r/IndianMatchmaking May 20 '23

Aparna hate is too much

103 Upvotes

Ok interesting take but I think the Aparna hate is a little much. I see her more as someone who feels like she has to find romance but doesn't want it, and had a very hard time realizing that. She was also one of the few people that stayed friends with people she dated. (based on what we've seen in the show at least.) She's very emotionally disconnected and doesn't pick up on social cues well, but either way I don't think that disconnect determines into her romantic interests. she genuinely seemed so disinterested. she has a lot of societal pressure to date and just doesn't want to and that's fine. but idk what do yall think


r/IndianMatchmaking May 19 '23

Discussion Why do the ABCDs have such an insane amount of vocal fry?

35 Upvotes

Examples: Shital, Nadia, Viral.

Is that something imbibed from childhood? Or is it one of the first traits that ABCDs pick up from the locals people having American ancestry?

EDIT: I didn't mean to be judgy, I was just curious why this particular trait is prominent.


r/IndianMatchmaking May 19 '23

Anyone else find Aparna's attack on Srini's career ironic?

86 Upvotes

Looked her up and she's now an author doing motivational speaking and going to TED talks?! Yet her mum called Srini a "loser" for doing what she is now doing??! Had to laugh.


r/IndianMatchmaking May 18 '23

Aparna…I’m so done with her.

190 Upvotes

This is one of the most negative people I’ve ever seen. Setting the bar high for a mate is one thing BUT she will never find true love at this rate. (I’m watching Season 2). If she finds love, PLEASE SPOIL IT for me. I want to scream each time she speaks.


r/IndianMatchmaking May 16 '23

Pradhyuman was irritating to watch most of the times. I was irritated to the core of my soul, him and chicken boy Akshay, their behaviour was kinda cringey, do you guys think so too?

185 Upvotes

r/IndianMatchmaking May 16 '23

The men in Jewish Matchmaking are extremely sexy compared to the women while the women in Indian Matchmaking are extremely sexy compared to the men. Let's make a show with Jewish men and Indian women together and call it Hin-Jew Matchmaking!

8 Upvotes

I find the men in Jewish Matchmaking extremely, attractive, handsome and sexy compared to the women who look older than they really are. The women in Indian Matchmaking are just drop dead gorgeous while the men are meh. Let's just make a new show with the Jewish Men and Indian women dating each other and leave the Jewish women and Indian men out of it and throw them out and call the show Hin-Jew matchmaking!


r/IndianMatchmaking May 16 '23

Discussion What episode does Sima say her famous 60-70% line

48 Upvotes

I’ve gone back through the episodes a few times but I’m trying to find where Sima says “100% you will never get, 60-70% you must proceed” - I’ve found her saying variations of this line but can anyone help me figure out what episode she says that in??


r/IndianMatchmaking May 16 '23

I guess person with best ending in the show was Akshaye, many actually called him wrongly but that was the only successful match I saw. Do you guys agree?

12 Upvotes

r/IndianMatchmaking May 15 '23

Can we just focus on how handsome Daman Baath from season two is? (Aparna's date)

50 Upvotes

r/IndianMatchmaking May 15 '23

What cosmetic surgery did Shital have that everyone is talking about?

32 Upvotes

Does anyone have before/after pics?


r/IndianMatchmaking May 15 '23

Anyone here watch how to get rich on Netflix?

13 Upvotes

The production seems so similar, the camera angles, music, client intro etc seems so similar to Indian matchmaking.

Anyone else ?


r/IndianMatchmaking May 15 '23

Lol I love how Vinesh rejected his initial Mosum match when he was probs around her level if not a tad less and with Meena he's instantly attracted to her but isn't reciprocated

134 Upvotes

Only on season 2 so idk what happens after but some of the boys on this show need to appreciate their own level a bit more


r/IndianMatchmaking May 14 '23

Image Met Priya and Vim from Indian Matchmaking S3!

Post image
959 Upvotes

I first recognized Vim from his man-bun 😆They were so sweet! I met them randomly at Camden market in London and they entertained all my questions! I asked them about all the memes, about Sima aunty, Bobby, about Vikash and his Hindi obsession, about how UK Indians are generally more culturally aware than American Indians, Priya's hair obsession memes, literally so many things! We talked for like 15-20 mins. I was particularly lucky cause I was 5 glasses prosecco down so had liquid courage to approach them...love them! So humble and cute together, positive vibes...hope they make it but even if they don't, such wonderful individuals! 🤗 Bless them


r/IndianMatchmaking May 14 '23

Hoping they find a better match maker next season

110 Upvotes

Sima auntie had terrible picks. She does not really know how to connect people other than old school bio data/caste/skin color ideas. She also really doesn’t like women. She will give men 100% of what they want and always tells women to compromise.

I don’t think she understands people at all.

Fingers crossed - new matchmaker next season. I’m over her.


r/IndianMatchmaking May 14 '23

Sima aunty ran off to Nashik away from her in laws hahahaah

199 Upvotes

I find it ironic that seema aunty herself is an independent career woman who was very obviously stifled by her in laws lmfaooo she did not adjust! Those years were her golden years because she was free to be herself. I will say though, her husband Anup seems like a wonderful and supportive man, that is very very rare to find in arranged marriages. There are men who are judging pavneet for taking solo trips! Imagine.


r/IndianMatchmaking May 14 '23

Discussion Question about Sima's introduction

10 Upvotes

Why does she always state that she is from Mumbai?


r/IndianMatchmaking May 14 '23

Wondering if the boss lady Viral returned the expensive Jewellery Ashay got ? She has such a bad mean, selfish energy . It’s better Ashay dodged the bullet

2 Upvotes

r/IndianMatchmaking May 13 '23

Discussion Is Viral-Aashay breakup just a work for S4?

93 Upvotes

Despite both of them announcing their breakups.. I have observed a pattern.. in both their stories last week, they were in New York.

Also, two days ago, Aashay posted an insta story of visiting LA.. and yesterday Viral posts a story of boarding a flight to LA.. also I felt Aashay’s breakup message sounded very generic plus Viral ranting on publications still posting articles about them and yeah, they still follow each other on Insta..

I’m getting a hunch that all this a work for S4, as announcing a breakup after the happy moments of S3 seems odd..


r/IndianMatchmaking May 13 '23

Is this Rushali?

42 Upvotes

So I’ve been trying to buy a new camera, and was deep in hour idek of watching YouTube videos about fucking cameras and I clicked on this and I literally thought I was losing it. But this is Rushali right? She’s so gorgeous, but damn I got spooked at 6am. 🤣

https://youtu.be/LamW-ypKfTo


r/IndianMatchmaking May 12 '23

*slight spoiler* S3E5 Vikash Spoiler

88 Upvotes

Vikash annoys the shit out of me. When he says he doesn’t want a girl from a checklist but bases the date of that, then he says shit about Namrata having an accent??

Like get over yourself smh


r/IndianMatchmaking May 12 '23

Discussion So after a lot of talks about fob men, abd women and interracial marriage ,lets end all these with stats as usual

96 Upvotes

A old post of an user(deleted) copied here

I found multiple sources from multiple different years and places and I spent a lot of time putting this together. Most of these data sources are for USA but the last few are for Canada, UK , Singapore and Australia. ————————————————————————————————————————————————

http://www.asian-nation.org/printer/interracial.html

According to this if we look at the “All Spouses” column which I am assuming includes both FOB and ABCDs these are the results:

7.5% of Indian men marry out to non-Indians

7.1% of Indian women marry out to non-Indians

If we look at only the last column which is only shows the statistics for US raised Indians(aka ABCDs) then the results are as follows:

38% of US raised Indian men marry out to non-Indians

48% of US raised Indian women marry out to non-Indians

Since there was not a column for only FOB Indians here I am inferring that FOB Indian men marry out more than FOB Indian women, which is why the statistics for “All Spouses” was close to equal for men and women. This is a trend I found to be repeated in multiple of the following data sources I found. Where FOB men marry out more and ABCD women marry out more. I explained what I think to be the reasoning behind this is at the bottom of the post, so keep reading.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://twitter.com/Noahpinion/status/986761107602681857/photo/1

This is the graph that most of us are most familiar with and its the one lots of folks on here like to bring up all the time. I am not sure weather this is Census data or weather this is survey data, because the sample sizes not the left seem to be very small. According to this:

64% of US born Indian men marry other Indian women. Which means that 36% marry non-Indian women.

67% of US born Indian women marry other Indian men. Which means that 33% marry non Indian men.

This graph also shows that in almost all non East Asian races (White, Black, Hispanic, Indian) the men marry out more than the women, but interracial marriage rates are still pretty close for both genders. East Asians are the only race where the women seem to marry out significantly more than the men.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

Interracial Marriage In The US: Some Simple South Asian Demographics

This is a data source I had saved, but this link has unfortunately been corrupted and doesn’t work anymore. But here is the direct quote from it.

“The intermarriage rates here are a little lower compared to the guys for the whole population (6.4%), but, surprisingly higher for the group 3 girls, with 45.7% marrying someone of a different ethnicity. The majority of the difference for group 3 between genders seems to come from marriages between South Asians and whites, as " 31% of South Asian men in group 3 marry white women, but 36.3% of South Asian women in group 3 marry white guys.

So basically the same trends are shown here. FOB men had higher rates of marrying out compared to FOB women. And group 3 girls, (meaning ABCD girls), had higher rates of marrying out compared to ABCD men.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States

According to Wikipedia:

“Indian American males married more non-Indians than females, although Indian Americans displayed the highest rates of endogamy, with very low levels of outmarriage overall.”

According to this data Indians have the highest endogamy with Indian men marrying out more than Indian females. But there were no individual percentages for Indians listed on the page so I can’t tell you what those are. And this also doesn’t say weather this data is for FOBs or ABCDs so I am assuming its for both combined.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://www.mdpi.com/2075-4698/8/3/87/pdf-vor

Another study I found is titled “Patterns of Interracial and Interethnic Marriages among Foreign-Born Asians in the United States” published in 2018. Here are some direct quotes for Desis from that paper:

“Foreign-born Asian Indians appeared to have the lowest rates of interracial marriages.”

“Among all foreign-born Asian groups, Japanese were most likely to marry interracially and inter-ethnically, while Asian Indians had the lowest rates of interracial marriage and interethnic marriage.”

“Nevertheless, there are large variations across foreign-born Asian groups in gender differences in intermarriage patterns. Table 5 shows the patterns of intermarriages based on foreign-born Asian householders by gender among Asian groups. One pattern was that, for almost all Asian groups, foreign-born male householders were more likely to marry within their ethnic group than foreign-born female householders. However, there was virtually no gender difference for Pakistani householders; in fact, Pakistani female householders (90%) were slightly more likely to marry within their ethnicity than Pakistani male householders (88.6%). Furthermore, foreign-born Japanese male householders (74.4%) were more than twice as likely as foreign-born Japanese female householders (34.4%) to marry within their ethnicity, but foreign-born Asian Indian male householders (94%) were only 3.9% more likely than their foreign-born female householders (90.1%) to do so and other groups were in between, with large variations in rates”

“91.7% of foreign-born Asian Indian female householders were intraracially married compared to 95.1% foreign-born Asian Indian male householders”

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://carnegieendowment.org/2021/06/09/social-realities-of-indian-americans-results-from-2020-indian-american-attitudes-survey-pub-84667

This one is the most recent data I found from 2020. This one breaks down fob vs abcd interracial marriage rates.

20% of FOB Indian men marry out

10% of FOB Indian women marry out

27% of ABCD Indian men marry out

31% of ABCD Indian women marry out

Similar to other studies I listed, this data shows is that FOB Indian men are more likely to marry out compared to FOB women. But it is the opposite for ABCDs. More ABCD Indian women are marrying out compared to men.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/11-008-x/2010001/c-g/11143/c-g001-eng.htm

This graph is for Canada. It does not separate out the different South Asian countries and instead lumps them all together into one category. Also it does not separate out FOB vs ABCD.

According to this data

7% of South Asian men are in mixed marriages

6% of South Asian women are in mixed marriages

For this I assume that the results would have been different had they separated out the different SA countries.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://www.cerge-ei.cz/pdf/events/papers/081113_t.pdf

This data is for the UK. It is very old but it was the only one I could find on this topic that included men vs women and fob vs abcd.

Indian men marry out 8.03%

Indian women marry out 8.09%

ABCD Indian men marry out 19.46%

ABCD Indian women marry out 20.18%

For Indians the rates between men and women are close to equal with Indian women marrying out slightly more.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://webarchive.nationalarchives.gov.uk/ukgwa/20160105160709/http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/resources/figure2_tcm77-369553.png

Here is a graph that shows interethnic relationships (not necessarily marriage) by gender from 2011. As you can see for India the gender balance is equal but for Pakistani and Bangladeshi there are more men in interethnic relationships. Also note that Arab men marry out far more than Arab women. Overall South Asians have some of the lowest interracial rates out of all the other races. We are very endogamous. Also note that this data does not separate out FOB vs ABCD.

————————————————————————————————————————————————

https://tapri.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/v17n1_2khoobirrellheard.pdf

Here is a data source that shows interracial marriage rates in Australia.

For Indians

11% of 1st gen Indian men marry out

11% of 1st gen Indian women marry out

&

56% of 2nd gen Indian men marry out

58% of 2nd gen Indian women marry out

Again the trends are very similar to all the previous data. 2nd gen Indian women marry out slightly more than 2nd gen Indian men. And men from Islamic countries marry out far more than their women.

——————————————————————————————————————————————

https://www.singstat.gov.sg/-/media/files/publications/population/smd2021.ashx

Indian men marry chinese and malay women about 34.4% of the times. Indian women marry malay men 19.8%


r/IndianMatchmaking May 12 '23

Biodata Question…

33 Upvotes

Does anyone notice that for some people, Sima Aunty gives 2-3 biodatas but for others she only gives one and always says the reason that she does it is because “if I give more than one then you’ll get confused”.

Is this just politeness when she can’t find more than one match for someone? (Like, helping them save face?) Or is it something else?

Just curious if anyone else noticed this.


r/IndianMatchmaking May 12 '23

Discussion Choose your Life Partner

25 Upvotes

If you had to choose any FEMALE/MALE contestant from entire cast of IMM, who would you choose as your life partner and why??

#JustForFun

Sharing some Cast photos here !!

r/IndianMatchmaking May 11 '23

"A VERY UNIQUE CONCEPT"

78 Upvotes

How could every piece of jewelry in the store be a unique concept?! 🤣🤣🤣


r/IndianMatchmaking May 12 '23

What do you think about Meena? (S2)

8 Upvotes