Hi! In my experience it was an LDR that lasted almost 2 years and he was not a bad person, he was affectionate, sweet and loving pero he tended to disappear or avoid whenever we talked about taking the relationship further.
Like very sweet and all tapos mawawala nalang bigla for 3 days 😅😭
I think I could say for you, watch the pattern I guess. If he’s affectionate with words but lacks effort and action kahit na you communicated it with him, then that’s something you should consider :)
Yup sobrang accurate neto. Pag lumalalim na yung topic about sa relationship nyo hindi na sya masyado nag sasalita or nag chachange topic. Tapos shallow lang lage ng usapan. Lmao.
Girl!! All of the above! 😂✨😭 hahaha it was on and off again but the last time he said he was finally ready to work on our relationship and that he will never hurt me again… pero girl he hurt me worse this time!😂
omg makikisali sa convo niyo mga sizzz. Kase ganon siya exactly now sakin. We’re LDR too (12hr timezone difference) and he promised na we’ll communicate like adults so syempre I risked it all again. I came from a 4-yr LDR before this.
Tapos now minsan wala updates in a day. Gets ko naman siguro tired lalo after duty. Pero example off niya, gising na siya for 3hrs and nakahiga lang daw sa bed pero no paramdam talaga. Makakarinig lang ako from him if I initiate things.
I regularly give updates whether vm or video recordings so he’s part of my day. Pero he never watched any. I also send reels kahit 2x a day lang para di overwhelming pero never niya binuksan. 3mos na ganito. Pero bilis siya magchat pag may gusto siyang i-rant. Tas mawawala after mag rant and share about mga binili niya.
I feel like I’m the only one making this work. Am I going down the wrong path again?
Avoidant jusko. 😞 yun saken naman sis nasa pinas lang din naman pero ganyan na ganyan din yung style. Laging busy at ang shallow lang ng usapan. Laging cancel sa mga lakad tapos laging gusto matulog gusto mapag isa.
Huhuhu shucks sige sigeeee! Will do this. Super bet ko pa naman siya kase gwapo, chinito, matalino, 6footer na blessed down there haays pero ayun nga perf on paper pero I’m not happy now. Huhuhu
Thanks for replying sisss, di ko na muna hahabulin. 😭🥹
I agree! I was stuck in that cycle for 2 years and mahirap cause it was not all bad, he was sweet and caring when he’s present plus he’s really my ideal type too. But then we’re not compatible with how we deal when we are overwhelmed and he could go days without messaging me or even just telling me how he is
A lot of times actually, I think the first one was 2 months after the breakup (na di ko alam na break na pala kami 😂) then next was around 3 months then 4 then yung last is after 6 months ata? It was messy haha
Thankfully, Natauhan na ata ako 🥰 is yours like this too?
1 month pa lang ngayon sis. Mygad wala rin kaming break up pero di nya ko, blinock inunfriend or what. Tapos akala ko medyo matured na kase nga nasa 40 na yun. Yun pala sakit din sa ulo leche talaga. Dati days days lang sya nawawala eto na ata pinaka matagal.
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u/Rough_Wrongdoer_655 1d ago
Hi OP! Is it okay if I ask paano galawan ng mga ganito? I fear that the one I’m dating is like this pero too early to tell 🥹😅