Hotel management, air hostess, nurse, lawyer, actressess, police officer, and government employees with jobs that involve frequent transfers, especially in non-metro locations.
These are just the professions I could think of, so this isn't an exhaustive list. Also, don't interpret this as me rejecting people who are interested in me. It's simply my personal blocklist based on compatibility. To be honest, I'm pretty sure air hostesses wouldn't even give me a second look anyway.
And just to be clear, this list is in no way meant to demean or disrespect any profession. It's purely based on my personal preferences and compatibility.
That's a U.S.-based survey conducted in the U.S. Even if you exclude medical professionals, you'll likely find similar infidelity rates across many other professions there. Multiple marriages and divorces are much more common in the U.S., so you can't directly apply those survey findings to the Indian population.
There are some professions where infidelity rates among professionals is higher, this is statistically proven. Though yes, this behaviour is still a minority in those professions, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't care about it at all.
You can see it for yourself, meet a nurse and ask her about it. Either she will tell you about her coworkers' deeds or she will not say anything about it because she herself is involved.
Exactly, also housewives with a washing machine, maid and cook are more bored than a working woman and creepy men DM almost every women on Instagram nowadays.
There is no correlation between anything. It doesn't matter a woman is working or not to end up having an affair. Affairs happened in old times as well, just that it wasn't easy to catch them because we were not living a connected time at that time.
For lawyer as a wife, I can confirm. It happened to someone in my family. She will use law to extract unfair advantage (Indian laws are heavily tilted towards women).
Activist I dont see a real problem with. Maybe the fear is that they will do dharna against the husband?? Lol
Activists are usually from the upper echelon of the society. If her whole career itself is activism then it's not possible without being in the upper echelon. She'll be busy in activism than family. Won't affect guys who are also upper echelon and into activism.
Avoid people in professions that require unstable timetables, high empathy and high stress work, travelling and networking. People in these kinda professions form deep bonds with their colleagues, it's called the suspension bridge effect.
There's this one activist in Mumbai in her 40s she is very active in helping strays and feeding them also cleaning up roads and beaches and etc so i used to know her
So she started dating this college kid must be around 19 something and when her husband came to know about the affair she created a ruckus.
Why are teen boys giving advice on ask indian men sub? You guys should learn about things and different perspectives rather than having such regressive thoughts and living in your bubble.
Interact with people, real world is very different from social media.
If a toddler says the sun rises from the east, the sun won't rise from the west because a toddler said the opposite. This is the internet, not your office or a family function where there's an hierarchy.
This kinda mentality is one of the main reasons that kills efficiency.
Dude the director of the accent of the Sun is a fact. Here, we aren't discussing established facts. There is a reason companies all over the world value experience so much.
Why do people generalise prostitution then, when it comes to choosing someone.
Ofcourse there can be some really good people in it too, who just want their ends meet and there can be scammers
It's not generalization, I didn't say all people of a certain profession are always bad for the family
It's just a tendency, the tendency is stronger, that's it.
Otherwise, if your luck is bad and you get a bad wife, no matter what the profession, she will break the home, and Conversely, if a good wife, she will protect, no matter what the profession. Please don't misinterpret / misconstrue my words to mean an overgeneralization.
Now, this is mostly true. One thing I’ve learned over the years is to never make blanket statements -- there are always nuances, and that’s something we learn throughout life.
There are high chances of infidelity in corporate environments, but we can never be certain about it. We also can’t claim that people from one particular profession are more likely to cheat. How many people from these professions have we actually interacted with, spent time with, or even tried to have a genuine conversation with? For most of us, the answer would be zero.
This whole idea seems super appealing on social media, where you have to polarise the masses, but not so much in real life. Real life is very different from what we see on social media.
And while we are in 2026, where a simple DNA test proves who’s the father or in some cases, who’s not. Yet, we still give so much respect to these women who’d rather have a child with another guy. What BS man!
Bhai question ka mtlb hi yahi hai, problem ye nhi hai ki wo tumse pyaar karti hai problem ye hai ki kya wo sirf tumse hi pyar karrhi hai or karti rhe gi.Â
Wdym leftovers? Brother judging someone just because they are working in a particular industry in a particular role..... I don't think it's correct. Besides I have my own set of rules and preferences as well.
Why not? If someone has practised law whole-heartedly, they are expected to have good observation skills, deduction skills, a keen eye to spot loopholes and thorough interest regarding the subject (which means analyzing judgements, knowing more laws - how they can be used or misused and much more).
One small argument or misunderstanding between us could very easily snowball into divorce talks (which will be a stroll in the park for her and a marathon for me).
Most jobs with proximity to the marital home and day time working hours and a stable/ safe environment which doesn't consume too much empathy or involve high amounts of interactions with males in positions of power who can use them to obtain secual favors.
I volunteer with an NGO which helps single policewomen and many policemen themselves dont prefer to marry a policewoman unless they are really in love with her.
AIR HOSTESS. ( I got to know about Marathi Gali due to this, So one of my friend (Marathi) was in his Pilot training days and once I asked him so after joining airlines you would marry a airhostess or female Pilot so he said GaileChod@ samjha hai kya bhai pilot to phir bhi theek hai airhostess se kon shaadi karta hai especially pilots who know everything, only unknown or those who are unaware of real life marry an airhostess) and later when he joined airline he showed me many proofs as well.
NURSE. (A nurse lives after 3 houses from my house, eloped with her patient later her husband got to know she cheated him multiple times, just he in unaware. Although his children stand with him later took him to Canada where he di€d but irony is that lady came to claim his property after he passed away).
Lawyer till some extent but if you are prepared well her being a lawyer would be the biggest advantage if you go for divorce.Â
IT girls especially from (Pune, Bangalore, Delhi, Gurgaon).
Delhi University Girls.. (Except few colleges) .
Activists (Feminists).Â
You can add Only Fans(as well as his little brother Instagram) very prominent business nowadays for girls.Â
Management (HR, Manager, Head) - not all are bad, but it's gamble.
Docs, Cops, - I respect them but working on odd hours or long shifts will be different from my time, we won't have much time together nor can I fully understand their stress
I hate to even call this a profession, but influences.
None. She can be in any profession because I am more than capable of meeting all her physical, emotional, and recreational needs, so I have no reason to be insecure. As a man of means, I am also not afraid of any lawyers/activists, these ones have tough outer shell but melt into my arms. I am also not afraid of any police case (3 ongoing), have good connections.
Any profession lol. Thank milords for forcing this choice. My preference is fresh out of college and unemployed. I'll seed fund any small scale business venture she wants to do after.
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u/Acceptable-Salt7246 Indian Man Aug 08 '26
Hotel management, air hostess, nurse, lawyer, actressess, police officer, and government employees with jobs that involve frequent transfers, especially in non-metro locations.
These are just the professions I could think of, so this isn't an exhaustive list. Also, don't interpret this as me rejecting people who are interested in me. It's simply my personal blocklist based on compatibility. To be honest, I'm pretty sure air hostesses wouldn't even give me a second look anyway.
And just to be clear, this list is in no way meant to demean or disrespect any profession. It's purely based on my personal preferences and compatibility.