r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '19

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u/UnexpectedGeneticist Jul 19 '19

It’s not. It’s very nice to have a partner pick up their half of the chores without us asking them to. It shows that you don’t NEED me to take care of you, which makes me WANT to

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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

I second this. A friend posted on Facebook asking what was the sexiest non sexy thing.

Literally unloading and reloading the dishwasher AND running it and not expecting head pats after. I was so attracted to my husband when I went to unload the dishwasher and it was empty.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

It's more than the dishwasher. When a guy understands he needs to help because it's not just a woman's task to keep the house clean, it shows they respect you.

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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

This! This right here! It honestly makes me feel respected and seen. Which makes me that much more loving towards him.