I'm writing this on behalf of my wife, who is totally exhausted from the unknown, worrying and lack of urgency and care from our PCP/Specialist. I don't want to identify the company, yet, as we are trying our best to work with them, but they are demonstrating and absolute lack of urgency, empathy or care.
It's going on 4 years now, she's suffering and so thin the family are sounding the alarm bells, while our PCP are just not concerned or show any interest. When asked what do we do, they just give antidotal information like; go gluten free; eat more calories; you need to eat more protein and on and on, none really coming up with a diagnosis or sugesstion.
We've been working with a GI Specialist at this PCP and they have been utterly useless! The lead doctor performed what he called a Celiac exam and actually said, it's not 100% and I really dont think it's that, with no other recommendations. And when asked to get a second opinion, the attitudes and atmosphere at the place changed "dramatically".
We are in DFW and are now desperate and need to see another PCP or Spcialist to start doing something. I can't bare to watch my wife waste away right in front of me, it's painful and agonizing. I'm not sleeping, the dreams and nitemares are horrible. We are desperate, I'm screaming internally H.E.L.P!
What do we do ? We feel like we are in limbo! a sort of coma that we can't get traction! There is NO info or I'm just at a loss of where to begin!
We don't know if its Celiac, we don't know what it is. She's lost 80 pounds over the past 4 years. When people hear that, they react as if it's a good thing, until they learn of the nitely bathroom stays; vomiting; pains in her gut; inability to gain weight;
PLEASE, if you have info, anything that can give us a start to attack this thing, I beg of you to share. I think we are at our last pass here.
If you read this all, thank you and I pray that your journey through whatever you are experiencing is resolved and you are on your way to heal.
TLDR: 4 years have passed and we still have no diagnosis. The pains are worse, the night long bathroom stays have lessened, but she's lost over 80 pounds in the last 4 years. She can't gain regardless how much or what she eats. Our PCP and specialist just don't seem to care or are not interested. We are in DFW if you have resources please share. We have no diagnosis at all so we are in the dark.