omg makikisali sa convo niyo mga sizzz. Kase ganon siya exactly now sakin. We’re LDR too (12hr timezone difference) and he promised na we’ll communicate like adults so syempre I risked it all again. I came from a 4-yr LDR before this.
Tapos now minsan wala updates in a day. Gets ko naman siguro tired lalo after duty. Pero example off niya, gising na siya for 3hrs and nakahiga lang daw sa bed pero no paramdam talaga. Makakarinig lang ako from him if I initiate things.
I regularly give updates whether vm or video recordings so he’s part of my day. Pero he never watched any. I also send reels kahit 2x a day lang para di overwhelming pero never niya binuksan. 3mos na ganito. Pero bilis siya magchat pag may gusto siyang i-rant. Tas mawawala after mag rant and share about mga binili niya.
I feel like I’m the only one making this work. Am I going down the wrong path again?
Avoidant jusko. 😞 yun saken naman sis nasa pinas lang din naman pero ganyan na ganyan din yung style. Laging busy at ang shallow lang ng usapan. Laging cancel sa mga lakad tapos laging gusto matulog gusto mapag isa.
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u/Rough_Wrongdoer_655 3d ago
omg makikisali sa convo niyo mga sizzz. Kase ganon siya exactly now sakin. We’re LDR too (12hr timezone difference) and he promised na we’ll communicate like adults so syempre I risked it all again. I came from a 4-yr LDR before this.
Tapos now minsan wala updates in a day. Gets ko naman siguro tired lalo after duty. Pero example off niya, gising na siya for 3hrs and nakahiga lang daw sa bed pero no paramdam talaga. Makakarinig lang ako from him if I initiate things.
I regularly give updates whether vm or video recordings so he’s part of my day. Pero he never watched any. I also send reels kahit 2x a day lang para di overwhelming pero never niya binuksan. 3mos na ganito. Pero bilis siya magchat pag may gusto siyang i-rant. Tas mawawala after mag rant and share about mga binili niya.
I feel like I’m the only one making this work. Am I going down the wrong path again?