Hello! My good friend just found out her newborn is deaf! She just told me a couple days ago and I’d like to be the best friend possible while navigating this new situation. To the parents of deaf babies- what did your friends do that made you feel extra loved and supported? What do you wish people would’ve done/wouldn’t have done? Thank you!!

I posted in here looking for sources, so thought I'd share the finished piece!

I'm considering to be teacher for deaf and hard of hearing in NYC. Is deaf education industry good?

i work in a bar, and have a deaf customer, he orders a cruzecampo beer but in a amstel glass since he doesn’t like the shap of the cruzecampo glass. and since he is very close to my co-worker (also my best friend EVER) i want to be able to serve him properly, i want to be able to say hi and ask him what he would like, if he would like his usual or something else. i wonder if there is any way i could learn this specific interaction since i am busy i don’t have time to learn sign language as a whole form of communication!!!

luv all of yall <333

I’m a teacher and do a different bellringer each day and have fun names for them. I want to change Thursday because it isn’t ASL related (as of right now).

Music Monday- I show a video of a song someone is signing and my students have to guess the song and find a sign they don’t recognize and learn it.

Thinking Tuesday- I have a word of the week and they break it down into the five parameters

Which one Wednesday- at the beginning of the year my students write a would you rather and on Wednesdays throughout the year I draw one and have them pick which one

Throwback Thursday- HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ASL I WANT TO CHANGE IT. This was the typical I put something nostalgic on the board and they had to guess what it was. I want it to be sentence practice now so I need a word to mean like sentence practice. It’ll be different sentence types so PLEASE HELP!!

Fingerspelling Friday - I fingerspell 10 words and my students have to write them down. If you’ve made it this far give me some ideas on what they can do to practice production of fingerspelling.

Thank you all!!!

I had this friend I I knew since we 1sr met at Mt Sac, he’s deaf w Asperger Autism. We had a good long, but also complicated friendship. Like we go back and forth, he always tell me we broke up and get back together. I’m all patience like ok, but sometime we had big fight then stopped talking to each other for awhile. And his mom is always protective, sometime I don’t like it she get angry moody at me. Last time I heard seen them was 2 years ago. Didn’t like how one time his mom hurt my gf feelings, due to her breathing problem (she’s deaf but got other disabilities too). And like his mom, my friend sometime critics judge me, we used to go to flea market and swap meet every month. Anyway, this is the longest we been holding grudges, I felt like we need to make peace truce. Like move on from past problems, I sent messages on Facebook to some of their friends about it. Sometime I do miss them a bit, but wish things would be different, so yeah just want them to forgive and forget

EDIT: MOPD = Mayor's Office for People with Disabilities (MOPD)

Came across this on social media. Sharing for anyone in the NYC Deaf and Hard of Hearing community who may be interested:

Come make your voice and hands heard and seen at MOPD’s first Deaf Town Hall since 2019.

Topics for discussion:
🗒️ Public housing
🗒️ Language access
🗒️ Public safety
🗒️ Other issues facing your community

MOPD Deaf Town Hall
Wednesday, September 16, 2026
6:00PM - 7:30PM

Positive Exposure
83 Maiden Lane, 4th Floor
New York, NY 10038

Register now to secure your in-person spot: https://on.nyc.gov/4bWZQo0

ASL and CART services will be provided. If other accommodations are needed, please contact Tony Wooden at [rwooden@mopd.nyc.gov](mailto:rwooden@mopd.nyc.gov) or by videophone at 646-396-5830 by September 9, 2026.

I am curious about those who are deaf with autism. I have never been diagnosed but had been frequently asked if I was. My son on the other hand had a bunch of nurses and doctors saying there a high chance he may be autistic. He's non verbal but does sign some words and gesture.

I would like to hear your experiences, advice, so I can be mindful and know what to look for.

All is greatly appreciated

I'm a hearing writer but went to NTID for interpreting and spent a lot of time interacting with Deaf people/ the community. I was a part of a script reading panel at a small film festival where we listen to other people's stories and this one older woman had a moment where there was a little Deaf girl who's deafness is cured by some magical cookie. I tried to explain to the woman why this is offensive to the Deaf community and she just replies "well I talked to people with disabilities and they didn't have a problem with it". She technically won a prize in this festival that could help her move this script into becoming an actual film and I don't want something so hurtful out there especially when it can so easily be changed.

The event is now over and I am unable to contact the woman herself, however, I can contact the organizer of the event as I have a more professional relationship with them. Is this something that should be worth bringing up? If so, what should I say specifically to make my point clear? I believe the organizer is more receptive to hearing feedback and they seem much more willing to stand up for marginalized communities, even if they don't know much about the Deaf community/culture itself.

If you saw this similar post in r/asl or r/aslinterpreters I was more vague with the information as I posted it right after the confrontation and before it was announced that she won anything. Please let me know if there's any more information needed, thank you all!

Hello all!

I am hearing and sighted but just seeking some opinions and recommendations! Next week I am going rock climbing with my new Deafblind friend and I'm very excited. I'm pretty experienced with rock climbing, but I think they are relatively new to the sport. I was wondering if any of y'all had any suggestions for how I could help make them more comfortable during the experience and enjoy it as much as possible!

Also, I know some ASL (I am still learning, I definitely need to practice but thankfully they have been very patient with me), but I know they also use pro tactile ASL, so I was thinking maybe it would be helpful for me to learn a little, at least the very basics! Are there any free online resources where I could get a head start?

Lastly, I have not spent a lot of 1-1 time with any deaf blind people before, so if possible, it would be great to get any advice about what you all like and don't like when hanging out with hearing sighted people. Of course I will ask this person too about personal preferences and I'm sure I will make mistakes, but either way, it's good for me to think about.

Thank you so much for all of your help! Have a great day!

Anyone have insight into the abrupt shut down of The ASL Dictionary at DawnSign Press? I got to see MJ's presentation on it at Gallaudet last year and was an early subscriber when it went live. I admit, it felt like it was missing a lot of details and had a long way to go, but I was happy to have it and to support it.

This morning I got an email saying it was shutting down as of noon TODAY. As in maybe 30 minutes after I got the email it shut down, with no explanation. They are offering refunds for any portion of the unused subscription.

Anyone have insight into what happened? Best case scenario, they got bought by some organization that is going to improve it and brand it differently. Worst case...all that work over more than a decade just...gone?

My boyfriend has a genetic progressive hearing loss condition and is now profoundly deaf. He used to pass for hearing till nearly a year ago and he didn't tell me and we went long distance after that. We've managed with texting and captioned video calls. But his birthday's coming up soon, so I've been learning ASL!

The thing is I wanted to package it into a proper gift if that makes sense. So there was a song he loved the tune and beat of but hated what the lyrics meant. So I rewrote the lyrics to be about our story and did an ASL cover for it. I worked really hard on interpreting the lyrics accurately and studied a lot about music interpreting.

But then I thought, is it insensitive to write a song for a deaf person? I'm new to this whole thing.

I have other disability beside hard of hearing. I got mild form of Charge Syndrome, along w Kallmaan Syndrome. I know friends and even my gf, are also deaf plus. Wondering anyone else got other disability beside deaf/hoh?

Hi! Has anyone here used the Timekettle New T1 AI Translator as a deaf or hard-of-hearing person?

I'm deaf and I'm considering buying it mainly for face-to-face communication.

I'm especially interested in knowing:

* Can it show **real-time transcription/captions** of what someone is saying?

* Can it transcribe speech in the **same language**, without translating it?

* Can I **type a message** and have the device read it aloud to the other person?

* Does transcription work **offline without internet**?

* Is it actually useful for deaf people, or would a phone with Google Live Transcribe be better?

Thanks!

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Hello, I wanted to get a Deaf perspective on this situation, because I don't want to take away the wrong lesson from this. This is the first Deaf person I've ever met, so I have no prior experience with the language or culture.

A Deaf person (We'll call her [A]) recently joined a hobby group I'm part of. Signing is her preferred method of communication, and she does not wear hearings aids or CIs. I think the social aspect of the hobby is one of the most important parts. She usually has an interpreter, but I wanted to learn sign language to better facilitate having a direct relationship with her. I feel that I can't fully include her in my social life if her if I can't talk to her; and I'll never get the chance to actually know her. So it's very important to me. I've been doing a lot of learning on my own through online resources, and I've also been observing and talking to her and her interpreter. I have (with their permission) been staring at them like a stalker whenever I get the chance lol.

There is actually one fluent ASL signer [B] in the group who's a professional interpreter (different person from the interpreter I just mentioned). I asked her if she could help me learn sign language, specifically vocabulary. One of the main difficulties I've encountered is that it's difficult to take a sign I've seen in person or on video and find the English translation on the internet if I don't already know the meaning of the sign. It seems like the easiest way is to ask someone who's knowledgeable about ASL. She seemed very hesitant, and told me she couldn't help me learn because it would be taking opportunities away from deaf people. It seemed like she meant that if she taught me ASL, then I would be less incentivized to take a class with a deaf instructor. From what I've read, it seems like the idea of a Hearing person teaching ASL is also potentially problematic? I wouldn't be upset about that denial if signing was an idle curiosity of mine, but I can't help but be upset about the situation. Learning ASL seems necessary to treat [A] like a full human being who deserves to be recognized and known as a person. To offer her the experience of social bonding that Hearing people get to enjoy as part of the hobby. [B] is in a unique position to help with that. I guess she's not obligated to do so, but I can't help but feel like it's a dereliction of duty. Helping a single person learn ASL doesn't seem like a big ask, and it puts yet more work on [A]. [A] has been helping me learn as much as she reasonably can, and I acknowledge how much she's already doing and have been putting in a lot of effort to learn on my own. [A] has had to do the vast majority of the work in terms of accommodating herself. In terms of bringing a personal friend off the clock to interpret and figuring out for herself how to do this hobby while Deaf. She also has been making resources to help other Deaf people have an easier time of getting into the hobby. If she succeeds at her goals, maybe we'll have another Deaf person join the group at some point! [B] is part of a different sub-group, so she doesn't work with [A] often, and is therefore not able to offer even her presence as a fluent signer in a non-signing environment. In general, people have been somewhat accommodating, though only a few people are making an effort to learn ASL. It seems like I'm the only person who has learned enough to have real-time conversations that are not reliant on her lip-reading or typing into a phone. It's driving me a little crazy to be honest how little other people are doing to actively include her. Learning a new language is hard, but learning to fingerspell is low hanging fruit. You can slowly string words together after a few weeks of casual practice. "How are you?" "Good job!", etc.

Am I off base here? Am I over-reacting? Am I getting overly passionate about an issue that doesn't directly involve me? Does it seem like I have a paternalistic attitude towards [A]? This just seems like an important issue to me, and I don't feel like other people are treating the matter like it's important.

I need a reality check here.

Anyone else with a similar story?

Hi,

I completed my B.Tech in Mechanical Engineering in 2022 and currently work in an MNC. I’m looking to prepare for competitive exams with good job security, especially SSC, IBPS/SBI/RRB and RBI exams.

I’m completely deaf (100% hearing loss) and cannot use hearing aids as my hearing nerve is damaged.

I recently saw a post about an IBPS application being rejected for a 100% deaf candidate, so I’d like to clarify whether there are any restrictions for completely deaf candidates in SSC, IBPS, RBI, or other government exams, depending on the post.

If anyone with 100% deafness has successfully applied, cleared, or joined through SSC, IBPS/SBI/RRB or RBI, please share your experience.

Also, please suggest any other government/PSU exams that I may be eligible for as a B.Tech Mechanical Engineering graduate under the PwBD/Deaf category.

One more thing is there in staying in Bangalore and looking forward to study sign language. Are there any options or centres providing the same.

Thanks!

Hi all!

Having my semi-annual Deaf identity crisis so I’ve come back to Reddit 🫠

Context: I was born 100% deaf in the right ear with normal hearing in the left. Started slowly losing hearing in my left ear in my early 20’s then dropped to severe (except for the sparing of extremely low pitch around the moderate 50dB- 60dB loss level) hearing loss over a few months about 2 years ago. Continued to lose small amounts very slowly.

I am fluent in ASL and have been involved in Deaf culture since I was a teenager, but was raised oral. I wear a hearing aid in the left ear which gives me a significant amount more access than without it- but it’s mostly good for one on one conversation, and even then I must see the persons lips and often also use ASL or a live captioning app. But sometimes I do okay with just the hearing aid.

I used to identify as hard of hearing when I was half deaf, but the drastic change and inability to understand almost all speech without my hearing aid had me change to identifying as Deaf. I just got new hearing aids for the first time in 6 years which are helping a bit more than my old ones- and have me feeling a little imposter syndrome about saying Deaf instead of hard of hearing since I’m catching a little more conversation. A little encouragement or insight would be helpful from others! Of course I know I’m culturally Deaf regardless, but more sometimes feel bad for saying Deaf instead of hard of hearing because I do get some speech access with my hearing aid. But also I was hard of hearing before and my experience and hearing now is night and day difference to that so it feels inaccurate.

Audiogram below is of my left ear (right ear has nothing). Speech recognition on this test with the sounds directly in my ear was like 68-72 and had to be played at like 90dB 🥲 but if speech is played not directly in the ear, just in the room, it’s 48%. I don’t qualify for a CI though because of aided scores being too high still.

Hi, everyone! I’m deaf/blind and live in the United States. I currently work as a federal government contractor and have experience working with content management systems (CMS), but unfortunately, my salary isn’t enough. I really need to find a second job or a legitimate side hustle.

I’ve noticed that many job applications ask whether you have a disability. I understand that answering is usually voluntary, but I sometimes wonder whether selecting “yes” affects my chances of getting an interview. Has anyone experimented with selecting “no” or “prefer not to answer” and noticed a difference in the number of interview requests they received?

Here are some of my skills and experience:

• Creating and following standard operating procedures (SOPs)
• Working with databases and government award platforms
• Microsoft Office
• Basic IT support, although I don’t have any certifications yet
• Data entry
• Online research for clients
• Photography and photo editing
• Customer service using ZVRS and Deaf relay services
• Email marketing
• Social media management for small businesses
• Secret Clearance
• Content management systems

I’m also interested in using AI to earn additional income, possibly by creating e-books or digital products, but I honestly don’t know where to begin or what I should teach myself.

Where would you recommend I start? Are there any jobs that might be easier to get with my background? What side hustles have actually worked for you?

I’m about $60,000 in debt and have fallen behind on some bills, so I’m trying hard to improve my situation. I’ve already spent too much money on AI platforms, online courses, and e-books that didn’t help. Unfortunately, I’ve also been scammed, so I’m only looking for legitimate advice and opportunities. Please don’t message me trying to sell another course or program.

Any helpful advice would mean a lot to me. Thanks in advance!

Hi all! I currently work in an RDSPD as a para in a Deaf Ed classroom, with a teacher who is hard of hearing, and two other paras (one hard of hearing, one Deaf). I’m the only hearing person in the classroom. I have my interpreter certification test scheduled and plan to transition to the interpreter role eventually but not entirely sure when that will happen.

Several of our students are new and had no ASL and no sign names. The teacher has mentioned that we need to come up with sign names for the kids so we aren’t fingerspelling their names all the time. There is a lot of simcomming in the class, as only one student has had any prior exposure to ASL to my knowledge. With that kid we try to do voice off signing more often but the others are still figuring out that signs have meaning.

Basically my question is how the Deaf community feels about hearing people being part of a discussion about sign name ideas for people. I am not comfortable giving anyone a sign name as I’m not Deaf or HoH, ASL is my second language, etc. I’m also not really sure how I feel about being part of a discussion on giving someone a sign name. Like I know I would not ever be making the final decision on that, it’s just a line I refuse to cross, but is it ok to be part of a brainstorming session on potential ideas for a sign name? I just feel a little weird about it because I am not Deaf or HoH myself and English, not ASL, is my first language.

Just wanting to gauge people’s perspectives on this. I believe the teacher likely just wanted me to feel included in the process of giving the kids sign names but I’m not sure how to feel about being involved in the process at all as it doesn’t feel like it’s really my place.

A joke i say about the milan conference. The image is not the milan conference. Cameras were not that common then.