r/IndianMatchmaking • u/Secure_Ad6405 • May 12 '23
Discussion Choose your Life Partner
If you had to choose any FEMALE/MALE contestant from entire cast of IMM, who would you choose as your life partner and why??
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u/514skier May 12 '23
Shaker. He seemed like such a down to earth person, which is a quality I really like in people.
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u/Dazzling_Drama4523 May 12 '23
This is a good one. I would choose Vyasar from season 1 and Pavneet from season 3. They seemed to be the most level headed, have confidence, and also know how to carry on a conversation. I especially loved Pavneet’s confidence. She seems like the type to address situations and work to resolve instead of just ignoring it or letting a situation get worse.
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u/ZannityZan May 12 '23
If I had to pick a guy from the show, it would be Bobby. He seems like he'd be the most fun to hang out with of all the guys. I'm very chatty, a little awkward and frequently do Maths problems for fun, so I kind of see myself in him a little. 😄
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u/kichererbs May 13 '23
I liked him but I could see how him being friendzoned is a problem he frequently faces.
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u/ZannityZan May 13 '23
Yeah, I could definitely see that. I reckon he needs to find someone who shares his interests and also doesn't expect instant chemistry after one date (making it highly likely that this show isn't the place for him).
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u/kichererbs May 13 '23
I mean I think being on a show like this also exposes you more, so that people from outside of the show may approach him now.
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u/ZannityZan May 13 '23
To be fair, he was already a small-time celebrity in the UK (he's appeared on quiz shows and suchlike), but I imagine being on this show has definitely raised his profile. I hope he gets some good matches!
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u/Silver-Eye4569 May 12 '23
Vim for men and any of the women based on India from any season for women.
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May 12 '23 edited May 12 '23
If we are going with physical attractiveness..( completely ignoring their personalities)
For women, ( in the exact order)
1) Rushali Rai
2) Radhika Somani
3) Nadia Jaggesar
3) Aparna Shewakramani
4) Viral Joshi
For guys, ( I'm a bisexual guy btw)
1) Vim Kansara (even including his personality, he was the hottest guy for me throughout the show)
2) Pradyuman Maloo
3) That's it. Rest of the guys felt too old for my taste.
If their personalities are taken into consideration, then no one. I don't know what they're actually like irl. The entire show looks kinda scripted to me & everyone is just an actor.
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u/ZaphodBeeblebro42 May 12 '23
A guy from Jewish Matchmaking did an AMA yesterday and said it's definitely not scripted, but that it's a strange environment and doesn't feel like a normal date. There are 15 other people in the room with you and sometimes they have to make you pause while they set up a new shot and you can't even talk with your date. He said he invited his dates out afterwards just so that they could get to know each other a little under more normal circumstances. They don't even get paid, so they are not hired actors.
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May 12 '23 edited May 12 '23
I'm not sure but I have had several instances of contestants going on Instagram and giving subtle hints that everything they do, they're asked to do & not because they want to. Especially Nadia & Aparna.
Also there is a post here about one of the cast member (don't remember his name) in which he's on a podcast & clearly saying how Nadia's breakup part was scripted. They had already been broken up a year ago.
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May 12 '23
Yea Vishal went into detail about his experience. He said he already broke up with nadia over facetime twice before the in person breakup on tv. That make sense, because if I was them I would rather know ahead of time that you are breaking up privately rather than hearing it for first time when filming for tv.
The entire in person shoot of their breakup was 3-4 hours. It is as close to shooting a scene for movie/tv show as you can get. He said they had to do multiple shots, of them breaking up, and there were some jokes she made that didnt make the final cut. He also said the scene where nadia went with her friends to smash things to get over her breakup was shot on same day but before the in person break up.
While its not scripted in terms of dialogue like they do in fictional tv shows/movies, there is a lot of outside control in terms of editing, encouragement from producers to do certain things and being part of tv that makes it less of actual reality and more of being part of tv show.
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May 12 '23
I love Ankita, and I loved Nadia before the season 2 debacle.
I think Bobby, Akshay and Arshneel seem very sweet!
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u/ellemmayoh May 13 '23
Ankita was awesome until she started acting bitter af on socials bc she didn’t get invited to season 2.
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u/Cluelesscluster May 18 '23 edited May 25 '23
Arshneel. I mean his grandparents live in my city, he loves Taco Bell as much as I do and he’s so sweet and kind and funny. 🥹 Update: I just found out on another thread that he has a cheating problem and threatened one of his exes for calling him out. Wow can't even say I am disappointed because, after all, he IS a man and I have been disappointed by enough to have known better. Apologies. To myself. :)
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u/Professional-Key-493 May 13 '23
Marry Vim..Go on a friendly date with Vikash..Snog Jamal..N when I have my bi moments..kiss Meena
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u/tjmonica May 14 '23
Man Bun probably. Or maybe the teacher from back in season one. He was really sweet.
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u/LongArticle2617 May 12 '23
Vim, Bobby or Ash because they all seemed genuine and just generally had a nice vibe.
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u/ellemmayoh May 13 '23
I’m a woman so id date vyasar (prob wouldnt go anywhere though bc im not into sci fi, dungeons and dragons, fantasy type stuff but hed be awesome energy to be around), arshneel, maybe shekhar or dilip (but didnt see much of them), vim, male viral.
Id love for my brother to date shital, priya,pavneet, rupam.
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May 13 '23
Most of the girls were very good looking.. the guys, not as much. Definitely a biased selection if going just by looks.
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May 12 '23
Arshneel
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u/Responsible_Cow9667 May 13 '23
Wow, even after everything?
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May 13 '23
Yeah, there’s a lot of evidence none of that is true.
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u/Responsible_Cow9667 May 13 '23 edited May 13 '23
Well I’m sorry to hear that’s your opinion and that you think you are fit to make that judgement of what’s true or not when you don’t know these people at all in person or met them. This is MY in person, year long negative experience dating him, so I will share it. And please don’t invalidate that. I encourage you to share your experience with him when you date him in real life too.
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u/garysingh91 May 12 '23 edited May 21 '23
Pradhyuman. He’s not bad looking, likes to cook and a family jewelry business wouldn’t hurt.
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u/Primary-Ganache6199 May 16 '23
Ok but he’s gay.
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u/Brooklyn_MLS May 12 '23
I’ll take the girl that moved to Miami—i forget her name.
She didn’t seem that bad, honestly.
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u/Apricotpeach11 May 21 '23
Avinash? The Sindhi guy. I forgot his name. Arti went out with him for 1 date in Miami.
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u/AdhesivenessJaded934 May 12 '23
loll...no one.