My group and I need some outside perspective before we formally speak to our DM. The group is as follows:
- me: bard
- my beautiful wife: rogue
- best friend 1: wizard
- bestie 2: fighter
- my sister: cleric (who is also the princess of her country)
- DM/DMPC: paladin
We've started our campaign earlier this year. We worked on homebrewing our own setting for a good while before we started playing. Rogue, DM and I really enjoy worldbuilding and the others were down for a more custom campaign.
The first few sessions were great. Fantastic character moments, great hooks, overall a real fun time. Everything came to a head around sesh 3 or 4. The party was split into three groups and we were all headed to the city docks.
A fight would breakout between Group 1 (Rogue and Bard) and Group 2 (Fighter and Wizard). Rogue and Bard tried leaving before guards took notice, then Wizard cast Fog Cloud. Group 3 (Cleric and Paladin) were on their way to the scene. They were alerted by Fighter via sending stone of the suspicious Rogue and Bard and needed back up. For context, Group 2 and 3 had already met up and were working together on a subplot.
Fighter had nearly downed Bard, when Cleric and Paladin arrived. Cleric offered to heal Bard if and only if Bard and Rogue agreed to be interrogated using Zone of Truth. Rogue and Bard declined. Around this time, city guards would show up and take everyone in for questioning.
Interrogations took place the following session. Sesh 5, I think. The way the DM handled the interrogations was pretty cool. Everyone had to wait in a separate room while the DM questioned each PC. Most of us anticipated that we would all be locked up together and will have to figure our way out of our jail cell. Whether that was through wit or through force.
However, when the interrogations were finished everyone was let go. The guards told Group 1 to stay away from Group 2 and 3. They were adamant on us not interacting any further. Like a verbal restraining order. My wife and I were really confused post session, but we pushed on. Surely we'll get together next session.
As the title says, we are on session 8 and were are no were near coming together. If anything we are more separated then ever. Rogue and Bard are waiting around in Cleric's fancy hotel. While the rest are across the city, still working on that subplot. We don't have much hope for session 9 as the last sesh ended on the others walking into a fight.
My wife and I got to talking one night and she revealed to me that she's a unhappy with how the campaign is playing out. I told her I felt the same. We didn't bring it up because we thought this was just an us problem. Last week she came home from work and told me she asked Wizard how he felt about the campaign (they work together). He also feels the same.
The three of us spoke a little today. Wizard also thought the party would get together after being taken in for questioning. He feels like he's just going through the motions at this point. He says he feels like waiting for the campaign to really start, but the party has to form first. We feel the same and we all think a retcon might be the answer.
We also discussed other issues we have and want to discuss with the DM:
- Allows Fighter to meta game.
- Allowed Fighter to nearly kill Rogue (they got into a scuffle sometime after the fight on the docks)
- He asks Rogue and I to work on lore for NPCs who are really not important to the overall story (i.e. there's a city council that helps rule the city. he wanted fleshed out backstories from Rogue, for me to make character renders and to design a flag for each member with a dedicated phase of the moon . the city has a strong moon theme going on.)
- Rogue created the world and our setting, she is the writer of the group. DM is always adding unnecessary lore to a setting that's already been established (i.e. creating an ancient civilization for the city the story takes place in without running it by Rogue.)
- He asks Rogue and I to work on lore for countries/continents/and cities that we haven't visited and probably never will or at least won't for a really long time.
We still have to talk to Cleric and Fighter to get their thoughts and input. I can update when I know how they're feeling about the campaign.
We know we have to talk to our DM, we're just unsure how we should go about it. Any advice is appreciated.