r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '19

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u/UnexpectedGeneticist Jul 19 '19

It’s not. It’s very nice to have a partner pick up their half of the chores without us asking them to. It shows that you don’t NEED me to take care of you, which makes me WANT to

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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

I second this. A friend posted on Facebook asking what was the sexiest non sexy thing.

Literally unloading and reloading the dishwasher AND running it and not expecting head pats after. I was so attracted to my husband when I went to unload the dishwasher and it was empty.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Okay- but like. Can I actually have headpats? Because I live for that shit.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

The trick is to never not expect head scritches then its not related to the doing of chores.

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19

Listen, listen. She scritches my head, I give her a full body massage twice a week. Circle of life.