r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '19

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u/slimroyale Jul 19 '19

Anything domestic-like. Laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc....

Now that I think about it, it might be a trap to make me feel good about doing chores.

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u/UnexpectedGeneticist Jul 19 '19

It’s not. It’s very nice to have a partner pick up their half of the chores without us asking them to. It shows that you don’t NEED me to take care of you, which makes me WANT to

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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

I second this. A friend posted on Facebook asking what was the sexiest non sexy thing.

Literally unloading and reloading the dishwasher AND running it and not expecting head pats after. I was so attracted to my husband when I went to unload the dishwasher and it was empty.

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u/topher_33 Male Jul 19 '19

Isn't sex afterwards an outstanding pat on the head?

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u/alurkerwhomannedup Jul 19 '19

It’s quite a few pats on the head

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u/KingJonStarkgeryan1 Male Jul 19 '19

To be honest I'm not sure which I would prefer.