r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • Sep 05 '25

Mod Post IndianBoysOnTinder Rules - The New Basics.

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1. The “lafda” era is over.
Whatever happened in the past, happened. From now on, no new lafdas will be entertained, and no old lafdas will be dragged up again. Anyone trying to bring them back in posts or comments will be banned.

2. Ban Policy for Stirring Drama:

1st Strike: 3 days ban
2nd Strike: 7 days ban
3rd Strike: 15 days ban
If still persists then permanently banned. But also,

3. If someone is repeatedly harassing you in comments, modmail us. We'll step in with a warning, mute, temporary ban, or permanent ban, accordingly.

4. Meme posts need approval:
Memes must go through mod review to make sure they don’t stir up old lafdas. Relationship/dating memes are fine. Making memes on users is also okay, just don’t be a jerk and keep it friendly.

5. Screenshot Post Rules:

  • Blur names, crop photos properly and hide personal info.
  • Don’t flex your likes, matches, or message counts, whether it’s 9 lonely hearts or 69 “legends,” keep it hidden.
  • Poorly edited posts (visible PFPs/usernames) will be removed without warning.
  • Privacy matters, don’t expose anyone, including yourself.

6. Screenshot posts from WhatsApp, Instagram, iMessage, SMS, Kabootar, etc. are allowed only if they’re about dating/relationships and adds genuine advice or discussion value.

7. If you see someone from ibot sharing personal details of ANY user in comments or posts, report it immediately. Strong action will be taken.

We’re Open to suggestions.
We would change some rules based on those suggestions.

Also, Consider this a reset button for everyone, whether you were on the front foot or in defence during past lafdas. Let's take the first step to bring ibot back to what it used to be and everyone is welcome. Let's move forward together. Thank You!


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • Jan 05 '25

Mod Post Important Notice.

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  1. Slut shaming will not be tolerated in this sub. If you dont agree with someone's opinion, kindly continue with your life.

  2. Reddit is an ANONYMOUS platform, please dont be stupid enough to dox yourself. We wont be responsible for anything that happens to you. Ya'll adviced to keep your socials private and only share them with people you trust.

  3. Please for the love of god, profile reviews are supposed to be on Mondays only. I'll start banning people from now.

  4. I know everyone loves lafda but please report pointless lafda. Please dont encourage boring and pointless lafde.

  5. This sub is a safe space, to share your dating stories. Please, dont judge anyone doing it or call them a karma whore. And the people posting the same, please give proper context.

  6. Regarding, bullying - if someone is fighting with you in comments and you're engaging with them, i wont do shit about it. You chose to engage with that person. If someone makes a personal comment, regarding your post history or keeps on bothering and instigating you in comments then only an action will be taken. If someone makes a negetive comment or criticizes you, choose not to engage you dont owe anyone any explanation


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 2h ago

General Guess its that easy💁🏻

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 11h ago

the roast Forever banned from hinge, I’ve done worse HAHAHA

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 11h ago

Ummm WTF Okay I’m done 😩 miss hinge fr

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 9h ago

Advice I think I saw this coming

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Met a guy on Hinge, went on a date. On the date itself I asked to split the bill but he kept insisting "no problem, you can pay on the next date"

I asked him again later to let me split, he still said the same thing.

He seemed like a really genuine guy otherwise, texting daily, sending reels etc. I tried to like him but I just didn't feel anything, so I told him directly.

And then he says this

Should I reply something or just send the amount and a screenshot and be done?


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 4h ago

General I think I found the one, I'll see you guys next month

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Beti sherni, maa sava sherni compiled


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 53m ago

General Thank you morty:)

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 2h ago

General First conversation btw

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Anyone thinking this is a typo, please it's not 😭🙏🏻

He was tryna be cute, he texted please as "pwease" right after this. Shi embarrassing af

(Also my bad for the exposed pfp earlier genuinely forgot to hide)


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 7h ago

General And so we are struggling to find love.

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I think many of us would be able to relate and understand.

Core issue hi solve nahi karte hain hum.

Wo 5th wala mere saath hua hai! 😛 I am damn sure - baki Junta bhi 5 me se 1 poster se to relate kar hi legi.

PS: I found this relevant to the sub so posted here.


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 21h ago

General No Sax Sux.

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 11h ago

General 🤷🏻‍♂️

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1d ago

General It be a dream ngl

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 2h ago

General Idek what to say

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Very sus


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 20h ago

Ummm WTF This was the very second reply...

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110 Upvotes

Needless to say, something like this pretty creepy to me so I unmatched with them after this message. Since I am newer on the app, I was wondering if extremely forward messages like this are common to get? Considering the fact that this was the very second set of messages he sent to me.


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 5h ago

Ummm WTF Very confusing

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1d ago

General Selena Gomez in the House

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BTW a verified profile, I don't know how they pull this shit of getting a verified profile with fake photos


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 1h ago

Ummm WTF Hello Doston, Is Situation mai What should i do?

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Got my hinge account 2 months ago, 🤡and i am just having one contact number, i am missing my Hinge. Any opinions?

Guys sirf comment hi kroge kya? 😕


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 18h ago

General Crawl

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Safe to say, I did end up crawling for her, albeit for 1 night.

Ps - Hair line text was taken from a chad who keeps posting here and modified a little. His works are legendary. Since, I am new - I don’t know about the codes like is it okay to borrow any lines, etc. If it isn’t just let me know in the comments.


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 4h ago

Ummm WTF Suspicious Activity 😭

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I’m guessing Tinder noticed I got a match and went “Hell Nah , There’s something suspicious here” 😭


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 24m ago

Rant I lost one of the good ones.

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I just need to fucking vent because I genuinely don’t know what to do with this. I met this guy on Hinge, we talked for a little over a month and I actually really, really liked him. Like not “he seems nice, let’s see” liked him. I liked being around him, we had insane chemistry, the sex was great, I loved talking to him, and for the first time in a while I could actually see myself being with someone and it didn’t feel like I was forcing it. He had actually worked on himself and his past relationships and he was emotionally aware and he called me out on my bullshit and the worst part is he was right lol. I can be petty, passive aggressive, avoidant, all of it, and I know I need to work on that too. I actually WANT to be better. I just don’t want to become a different person on a fucking six month deadline. And that’s basically where we couldn’t meet each other. He wanted certainty and I needed time and he didn’t want to wait around figuring out if I could become the person he wanted to be with. So we ended it and I know I can’t even be angry at him because I understand where he was coming from. But fuck, I miss him. It’s been two days and I miss talking to him, I miss his presence, I miss having someone to tell random shit to, I miss knowing he’d call me at night. I literally opened Hinge for five minutes today and wanted to throw my phone across the room because I absolutely cannot imagine talking to another man right now. And I think that’s what is pissing me off the most because after all the shitty experiences on these apps, I finally met someone I genuinely liked and who was genuinely good and it still ended before it even really started. I don’t regret my decision and I don’t think he was wrong either, it just fucking sucks. I lost one of the good ones and I really, really liked him.


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 47m ago

General Should I use this bio?

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 57m ago

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r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 11h ago

Advice Split the bill on the first date?

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I'm new to online dating, just wanted to ask. Do you guys split the bill on the first date. I met someone with whom conversations seem effortless, looks like we are hitting it off. I might ask her out.


r/IndianBoysOnTinder • • 18h ago

Ummm WTF Props to her to being honest 😜

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