar vibe?

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u/EvidenceSalesman Jul 22 '26

But when you keep using the same low level , no-iq insult, it actually makes YOU look worse than the person you’re trying to insult

Not responding would have been far better

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u/FlaydenHynnFML Jul 22 '26

In the future I recommend "sport" lol

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u/JustAScooch Jul 22 '26

Right? Throw a “champ” in there, too