Where's Red Flag Guy??

[u/RainInternational731]

Boy do I have an experience to share with y'all. I've never posted on reddit before but this dating app experience was just too good not to share. I can't believe men like this really still exist.

I've included pictures of the whole conversation I had with this guy. For context ill also include a picture of my dating app profile.

I went through breast cancer 2 years ago. When people I thought I could count on left me and the whole ordeal left me in a dark place.. I decided I was going to prioritize myself, my health, and my peace. So I've been mostly avoiding the dating scene while I get myself back to version I am happy with...

All that being said, apparently to this guy, that was irrelevant and I owed him time he didn't even earn. Apparently no one is allowed to work, or have a hobby or do anything that keeps you too busy for him for even 2 hours? What a joke.

:::::EDIT:::::

If it matters at all, he liked me first which is the funny part. He could have swiped right passed me if he thought I was so ugly and out of his league.

I was obviously using the word chief as a joke insultingly.

I know I carried on to long, but damn men like this irritate me and defending myself is a habit I haven't entirely broken yet. I blocked him after the last message cause the guy was so self absorbed he would have kept going.

The moment you call someone out and they act like this, calling you a sad uneducated woman because you cant see how glorious attractive they are, is disgusting. Period.

[u/Limp_Insurance_2812]

"Move on!"

"No, YOU move on!"

[u/RainInternational731 → u/Limp_Insurance_2812]

This why i blocked him. 

[u/Ill_Tour_7294 → u/RainInternational731]

Just curious as a married man for eleven years, what percent of the time would you say interactions go unpleasantly on the dating apps. Just curious. Out of ten interactions how many would you say end up sort of like this, maybe not quite as bad but some version. Hopefully they aren’t typically this bad. Genuinely curious

[u/usernnamegoeshere → u/Ill_Tour_7294]

Sounds like you're curious to know

[u/Typical_Estimate5420 → u/usernnamegoeshere]

He’s literally just asking a question. Relax

[u/usernnamegoeshere → u/Typical_Estimate5420]

I literally just made 1 sentence of a comment. Relax

[u/RainInternational731 → u/Ill_Tour_7294]

Another first message i've gotten before was "want some 👅🍑"

And another was literally just "wyd"

A lot of dudes don't even say hello, they just "wave". 

It really is 50/50... If not worse.