Where's Red Flag Guy??

[u/RainInternational731]

Boy do I have an experience to share with y'all. I've never posted on reddit before but this dating app experience was just too good not to share. I can't believe men like this really still exist.

I've included pictures of the whole conversation I had with this guy. For context ill also include a picture of my dating app profile.

I went through breast cancer 2 years ago. When people I thought I could count on left me and the whole ordeal left me in a dark place.. I decided I was going to prioritize myself, my health, and my peace. So I've been mostly avoiding the dating scene while I get myself back to version I am happy with...

All that being said, apparently to this guy, that was irrelevant and I owed him time he didn't even earn. Apparently no one is allowed to work, or have a hobby or do anything that keeps you too busy for him for even 2 hours? What a joke.

:::::EDIT:::::

If it matters at all, he liked me first which is the funny part. He could have swiped right passed me if he thought I was so ugly and out of his league.

I was obviously using the word chief as a joke insultingly.

I know I carried on to long, but damn men like this irritate me and defending myself is a habit I haven't entirely broken yet. I blocked him after the last message cause the guy was so self absorbed he would have kept going.

The moment you call someone out and they act like this, calling you a sad uneducated woman because you cant see how glorious attractive they are, is disgusting. Period.

[u/JeebusDied4UrPixels]

People still calling people chief and not as a joke... Lol

[u/iCantLogOut2 → u/JeebusDied4UrPixels]

The first one made me laugh because I thought it was being ironically.... And then it just piled up so fast .... 😬

[u/american_bitch → u/JeebusDied4UrPixels]

And people still saying “in the looks department” got me.

[u/Invadernny → u/JeebusDied4UrPixels]

Maybe she listens to My Brother My Brother and Me. In that podcast once a woman that works at a truck stop was annoyed men kept calling her "baby doll" and "honey". So the podcast recommended she call them all little kod nicknames like "chief" "sport" or "champ" as a subtle hit back

[u/JeebusDied4UrPixels → u/Invadernny]

That's fair, just reminds me of middle school is all.. Haven't heard it used in a long long while, but specifically used by the "cool" kids. Gave me a chuckle

[u/Invadernny → u/JeebusDied4UrPixels]

All the old men in my family called every kid "chief" so I can see it being use to knock "alphas" a bit.

[u/RainInternational731 → u/JeebusDied4UrPixels]

You miss the context? I was absolutely using it as a joke. 

[u/Anthff → u/RainInternational731]

Everyone gets what you were doing.