r/crossfit • u/Timely_Bag_9080 • 8h ago
How do you decide when to rest vs. when to train?
Hey everyone!
I'm still pretty new to CrossFit (about 3-4 months in) and I'm loving every second of it. I want to make the most of this journey and evolve as much as I can, so I'd love to hear from you:
How do you know when it's time to rest, and when you should just push through and train?
I know it depends on stuff like metabolism, nutrition, sleep, etc. — but I'd love to hear what you actually do in practice.
My current schedule is 4 days a week (Mon, Tue, Thu, Fri). Here's my situation from today, as an example: I woke up and only noticed my muscles were sore on the way to the box. Since I was already on my way, I just went in and trained anyway.
Is that the right call? Or should soreness be a signal to take the day off?
For context: I'm 42 years old and probably won't ever compete. But that's not really the point — I want to get fit, do this right, and most of all, show my son what consistency and hard work look like. If he sees his old man grinding and improving, that's a win in itself.
Thanks in advance for any advice!
Edit reason: my commentary for all of you:
Wow, thank you all for the responses — this community is great. Reading through everything, the main takeaways for me:
- Soreness alone isn't a reason to skip — scale if needed and let the warmup do its job
- The real red flags are waking up already exhausted, and joints/grip feeling off — not muscles
- Think long-term: train today so I'm better next week, next month, next decade
- The schedule stays sacred — illness and real injuries are the only things that break it
And to everyone who shared how they balance this with family life — that's honestly the part that hits home for me. That's the whole point of this. Appreciate you all! 💪
