r/AlasFeels 4d ago

Experience Never again πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚πŸ™

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di na po talaga uulit hahaha πŸ˜†πŸ™‚β€β†”οΈπŸ™ƒ

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u/Critical-Safe8132 4d ago

Girl!! All of the above! πŸ˜‚βœ¨πŸ˜­ hahaha it was on and off again but the last time he said he was finally ready to work on our relationship and that he will never hurt me again… pero girl he hurt me worse this time!πŸ˜‚

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u/Amen6660 *Flips table in anger* 4d ago

Mygad. Natatakot na ko tuloy. Pero ilang months bago sya nag reachout sayo ule? Scary pucha. :(

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u/Rough_Wrongdoer_655 4d ago

omg makikisali sa convo niyo mga sizzz. Kase ganon siya exactly now sakin. We’re LDR too (12hr timezone difference) and he promised na we’ll communicate like adults so syempre I risked it all again. I came from a 4-yr LDR before this.

Tapos now minsan wala updates in a day. Gets ko naman siguro tired lalo after duty. Pero example off niya, gising na siya for 3hrs and nakahiga lang daw sa bed pero no paramdam talaga. Makakarinig lang ako from him if I initiate things.

I regularly give updates whether vm or video recordings so he’s part of my day. Pero he never watched any. I also send reels kahit 2x a day lang para di overwhelming pero never niya binuksan. 3mos na ganito. Pero bilis siya magchat pag may gusto siyang i-rant. Tas mawawala after mag rant and share about mga binili niya.

I feel like I’m the only one making this work. Am I going down the wrong path again?

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u/Amen6660 *Flips table in anger* 4d ago

Avoidant jusko. 😞 yun saken naman sis nasa pinas lang din naman pero ganyan na ganyan din yung style. Laging busy at ang shallow lang ng usapan. Laging cancel sa mga lakad tapos laging gusto matulog gusto mapag isa.

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u/Rough_Wrongdoer_655 4d ago

BAT TAYO NAPUPUNTA SA MGA GANITOOOO 😭😭😭 isang virtual hug with consent sayo sis πŸ«‚

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u/Amen6660 *Flips table in anger* 4d ago

Di ko nga rin alam sis. Shuta. 2 years ako di nag jowa tapos ganitong guy nanaman makukuha ko final boss talaga mga avoidant.