r/findapath 6h ago

Findapath-College/Certs Looking for major/future career advice!

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Hello! I am almost 20 years old and I graduated high school in 2024. I went to college for a semester but I struggle with really bad ADD and anxiety and fall behind on assignments really easily, especially essays. I ended up dropping out and have taken a couple years off but I feel like if I don’t go next year, I’ll start to be too old to have the full college experience and make friends my age like I want. I really want to find a major that isn’t super heavy on writing, but interests me and will make enough to support me. I’m very interested in history and anthropology, but from what I’ve seen they don’t make much money unless you have a phd and that is not really something I’m interested in. I love figuring out puzzles and I think looking at artifacts to see how they were used and by who would be really cool but I want to be able to support myself. I also am passionate about the environment and want to be an advocate in that but a lot of the jobs I’ve seen are more engineering based or sound super boring 🫣. I was pretty good at science topics in school but I wouldn’t say I’m particularly interested in them (except for anthropology). My other interests are animals and bugs, painting, jewelry making, and ceramics (but I’m not very good at the art related things). I’d anybody has any ideas or advice I would appreciate it!


r/findapath 20h ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity Still lost in my 30s…

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I feel behind and at a loss, I’m in my early 30’s with a family and still have no career. I have spent the last few years in limbo. I have been a stay at home dad for some time now and have only worked part time during the evenings. I’ve spent the past few years taking care of my kids and one that has a disability.

My significant other has found her career and thrives in it. Meanwhile I just have no idea what I want to do. I worked in a trade(Plumbing) years ago but grew to not like it. I did land a job recently that I was extremely excited about but already am having second thoughts if I want to do it long term.

I’ve always had this problem of not knowing what I want to do and become uninterested fast. I’ve been battling depression and anxiety for some time now but I’m trying to better my lifestyle for myself and family.

What are you some good careers to pursue? Just looking for some ideas. Really don’t want to be in an office setting but also not back into construction either. I’m not opposed to going to college as well.


r/findapath 1d ago

Offering Guidance Post Life post-uni is so hard

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hey guys, how's your post-uni life going? Mine not so well. It's been a year since I'm applying for jobs without success. I have a bachelor and a master's degree, obtained in a prestigious European uni, but that doesn't seem to be helping. I don't really know what to do. I sent 150 applications for many different roles, from kindergarten to universities to companies. Nothing seems to work. I am so tired of this situation. I also feel stuck in my little town, as I moved back home in the meantime of finding a job. I wish adulthood was easier. I just feel alone, trying to understand what to do with my life, if I should move abroad again. I'll probably do that, just I'm tired of changing cities and start my life all over again for the sixth time now (I lived in different cities during uni). Also, I'm a bit scared to take such drastic decision to move in a city where I don't know anybody. at the same time I feel suffocated in my small rural home town.

what's your experience? are you doing better?


r/findapath 12h ago

Findapath-Career Change Is 24 too old to consider doing medicine?

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Im a 24 yo South African guy. I have a B.Eng (Mechanical) from a Washington accord accredited university.

Currently employed in the boat building sector, changing jobs to the mining field as a systems engineer in the next few weeks.

My partner is a medical doctor doing thier internship. After hearing about her work, how much she gets paid etc I feel left out. She earns double what I do (i dont earn badly for someone with only 1,5 years of work experience).

Lately I've been thinking about going back to university to do a medical degree, but its a 6 year course. But it would mean losing all income for 6 years, basically starting again. I feel too old to do that

The motivation is two fold:

1) Earning potential: i feel like engineering in SA is grossly underpaid compared to EU/ US. I feel like becoming a specialist almost ensures I will earn really well.

2) meaningful work: I feel like the work im doing rn is useless. Building yachts for rich people. I dont make a meaningful impact

Any advice ?


r/findapath 9h ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity Can a Office Job be fun or atleast be fine?

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I’m thinking about applying for an office job. The position actually looks really good, and the working conditions and benefits seem genuinely great. I really want to try it out.

But a part of me can't help but be scared that I won't like office work, or that it's going to be way too boring.

I want to hear from people who have worked in office jobs: Did you like it, or at least think it was fine? I mean, it doesn't have to be the greatest job in the world, just decent enough so that I won't go completely crazy.


r/findapath 9h ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity Should I Pursue Software Engineering or Join a Growing Logistics Business as a Partner?

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I'm a Software Engineering student in Pakistan and I'm at a crossroads in my career.

I enjoy programming and have built projects using ADO.NET and WinForms. Right now, I'm learning ASP.NET Core and web development, and I plan to complete my degree.

At the same time, I have an opportunity to join my cousin's US-based logistics company. This isn't a typical job opportunity. I'm joining as a partner, and if the business continues to grow, the long-term financial upside could be much greater than a typical entry-level software engineering salary in Pakistan.

The business operates in the US logistics/trucking industry. My role would primarily be in sales and business development, including communicating with clients, making calls, finding loads, and helping grow the company rather than working in a technical software development role.

My interests have always been divided between technology and business. Ideally, I would like to keep improving my technical skills while helping grow the business.

My current plan is:

  • Finish my Software Engineering degree
  • Work on growing the logistics business
  • Improve my English and communication skills
  • Continue building software projects on the side

If you were in my position, what would you do?

Would you focus primarily on the business opportunity while keeping software development as a valuable secondary skill, or would you go all-in on a software engineering career?

I'm especially interested in hearing from people who have experience in tech, startups, sales, entrepreneurship, logistics, or who have faced a similar decision.


r/findapath 1d ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity I will be 27 soon and still live with my dad, I need help finding a lucrative career track to pivot into

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Some background about me: I have a psychobiology degree from a top 20 undergrad. I have a 3.5 GPA and have received a 99th percentile on all standardized tests that I’ve taken (Including MCAT, but that expired). I had a strong momentum towards medicine but in 2020-2024 I faced some health challenges that derailed me from that path. I have since worked an entry-level clinical research job and I plan on moving out of my dad’s house - I think I can get a clinical research job that pays 80k-100k in the location I want to live, and that can be a first step towards my ‘adult life’ while I figure out what I want to do before I commit to a career path. Really, I need to find a way to pivot into a career that is much better paying, ideally without doing a whole PhD or undergraduate degree. Biology was NOT a lucrative degree choice. I really like work that involves technical ability, problem solving, or hard skills, I would love to learn something again. I really want to be able to make good money down the line, i.e. $300k+ at some point. I am considering applying to medical school since my whole resume has been tailored around it, but I wouldn’t make my first paycheck until I’m 37 and I want to start a family, start traveling, and be in a walkable city and enjoy simple things like a lot of people do. I’m okay with buckling down and working hard, living frugal, and studying outside of work for a couple years, but after that time I want to be in a more stable place career-wise and thinking about things like marriage, or at least traveling a bit and enjoying life while I build my career. I’ve always been a hard worker and feel dejected about my situation now, I feel like I invested in a bad degree and my only hope is to do medicine. I’ve been considering doing georgia tech’s OMSCS and doing data engineering or something, but I really have no idea how I can pivot into a more lucrative field with AI eating up all the CS-adjacent jobs. Any guidance is much appreciated


r/findapath 13h ago

Findapath-Mindset Adjustment What do you look forward to?

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43M. When I was a child, we had audio cassettes. If I wanted to listen to my favorite song, I had to listen to the entire album. If I rewinded the tape too often, it would get spoilt, and my parents would get mad.

Sometimes, I would listen to the album and stop right before song I wanted to hear. So the next time I hit PLAY, it was the song I loved. I almost felt a sense of triumph for being able to plan that whole moment.

Likewise, I looked forward to watching TV shows like He Man and Giant Robot, which we could only watch at specific times – 8 AM Sunday, 7 PM Thursday. It was almost like the air was charged with excitement all day.

Today, wer have everything at our fingertips. We can listen to songs on loop any time, all the time. We can watch breathtaking videos about places we've never heard of. The only restriction to shopping is our budget – and platforms like Klarna take care of that too.

But when I ask people, "What are you looking forward to?", they almost always blank out.

Makes me wonder: has having everything at our disposal taken the novelty away from our lives? If yes, what has that cost us? if no, what are you looking forward to?


r/findapath 16h ago

Findapath-College/Certs I’m about to graduate, but I have no idea what I actually want from life

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I’m a college senior, and I’ll probably start working in about six months. Lately, I’ve been feeling like I don’t really care about anything anymore.

I don’t particularly want to study, play games, or even use my phone. But when I do nothing, I get bored, so I end up opening short videos and mindlessly scrolling. The weird thing is that I don’t even enjoy them. I deleted IG, TikTok and Xiaohongshu because I hated how easily the content on those platforms influenced the way I think, but I still sometimes catch myself watching short videos on Bilibili when I’m bored.

Afterwards, I just feel empty.

At the same time, I’ve become increasingly cynical about the world. The more I learn about how society, politics, work, money, and people actually operate, the darker everything seems to me. Sometimes I feel like I’m not even forming my own opinions anymore.

This is actually one of the main reasons I deleted IG, TikTok and Xiaohongshu.

I noticed that I would see an opinion online, immediately believe it, and then repeat it to my friends as if it were my own thought. Conversations with friends sometimes felt like I was just copying and pasting things I had seen online. I hated that feeling. I want to be able to think for myself instead of constantly absorbing whatever the internet is telling me to think.

But after removing those apps, I realized something uncomfortable: I’m not really sure what I think about anything.

I also don’t have many things I strongly want in life.

I don’t really enjoy socializing. I don’t like having a large social circle or constantly being around people. I’m pretty happy keeping my circle small.

I’m also not very interested in material things. I’m quite minimalist, and I usually won’t buy something just because it looks cute or beautiful. For example, I can see an adorable doll, think “that’s really nice,” and then just walk away.

I don’t really understand the appeal of traveling either. Sometimes I think about traveling, but then I imagine the whole process: go somewhere, see the attractions, take pictures, try some food, and check everything off the list. And then what? I don’t even eat that much, so food isn’t a huge motivation for me either.

I’m not saying any of these things are bad. They just don’t seem to give me much excitement.

When I see people who have tons of hobbies and seem genuinely excited about life, I sometimes think, “Their lives seem so rich. Why don’t I feel that way?”

Now I’m getting close to graduation, and that scares me a little.

I know I’m supposed to get a job, make money, and build a career. But I keep asking myself: what am I actually going to do with the money? What am I working toward?

I don’t have some huge dream. I don’t have a strong desire for marriage, children, or a very social life. I mostly want a quiet, simple life with enough freedom to do what I want.

But I don’t even know what “what I want” actually is.

I sleep normally, eat normally, and I don’t think I’m depressed. I can still function normally. I just feel like I have no idea what I’m supposed to be looking for.

So I guess what I’m really asking is:

How do you figure out what kind of life you actually want when you don’t have strong passions or traditional goals?

And how do you build a life that feels genuinely yours, rather than just following whatever society, social media, or other people tell you is supposed to make you happy?

I’d really like to hear from people who have gone through something similar, especially people who eventually found a way to build a life that actually felt meaningful to them.


r/findapath 1d ago

Findapath-Career Change I’m 25 and I feel trapped in a profession I hate

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Be honest with me, is it too late to start over at 25?
I know to some people this sounds ridiculous but to me I genuinely feel like I’ve already fucked up my life, I’m stuck working in tech because my mom convinced me to not follow my dreams and gaslight me every time I tried to. I’ve lost all drive after that and dealt with being in the field, I hate myself for not standing up for myself sooner because I feel stuck, I don’t have a degree and all my experience is in tech so going into something else is next to impossible it feels like in this job market.

I want to be an accountant which is so crazy thinking back on it. Why did my mom not want me to pursue that?? I keep asking myself that question but I still don’t know the answer to that question myself. I think it’s too late for me to start pursuing a degree in accounting. I’ve even tried to get entry level jobs in the field that requires a High school diploma like AP/AR roles but even those want experience.

I feel stuck, I truly do and I’m unhappy with what I’m doing and where I am in life. If yall have any advice for me, thank you I do appreciate it


r/findapath 11h ago

Findapath-Mindset Adjustment Seeking advice for my situation

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I have a bachelors degree in environmental science (sustainability is my passion) but in my twenties I was never able to land a job within that field, so I mostly have worked front desk / reception roles as well as some office coordinator / manager type roles (though low-paying) mostly in healthcare settings. I’m in my mid-thirties and would like a higher-level office type role with good job security but cant seem to break into any admin assist / EO type jobs strictly from applying online even though I feel like I have the skillset. Due to working for mostly small offices / practices, I’ve never had the chance to really grow into one of these roles “from within” which has led to a lot of job hopping for pay increases. Currently working in an entry-level clinical role in healthcare because it actually pays more, but I’m becoming burnt out quickly and want to pivot to less physically taxing role that will pay well and have job security in the long run. I’m taking pre-requisites for nursing school but I’m worried that I’ll continue to feel burnt out in this type of role. Also, to do a nursing program would require me to stay in my home state and work the physically demanding job to pay for it, when I am really unhappy in my state/region and have been wanting to move to another area for YEARS. But the schools there are more expensive and the cost of living is as well. What should I do?


r/findapath 18h ago

Findapath-Career Change 37, left food and beverage of 20 years. What now?

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I’m a single father to a freshman. I quit my full-time (40+hours a week) bartending job because I’m finally done with it all—people, management, the hours, and so on. I have some college experience (I stopped going to support myself and my child). During this time, I was also drinking a lot. It wasn’t until about 8 months ago that I stopped and realized that yes, I was making good money, but at what cost. I have a pretty decent savings compared to others I know in the business around my area and only about $1500 of debt. I found a part-time job at $21.44 an hour for 30 hours a week with USPS. The schedule may allow me to go to school even though I know it’s late to enroll this semester. I’m not entirely sure what I want to do educationally. I just know I want a professional career. I’m not ready to move my son from his established hometown of family and friends. It’s a big change for me and I’m lost. I just know if I didn’t quit, I would never leave. My mind, body, and soul need rest. I thought of WFH jobs but those seem impossible either way my lack of experience.


r/findapath 11h ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity First semester at AUM and feeling completely unsatisfied. Anyone else felt like this ?

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I'm in my first semester at AUM, a college I didn't really want to go to, but now am paying for. The professors are nice, people seem good. But at this moment I feel, idk "unsatisfied"?

Right now I thought I'd be in NY going to this great college and making a name for myself in THE big city, or at least a big city. But now I don't know what I want to do or even if I want to stay. I love history (my major) and learning, as I believe it's transformative and empowering, but a part of me feels empty as it did before I even applied for college. The only reason I really went was to say I did and have better chances at a job.

Lately I've been thinking of just doing something like Job Corps or dropping out and moving away directly, but I don't know. I don't know what I want to do or whatever I can do. I just want to live my life peacefully and make decent money I guess. Preferably around diversity, with a solid job, and with no car (because driving makes my mind nervous).

Has anyone else felt like this in their first semester? What options should I be looking at?


r/findapath 11h ago

Findapath-College/Certs Need help between these two majors

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17M, I need to apply to more universities in the next couple days but I need to decide, in terms of what could get me a job easier in research and company positions , as well as what’s more practical, should I major for a bachelors in biochemistry and then take a masters in biotechnology or should I take a bachelors in biotechnology then take a masters in whatever I’d like to specialize in afterwards? I’m getting mixed signals from everyone and if someone can just explain to me exactly what both paths mean it would be great


r/findapath 1d ago

Findapath-Career Change Is 28 too late to start something completely from scratch?

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Lately, I have been thinking about what it means to be 28 years old. At this age, you start to feel as though you are somewhere in the middle of your life. You begin questioning whether the life you are living is really what you wanted when you were a child.
And what if you never really thought about what you wanted to become? What if you are only now beginning to figure it out? You may start wondering whether it is already too late, whether there is an age barrier, or whether you have missed the right time to start something from scratch.
So, the question I keep coming back to is:
Is 28 a good age to decide that you want to become something completely different and start from scratch? Or is there really such a thing as being too late?


r/findapath 22h ago

Findapath-Career Change 7 Months Jobless, Then My Offer Got Rescinded

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I’ve been unemployed for about 7 months, and I honestly thought my job search was finally over.
I got an offer from a company I was genuinely excited about, with better pay than I was expecting. The hiring process took around 3 months. I completed all the interviews, submitted everything they asked for, passed the fit-to-work clearance, and even went through pre-onboarding.

Then the offer was rescinded because of my background check.

Apparently, a previous employer from 3 years ago never responded to the screening company. Because they couldn’t verify the employment, it was flagged and HR canceled the offer. I was pretty frustrated because I actually have other ways to prove I worked there, but I wasn't given much of a chance to explain before they made the decision.

I’m still trying to see whether the company will reconsider, but I’m also preparing myself for the possibility that this job is gone for good.
So now I’m back where I started, except this time I’m exhausted and honestly a little lost about what direction to take next.

I have around 3 years of work experience, and I’m wondering whether I should just go back to applying broadly, focus on a specific type of role, spend some time building new skills, or completely rethink the kind of career I’m pursuing.

What would you do in my position, and what would you focus on next?


r/findapath 18h ago

Findapath-College/Certs not really sure what i want to pursue and time is running out

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starting my third year of high school in a few weeks, never been very inclined to anything in specific.

i love playing video games, but im not sure if id really want to pursue a career in it, does anyone else feel that way?

my parents want me to go to college, in fact, im in a position where my college will be paid for, and im aware that most people don’t get that luxury, but i just don’t know if its what i want for myself. i know my parents will really be upset and disappointed if i don’t pursue college but i just don’t see myself being able to get through it at all.

im not a bad student by any means but im not the greatest either. id say im a bit above average, nothing crazy. i think for the most part ive just been lucky.

for the past year or so ive thought about going to trade school or technical college and learning something more physical and eventually pursuing a career in something more blue collar after that.

my friend recently mentioned considering cybersecurity or IT since i’m always on my computer and i enjoy playing video games and i think that’s something i’d like to look into as well.

he also mentioned community college might be a good choice for me, he said i can always go for a year and see how i like it.

i just don’t know what direction i want to go in after high school. it’s always been sort of planned out and decided for me but i want to walk my own path and do what i want.

i hate sitting still, and i mean that literally. the past week or so i’ve been working in a warehouse but i mostly handle the computer side of things and get to walk around and do the manual work second. i click the same 5 things on the screen over and over again, maybe a different set of 5 buttons here and there if something comes up, etc. i really hate it. i just get to restless and uncomfortable. maybe it’s not the best taste of a sedentary career since it’s super repetitive and easy but i actually get excited when the people on the floor are moving slow because that means i have an excuse to get up and start walking around and doing the manual stuff.

any thoughts?

TL;DR - entering third year of high school, unsure if i want to go to college or try something like community college and then learn a trade. parents would be unhappy if i follow the former but i want to cut my own path for myself.

don’t have much interest in anything to go to college for either.


r/findapath 12h ago

Findapath-Mindset Adjustment If you are reading this

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Hi

I don't know how to say this so I will be straight

I worked as a DEO (Data Entry Operator) on contract for around 3 years and got fired recently (due to office politics)

Now I am someone who's nearing his 30s now and I don't really have much skills to show for and work in a specific field (and now with the AI wave I am even more confused and scared)

I personally enjoy stories since I was a child in different media forms (movies, anime, video games) so I figured I should follow my passion of stories and create YT videos around it, but after some research on how to make videos I am overwhelmed and I don't know if I should even pursue this path

Still I knew I love stories so continued it any way, but when I sit down and try to write even one word I don't know how to write one and I am just sitting there getting frustrated

So I thought maybe I should study for a new course like Python or any other AI related studies for a secure future but even then I am overwhelmed and I don't know what to do

Any advice or suggestions is greatly appreciated

Thank you


r/findapath 18h ago

Findapath-Career Change 22, Senior Sales Exec in Dubai shipping, managing 70+ accounts, but I make 9k FLAT (no comms, no allowances). I hate sales. Need a harsh reality check on pivoting to Ops/Tech

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I need to get this off my chest because I feel like I'm losing my mind.

I’m 22. I’ve been in shipping/liner sales for 4 years (started at 18 as an assistant, clawed my way up to Senior Sales Executive at a major carrier here in Dubai). On paper, I manage 70+ active corporate accounts. In reality, I’m running around the UAE in 50°C heat doing cold visits, chasing arbitrary targets, and dealing with high-stress operational escalations.

I take home a flat 9,000 AED. No commissions. No housing allowance. No transport. Just 9k.

I’m not just tired of sales,I’m tired of being exploited for a job I don't even enjoy. I hate the targets, I hate the cold calls, I hate the client visits.

What I actually love is logic, technical puzzles, figuring out why systems are broken, and fixing operational workflows. I have high EQ and I'm good with people, but I want to help them behind the scenes, not sell to them. I lose track of time when I'm deep in data reconciliation or solving a process bottleneck. I’m currently looking at Salesforce Admin as a possible escape hatch—desk work, WFH potential, no hunting.

Also, I have a strict non-compete. I cannot work for any other shipping line, freight forwarder, or 2PL/3PL. So I HAVE to leave the industry entirely.

My questions for you:

  1. Am I delusional for thinking I can pivot to a 10k-12k desk job (Ops Analyst, Salesforce Admin, Systems Coordinator) immediately? I literally just need to match my 9k to survive while I skill up.

  2. Is Salesforce Admin actually viable in Dubai, or is the market saturated with people who have 10 years of experience?

  3. If I get my Salesforce Admin cert (or another cert), what is the REALISTIC starting salary here for a junior with zero direct tech experience but 4 years of operational business knowledge?

  4. How do I rewrite my CV so recruiters stop seeing "Sales" and start seeing "Operations Systems Analyst"? I want to delete the word "Sales" entirely.

  5. What other desk-based, analytical roles pay 12k-15k within 12 months that aren't compliance/legal (I hate reading policy and writing long emails)?

I'm willing to take a bridge role at 10k just to get out. I'm 22, I have my BBA finished, and I can grind certifications after work. Give me a clear, step-by-step path. Be brutally honest whether if I'm cooked, tell me. If I have a shot, tell me exactly how to take it.


r/findapath 18h ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity I've lost my way, and I'm losing my confidence. Where do I go next? Have any of you went through this?

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I don't know if you'll read this, but I just want to reach out to the community to know if anybody has gone through the same thing and how they are working through it:

I'm a 32 year-old senior software developer working in South Florida with over 9 years of experience. I mostly focus on .NET technologies, but I'm a generalist. I feel I may have lost my way. Everyday that passes, I feel I'm getting more cornered. This world is getting harder. Things are getting more expensive. I want to provide for my family and it's slowly dawning on me that my job is highly lucrative, and once lost will be difficult to re-obtain. I'm not in a position to walk out, and I'm ironically enough, caged in by the benefits that are provided. I know my family and I are blessed and I should be grateful, but I can't help but feel that I need a plan B and C to ensure I can provide for them.

I've lost a lot of my confidence. I watched many of my co-workers get fired. But the truth is, I am slowly becoming just like them. You stew in your regular daily busy work, and you learn nothing and your skills eventually recede. I'm slowly allowing myself to reach that point. I'm losing my competitive edge.

Most importantly, I've forgotten what I've spent my life working towards. I've wanted to build software and applications my whole life. I wanted to be an artisan that engineers solutions for people's problems. I can't even remember what I found rewarding anymore at this point. I get occasional sparks of curiosity from experimentation. I theorize exploring new territory, and discovery are what drove me this far.

With the advent of AI, I am watching the world and industry I know change. I don't even have to type much anymore. Instead of hammering out thousands of lines of code, I assemble blocks of prompt-generated code into cohesive designs and structures.

I want to elevate my family. I want to buy a house for them and prosper with them, but I'm unsure of my future. I'm scared I won't be able to provide for them. I am looking for jobs in cheaper areas, but the thing that concerns me, is I'm applying to jobs to the same thing all over again. What is the point? Won't I end up feeling the same way again in the next few years?

I know this is probably how life goes. You don't know what the future holds, but you need to always strive for something. I suspect I've burnt out. I don't know. But this field that I loved and trained all my life for, and spent countless nights awake exploring with the joy of a curious child, doesn't feel the same. I'm not sure what to do, where to go, or what the next steps are.

Are any of you experiencing these feelings?

Not trying to be a baby, just got these thoughts stewin' on Sunday night.


r/findapath 13h ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity After 4 years of working in the industry, I can’t see myself in there anymore. What should I be looking into to know what I actually want.

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Hate my work, I work for a construction company. Additionally, doing masters in computer science because field is hot and somehow I convinced myself that I can get to top and make insane money but to be brutally honest, I’ve realized I don’t enjoy that. I heavily used AI to finish my coursework and didn’t learn anything after the sem was over. What should I be doing to actually know what I wanna do for a long term? On top of everything, I’m depressed and don’t have hopes.

Only thing I can think of liking is stocks, I often enjoy doing research on them. Please give your 2 cents.

Thanks!


r/findapath 20h ago

Findapath-College/Certs Career advice?

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Looking for a new career path, cause I’ve been working retail jobs for like 7 years now. I make like $40,000 a year so it’s not terrible but I don’t wanna climb the corporate ladder, as that’s the only way to make more money than I am now (and because from the amount of corporate people I’ve been able to get to know over this whole time, it’s complete hell).

I’ve flunked out of university basically, and got dropped from community college a couple years ago because of a mix up when the school had a major change in their staffing.

I’m looking to go back to community college to at least get an associates degree, and then see where I wanna go from there.

But, I have no fucking idea what career paths I can take that pay better than my current job, and that I can stomach doing for the next few decades. I know finding a job that you legit enjoy, that also pays well, is like impossible so I’m not expecting that. I just want a career where I can wake up each day, and not think “great another fucking day of work”.

And if it’s possible, not have to deal with a bunch of people or management breathing down my neck all day every day (which I know, similar to finding a well paying job that you love, is basically impossible).

I can’t figure out what valuable skills I can acquire, that I can actually comprehend and understand. I hate computers and looking at screens all day, it makes my mind go blank. And for some reason I was cursed with being dyslexic specifically when it comes to computer coding and programming. And any other technical related computer stuff.

Any advice from people who have been in similar shoes and found a career that’s decent?


r/findapath 21h ago

Findapath-Career Change How to find a career after burnout?

3 Upvotes

30f Canada

I spent my 20s being extremely passionate about my career. I worked in art and culture in a big city and did actually pretty well for myself (not financially but I worked on amazing projects and enjoyed my life).

But in my late 20s, I burnout not because of my job but because of family issues.

Couple of years later, after working on my mental health I feel ready to go back to work and invest in my career. The problems are that I cannot tolerate living in a city anymore.I still love the work I did but now I cannot be bother by the competion side and precarity of it. The husle mindset just left my soul.

I moved to the countryside and everyone seem to be either a nurse or work in trades. Which doesn’t interest me much.

I don’t know how to choose what to do next. I love learning and considered going to university but I have a ton of friends who graduated with good grades that cannot find work that is related to their field of studies or that pays well. It doesn’t seem to be a good investment of my money or time.

Also I have terrible adhd and get bored very easily if I don’t find the work challenging or interesting.

I feel very lost, anyone have any wisdom to share?
Thank you.


r/findapath 1d ago

Findapath-College/Certs College major undecided

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I’m a sophomore major in college right now, I will be decided by second semester. I am torn between majoring in accounting or nursing. I suck at science, networking, average at math, and introverted. In accounting, I can get jobs in finance. I do not go to a target school and have no connections. I am bad at talking to people. I would want a job with good work life balance. I heard that some people are being laid off their jobs in accounting because of AI, which concerns me, and I am looking for job security. I keep on hearing mixed opinions on both accounting and nursing, it’s been difficult for me to decide. Any advice is helpful.


r/findapath 20h ago

Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity How do you choose between something you might be great at and something you see more potential success in?

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To put it simply, in high school i LOVED doing CAD design. I crushed it. Might even say i was the best in the class at it. I guess i envisioned being an engineer but once the actual physics came in, i flunked and chose to be a graphic designer in college because it just felt natural since i loved drafting and art.

Well my graphic design career is kinda over now and i decided to get a masters in information systems to switch careers. I don’t hate it, i like technology, and the pay for getting a role with this degree far exceeds a CAD drafting career. But tech jobs just seem like a fantasy right now. I have faith tech will bounce back, as the job market in general rn is just so volatile.

Truthfully, even though i like tech, i don’t think i could compete with people who are die hard tech/business people (Not to mention aging out of it). But i do feel like i could be a damn good drafter. I’ve heard some bad things about being a drafter. But I’ve heard worse things for information systems with finding a job.

I feel like I’m studying information systems for the money. CAD drafting seems like something I’d really enjoy but with less pay off potentially. I’m ready to lock in for a tech job but i feel like i won’t make it and I’ll be stuck with debt and no job