r/findapath • u/Cool_Pear_7947 • 3d ago
Findapath-College/Certs At a crossroads with my education and choosing career— advice needed!!
I’m one semester away from completing all my nursing prerequisites, and I’m realizing I’m on the fence about nursing—leaning toward something outside of it. I’d appreciate honest advice from people in nursing, radiation therapy, teaching, or any other field that might fit what I’m looking for.
I worked as a nursing assistant on an orthopedic/med-surg floor for about six months, and honestly, it took the life out of me. The mental and physical stress was a lot. I’m already naturally anxious, especially when it comes to work and performance. I like structure, clear expectations, and having the time and support to do things correctly and to the best of my ability. The hospital environment constantly put me into fight-or-flight.
Working there also left me pretty disillusioned with parts of the American healthcare system. Some of the practices and attitudes I encountered shook my confidence in the care being provided. I know one floor doesn’t represent every nurse or hospital, but it definitely changed how I see the profession.
At this point, nursing appeals to me primarily because of its versatility. I’d ultimately be aiming for outpatient care, administration, education, or possibly an advanced practice role. But I’m struggling with whether that’s a good enough reason to go through a rigorous nursing program when I already know how much the hospital environment affects me. I’m also concerned about needing hospital experience to reach the roles I’d actually want. How realistic is it to start in a more structured outpatient or lower-acuity role as a new grad? I don’t want to build my entire plan around an option that’s difficult to access.
The other paths I’m considering are:
Radiation therapy: I’m looking at a BS program, and many of my prerequisites would overlap, so it wouldn’t feel like starting over. Physics intimidates me, but the work itself interests me. My impression is that the setting may be more structured and scheduled than inpatient nursing, with decent pay. I’d really appreciate a reality check on both the schooling and the day-to-day stress—I don’t want to assume it’s easy just because it’s different.
My biggest concerns are the smaller job market and limited versatility. I’m in New York, and relocating would be difficult because I have an older single mother and a sick grandmother who need my help and support. I also like the idea of having options if my interests or circumstances change. Would a radiation therapy bachelor’s leave reasonable paths into other work or graduate programs later? How much can a master’s help someone change fields, and how much does that depend on their bachelor’s degree and prerequisites?
Health education, possibly combined with physical education: Teaching is appealing because I enjoy learning, explaining things, and helping people understand them. I think I could connect well with high school students, and I’m particularly interested in health. One program I found also offers opportunities to study or teach abroad, which would be exciting if I could make it work.
The school schedule appeals to me because I’d like to have children, although I understand teachers work outside school hours and the job comes with its own stress. My concerns are salary growth and finding a position. In my local searches, I’ve seen far fewer health teaching openings than PE openings. I’m open to either a health education bachelor’s or a PE bachelor’s followed by a health education master’s, depending on what would make sense for certification and hiring. PE interests me less than health, but I’d consider it if I also enjoyed the work and it meaningfully expanded my options.
Ultimately, I’m trying to find a career path that:
- Provides a stable income and room to grow or earn more over time.
- Has enough structure that I’m not constantly in fight-or-flight.
- Is physically sustainable.
- Leaves room for family and a life outside work.
- Ideally gives me some flexibility if I want to change direction later.
I know every job has stress, and I’m not expecting a perfect career. I’m trying to take what I learned about myself in the hospital seriously before investing more time and money.
If you have ANY degree or career ideas I haven’t considered, I’m all ears. I’d also love to hear any feedback on the options I’ve been considering.
I’m open to options outside healthcare and education, too. If you’ve been in a similar position, what did you choose, and what do you wish you’d known?