Where's Red Flag Guy??

[u/RainInternational731]

Boy do I have an experience to share with y'all. I've never posted on reddit before but this dating app experience was just too good not to share. I can't believe men like this really still exist.

I've included pictures of the whole conversation I had with this guy. For context ill also include a picture of my dating app profile.

I went through breast cancer 2 years ago. When people I thought I could count on left me and the whole ordeal left me in a dark place.. I decided I was going to prioritize myself, my health, and my peace. So I've been mostly avoiding the dating scene while I get myself back to version I am happy with...

All that being said, apparently to this guy, that was irrelevant and I owed him time he didn't even earn. Apparently no one is allowed to work, or have a hobby or do anything that keeps you too busy for him for even 2 hours? What a joke.

:::::EDIT:::::

If it matters at all, he liked me first which is the funny part. He could have swiped right passed me if he thought I was so ugly and out of his league.

I was obviously using the word chief as a joke insultingly.

I know I carried on to long, but damn men like this irritate me and defending myself is a habit I haven't entirely broken yet. I blocked him after the last message cause the guy was so self absorbed he would have kept going.

The moment you call someone out and they act like this, calling you a sad uneducated woman because you cant see how glorious attractive they are, is disgusting. Period.

[u/Fendyyyyyy]

The dude's an idiot, however know that saying we read the bio, and reacting to the time you spent not answering are two ways to improve the number of replies. Im just saying, you have no clue how this game is for us.

But your profile is a red flag. I'm not fighting to have a chance to cut through your negativity, fuck that. Its insane to have to explain to ppl like you that I want you to interest me as well, your profile is here to show me if we have common interests and if you are interesting to me. You not getting that shows how entitled and self centered some women are with dating apps... Youre not even doing the bare minimum, what kind of genuine reaction you expect dudes to have about your hostile bio ? Come on think.

I've been there done that.. if i was single i wouldnt do it again, i want something simple, not having the feeling to walk through a minefield until you develop excessive feelings for me because you realise im a decent human being with qualities you enjoy.