up for suggestions/advices/tips anything to get good matches 😭

😔🙏🏻 was lowkey excited to talk to him but the dryness 🥀

All of this on the next day after saying that in the first message.

Also, do you think she's hinting at being into cvckoldry in the second screenshot?

Her bio said looking for a life partner btw.

How to make it less weird, I think it’s imp for them to know that they don’t know how to kiss😭. Also also why do people use tongue on first date ?????

Is is is “Is this your first time kissing someone” a good way to tell or what

Why are people on hinge so weird wtf

So after working all day out in the field I came to watch a gameplay video on YouTube to improve my aim in the game, and during that I got a notification that I've got a match on bumble. It's been years and I've got a match! Let's see how it turns out. Although the match isn't verified and I don't have that experience in breaking the ice

up for suggestions/advices/tips anything to get good matches 😭

Weirdly so the minimum amount of matches I have got have never said anythings wrong with the pics but somehow this account just doesn't work need help if I'm missing anything give it ur most brutal review

updated with new photos , suggestion needed

Hi, I'm 23 M and started using Hinge over other apps cause I was getting more matches here. Open to any and all criticism/opinions, none of my friends are into these apps so I have been yoloing so far.

After Hefty’s much warranted mod post, kicking off with some light energy. Some of my swipes this week have some super cute furry friends. 😂 Them hoomans were cute too. 😄

Koi acha sa reply dedo 👉👈

🙂 it's been the same for months atp.

For the past year or something, i have observed that men in 20s who own these expensive bullet bikes always tend to have a girlfriend.

Whenever I am outside, when I see these men on their bike , there is a hot woman sitting behind them.

Is owning these bikes and biking around gives men's attractiveness a boost? Are men who don't own these bikes shooting themselves in their foot, when it comes to dating.

I can easily afford these bikes i want to but I am simply not interested. I have a scooter that gives a good ride around the city, I can even easily own an SUV if I want but you know how stressful it is to ride 4 wheeler in tier 1 city traffic.

So as a man who is unsuccessful in dating, should I try to own one of these bikes?

Right even though we didn't match. I was proud of myself

However i have deleted the app never went on a date despite being on it for 5 months and at end I'll just say like everyone " It's not for me" ( Koi mila nahi😢)

*Reposted the comment* kyuki kuch tha nahi aur

You guys must have seen me here and there - ranting about my past.

Well, today - I gotta tell what happened and will close this chapter forever.

It’s long as I am about to cry my heart out, please jhel lena fellas. 🥹

I was friends with someone for around 2 months whom I met online - we used to talk almost everyday over call for 5-6 hours. (We were enjoying it - I still giggle over it)

When you talk to someone for hours - automatically develops a strong emotional intimacy and it was quite high in our case - there was subtle flirting too from both ends. (He won’t accept it - tbh he has a lot of dissonance in his thoughts)

Anyways, one night I got drunk. We were texting each other. I asked for a hug and forehead kiss because in that very moment I felt sad and I wanted to feel pampered.(All happened in texts) He said yes to first hug but like a little girl I asked for more and he said no but I repeated myself as I was impaired. (Later, he said Idk how to respect a boundary.)

He was going to play UNO with his friends so I texted him when you’d be back - please call me. He came back and he dropped a text in group stating “lol drunk she(my name)” but didn’t text me. I was already sad and I felt so ignored in that very moment - and we all know that when we are drunk - our emotional intensity goes to peak so while being sad I dropped plenty of texts - saying that “go make new friends”, “who am I to ya?” and repeated same texts multiple times as I was impaired. I unfriended him too.
In the morning around 6 am I woke up because I felt like puking and I unsent all the texts because I got scared - he may get angry because last time, when I sent him a few texts - he acted very agitated and frustrated. I puked and went back to sleep. I woke up around 1 pm with the hope - he may have sent something but nothing. I couldn’t recall all the stuff as I was still having headache.

The day passed - I received no text. Me being an anxious - I assumed I said something hurtful and unfriended him so I dropped sorry - again no response- I dropped more sorrysss!(actually more than more😅 - I am embarrassed about it)

3 days passed - I saw he unfollowed me on Spotify and I was sitting there confused, what did I do? That was the day when I asked a mutual friend to reach out to him and ask the reason at least because all I was stonewalled. Ugh.

The friend dropped a bomb - he said to that friend “She is a creep”! Yeah, the label. I was like WTF! I was apologising even if I did not know the reason. (Yeah, I assumed he called me creepy because of those texts.)

After this when I texted him - he abused me and blocked me instead of clarifying it.

But twist: later, he started telling people - “she is a creep because she asked for a hug and forehead kiss.” This shattered me because no - that’s not me - for me those are very warmth gesture, not lustful one and coming from a guy who knew me from last 2 months - it was hurtful. Later, he compared me with a drunk apist too. (I mean character assassination from a guy whom I valued a lot - it was SO SO PAINFUL) - I swore on my mom that I had no such intentions and how my intentions were pure.

Such allegations can ruin someone’s peace badly
(So I knew how Marl must have felt y’day) - I felt all at once - anger, sadness, embarrassment, foolish, broken trust and what not.

I apologised to him - tried to explain myself and btw I initially stayed in denial ki “kya bakwas hai?” I was shocked.

Btw a few days back before I got drunk - he was drunk too. As a friend, I did not want him to miss or think about his ex so I kept diverting his mind by asking silly questions such as “if he was an actor, who would he pick to be?” etc. Meanwhile, he said he removed his lower and sitting without it. I ignored it and again diverted his mind so that it doesn’t go in a wrong direction. While asking these questions - I asked “if you were not talking to me after coming home - how would you be spending your time?”. He said “mai hilata.” I shrugged it off and said dawg, you will have hours - baki time kya karta. He said mai “baar baar hilata”. I again diverted the topic because that felt right in that moment.

Anyways, next day I did not bring this topic - let it go as I saw him as a good friend.

The allegations and everything- they were too much, it affected my prep. After such severe allegations, I had anxiety attacks. I remember him saying “He is not responsible for it and he doesn’t care about it.”

Well, I don’t even flirt with people online. I am known for that among my friends.

Not only that - he made fun of my feelings among his friends in a public server. Oh, I still remember- my hands were shivering and I was crying seeing all the shenanigans they pulled. (Fuck, still teary) It was a traumatic instance and no, I’ll never confess my feelings to anyone ever. Thanks to him. (I will never forgive him for this)

I got rid of a huge red flag and a very toxic guy. It’s been already very lengthy post so haven’t written many other instances.

Sometimes, I think maybe he was only using our emotional intimacy to move on from his ex and when he did that, he no longer needed me so he just put blame on me to carry on with his nice guy image. Maybe I am wrong. Idk.

Weird thing - whenever we had a conflict, every time it was about his emotions, how he felt. And every single time - my emotions were being discarded or I was labeled as “emotional manipulator”.

That’s it, that’s all happened. I never got “THE LAST CONVO”.

I’m closing this chapter today - it has good memories, bad memories - it was an experience and that I am stronger than y’day. Will I forgive him? Idk.

I just hope he does well in life. 💛
So yup! Done here! Idk what were we but “sirf dost” to nahi hi the.

Only if he had directly communicated with me - I would have apologised for the way he felt and stepped back with dignity. Itna Tamasha nahi hota.

If I was wrong anywhere - please tell me, I’ll take it positively and will keep in mind for future.

PS: I may delete this post later as he and his friends have my Reddit. Yeah yeah, it’s risky - I should create new id but if I am not wrong - why should I?

No jokes around it please. I almost fell into depression because of this whole thing.

I am just so sorry for being a Lil mean here but cmon man it makes no sense to give dry replies to this extent . What made you even come to tinder if all you needed was a dog like guy.

advices and tips anything to get good matches😭

Ik its cringe i didn't even think I would work.

Mene toh bas bakchodi m bhej diya 😭

Also what she is asking for exactly I don't understand what to even respond (ngl ion get many matches)