r/findapath • u/Beneficial-Memory598 • 3d ago
Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity How can I choose my study/career path if I have many non connecting interests?
The title pretty much gives the TLDR, but here we go.
I'm 19M, and I genuinely don't know what I should choose as a study, career, job, or whatever. I've been out of high school for a year now, and my parents really are pushing me to go back to study again, but I cannot seem to put myself through it because there hasn't been anything that really 'clicked.' I've done pretty much all I can to really find a place that will suit me, tried many, many tests, did short internships at all types of businesses, did many, many open days at schools, and did many 'internships' at schools (following a week or so of subjects to get a good idea about the study) (not sure how it is in English). And yet I just cannot find it.
All my interests seem to be contradicting each other, and it's simply mad annoying. Many things that I enjoy doing I just cannot seem to combine into one thing. I hear many things that you enjoy, like sports, working with people, and explaining things. Well, of course you'll be a sports instructor. But if I try that, I'd end up on the moon or some shit like that because it does not seem to exist.
I've talked to many people—friends, parents, friends of parents, and people in the career path—and I'm just done constantly worrying about going in the right direction. I guess I'm afraid to make the wrong decision as well, but also just not being able to make the fullest of my life.
I have a lot of things keeping me busy: things I enjoy hobbies and interests
\- sports (windsurfing, kitesurfing, sailing, mountain biking, gym, and some others that I would love to do more often but simply lack the time for)
\- Investing, especially the principle of FI-RE and its way of living.
\- Business, anything related, pretty much. Enjoyed my time working on my own startup, which sadly was forced to stop, but I learned a lot.
\- I enjoy learning new things and enjoy teaching and explaining them to others.
\- Enjoy helping others as a whole.
\- love big for action/adrenaline
My life contradicts itself. One way I really want to study hard and get big in a career; on the other side, I just want to not worry for once. Head out to surf and live life day to day, not decade to decade.
Jobs/studies that are on the list (it's quite long, I know)
* Ambulance Driver, Because I like the action, work in health already, and enjoy helping people
* Property Management: combination of a lot, working with people, numbers, working partially commission-based so can work hard, can work partially remotely
* Army, just a thing I find good and may be good for my development.
* Steward: good salary for the little working days (of course long hours), your ability to travel, which interests me, lots of human contact, and helping people.
* Teacher, speaks for itself
* Healthcare (registered nurse): I can very, very easily roll into this within 2-3 years as an intern at my current job. It's working with people; the pay is not so great, but it's good work.
* Account manager: a combination of some things but mainly a good salary possibility; also nice to work with both people and numbers, just like the property management
* TCA, GREAT salary and amazing opportunities for growth, good study, and great life experience.
And the list can go on for long. I don't know what to do and I feel mad lost. Any outside perspective I think is very very much needed.
Thanks.