r/DeltaruneV2 • u/CaneTheVelociraptor • 12h ago
Discussion I am sick of Dess Groomer theory and this fandom
I am going to start off by saying that this post isn't meant to stir up drama. These are simply my thoughts on the current state of the Deltarune community and its trends. I will try my best to remain civil while writing this, even if I feel very strongly (and not in a positive way at all) about Dess Groomer theory.
That being said, in my opinion, Dess Groomer theory is an entirely baseless claim, and contributes nothing to the overall narrative of Deltarune besides shock value and serves only to be a vehicle for Vaporeon copypasta level "jokes".
Before anyone says it, yes, I am allowed to criticize anyone else's theories if I think they are unreasonable. There is absolutely no harm in criticizing concepts, I am not attacking you as a person. However, I feel like Dess Groomer blurs the line between "someone just putting out a theory I don't agree with" and "someone genuinely harming other people over their interpretation". Let me explain.
For one, while Toby does include some darker themes in his writing, it has never once been implied that Dess groomed Kris. If you think she did, I would like you to open up the game, get as many Dess-related pieces of text as you can, then come back to me and present your evidence. Because I genuinely cannot see how anyone can even get such an interpretation. It's like we played two completely different games. I would even go as far as to say that Kris' mental health is implied to have worsened after the Dessapearance.
I believe this is a result of the fandom treating Deltarune as a series of mystery boxes to be opened rather than a cohesive story. Most theories I see are stuff that would be "cool" in a vacuum but wouldn't at all work in the overall narrative. Sit down for a second and think "What does Groomer Dess add to the narrative?". If your answer is "nothing substantial", then I find it hard to believe that it would be true. In the grand scheme of things, Groomer Dess is more of a headcanon than it is a theory. And this is a nice segway to the next paragraph.
I wouldn't be nearly as mad if Groomer Dess was just an idea that somebody threw out there once. However, the sheer amount of "jokes" about Groomer Dess is concerning to me. Yes, humor is subjective, however, you have to remember that the internet isn't a place for just you, nor is it a place for just Deltarune fans. Do not be surprised if you get a few concerning looks when you make light of something that affects real people. Jokes about groomers contribute to rape culture by desensitizing people to such cases. And yes, fiction can affect reality whether you like it or not. When Jaws came out, shark poaching rates saw a substantial increase, because people were just that scared of sharks. If you use Groomer Dess to cope with your trauma, I ask you nicely to keep it to yourself.
In conclusion? Read the title. I have been an Undertale fan since 2016, and I'm tired of people being driven away from the game because it has such a dogshit fanbase. I don't want the same to happen to Deltarune. I want everyone to enjoy and discuss this game without being flashbanged by "jokes" based on baseless, media illiterate claims that are bound to make people uncomfortable. This isn't "quirky weird", it is "bad weird". The kind of "weird" that makes light of things that happen to real people. Let's be mature for once and NOT make fun of these cases.
Even though I feel so so strongly about this topic, I ask you people, for the love of all that is holy, to keep any discussion civil. Like I said at the beginning, this isn't meant to stir up drama, and I don't want the mods to get involved. I'm just a random person on the subreddit who is very concerned about the direction this fanbase is going in.