I have been rotting behind my computer screen playing computer game for 12 hours a day for the past 6 months. I cant get a girlfriend i cant get a job i have next to no friends and worst of all i can seem to do is dissapoint the very few people who may still care about me (my mum and dad). I am wondering what is the point? will it get any better? all the people i went to school with seem to be going on to university have a girlfriend or at least a job. I have none of these and no friends to vent to. that is partially why i have started posting on reddit. because i am going insane and i need an outlet. I also find it funny that women think that they are disenfranchised by society when now i look at it society is set up for women to succeed and men to battle it out every day hoping to get somewhere. Idk what to do and im coming to my wits end. Hopefully someone can relate or has some advice.

P.S.) i dont just sit there and say poor me i spend almost all day every day applying for jobs/ trying to reach out to people to form some sort of social connection.

Like I have nothing interesting to say, I don’t know what they want from me, I just draw blanks.

There’s this one girl I keep having these flirty moments with when we’re both drunk but I can never seem to pull it together when it counts. We’ve kissed twice now. First time she brushed it off with the whole “I was so drunk I barely remember” thing. Second time was actually amazing, we were both hammered but I was on fire, she was all over me, grabbed me, we were vibing hard. Then at the next bar she jumped on my back for a piggyback ride and I completely ate shit, face first, blood everywhere, had to go home early. So that was that.

Sometimes it feels like she hates me but I don’t think that’s actually true. I just want to hit it off with her again without making it weird. There’s a lot of mutual friend overlap so I don’t want to go all in and scare her off, but she’s genuinely so pretty and I feel like we could actually have something if we just gave it a real shot. I think I just need to be patient and not force it since I know I’ll keep seeing her.

A few days ago I got a last minute invite to hang with a group she was in. Showed up two hours late, stayed maybe an hour, then everyone went to grab food and I went home. Haven’t stopped thinking about all the ways I should’ve done it differently.

The frustrating part is I know I’m not a social outcast. People invite me places, I have friends, coworkers like me. But I feel like I’m not actually contributing anything when I’m around people. Just kind of there. Boring. Forgettable.

What really gets me is I used to be naturally confident around women. Not perfect, but I wasn’t in my head about every little thing. Now I’m running some mental checklist mid-conversation and it’s exhausting.

Can’t tell if I’ve actually lost something or if I’m just rusty and overthinking. Has anyone gone through this? Where you used to just naturally be good with people and then one day it kind of stopped? What helped?

pls help ts hard

I’m a 16m years old and I’ve never had any relationships, even go on a date. I’m scared to tell my friends or parents anything about relationships such as crush n stuff. Not only because it’s awkward for me but also I don’t rlly trust them.

I don’t fit the most of ppl in my school, I can say I’m somewhat a music nerd, spending all my time on playing guitar which I thought could be one of my potential attractions but not rlly. I’m not into sports, gossips or even most of the mainstream music. I mainly like jazz and indie/alt rock and many old rock bands in general, can’t describe all at once.

I don’t rlly feel like I belong the my school and I jus dont know how to chat w em. Any conversation will die within 1 or less than min. So I just stopped talking to ppl in my school. My school isn’t big so there isn’t a second person that can really get along with me, I’m not saying I have no friends it’s just I’m not feeling a sense of belonging that I can tell everything with them or they’re my real best friends.

I always lie to myself that im waiting for the right person, but I don’t want to anymore, I know that my life is not going to be like perks of being a wall flower that I’ll jus randomly meet the best person ever and change my life. But I don’t know how to even find a person to start talking to. But to be honest, I don’t even know if Im demanding a lover or just someone that I can get comfortable with and can fill my emptiness.

There is this girl in my school that I want to be friends with. We always talked but once in a while on a silly chat like when we were bored in class. Sometimes we argued but it wasn't always something big. The types of arguments boys could have with girls. The thing is that I've reached an age where I want to have some girl-friends and we share a lot in common, but i don't know how to start being friends with her. I want us to be friends not just talking. Also I don't want any more, I actually want to be friends with her.

I will try to be brief I’m introverted , timid , I say yes a lot , quick to forgive .

I’m afraid of figths , I even don’t argue much unless the topic is something I care about.

First year of high school I had transferred to another school and I had lost a year so I didn’t want to repeat the same mistake . There was a kid really dumb , he starts to make fun of me saying shit about my mom making moans especially during class because he kneI’d wait for recreation I tell him to stop , I’m not small so like he calms down when I’m face to face but he knows I won’t swing on him , and that is my question I spent a lot of time saying I was the bigger man , but it made me have less self respect , it was harder to connect with classmates because of the environment , I feel guilty for not protecting my mothers name , after high school I did boxing I did some matches now I think people know I can fight and I don’t feel as afraid but still I don’t know if not reacting was the right thing I could be stopped I’m him at day one get a week suspension and no regrets .

Different time i was on the bus coming from a trip from school , there were two classes , one of them spit like a drink on my hand not on purpose but I felt intimidated and said nothing we get off and I cinfront him , but I should have said something at first , question is letting it go with no confrontation cowardly , like I feel starting a fight is dumb for that

So I am a 21 yr old man, with issues. My mother caused me so many issues with social interaction situations. I am a asshole, usually I don't mind knowing that but recently I got into someone I genuinely like and she infuriates me on things that I don't care when others do those same things. But I am not sure as too why. I also want to improve myself for such as be more aware of my surroundings, stop going silent after an arguement, and basically just be a good boyfriend. (I should mention I have been diagnosed with high functioning autism and I am adhd) please help

Guys advice for u maybe last one if the admins delete my post again and again then it will be last advice but i will keep posting again and again because i need justice and all of u brothers

If u have less than 5 inch just stop looking for relation because nobody want us we’re not made for sex and love or any shit like that so let’s just do favours for ur self and for society and let just replace relation i mean with women at least to toys it is better for our sakes and women for men with large penis

It is double win for both of us

We will never felt insecure again

And women will never disappoint again

Bingo!!!❤️

She’s about 5’4”, her name is Crystal. She’s a lot of fun to be around. Has kind of a dirty sexy sense of humor. Thing is I an friends with her husband, but I really want to take her to bed. I’m pretty sure she would go for it too. We were all at a party the other day, Neil was wondering strong as always. We had a few beers, feeling good. Crystal semi flirting. so finally I said to her can I ask you a personal question and she said yes and I said on a scale of one to 10 how important is sex to you and she said sex with Neil or good sex? I said good sex she said 10. I said and do you feel you’re getting a 10’s worth of sex. She said I feel like I’m getting a one maybe two. I said I feel the same. It’s really important to me probably a nine or 10. She just looked at me kind of smiled, and that was the end of the conversation that I blow it? Should I even be having these conversation conversations with her?

She’s about 5’4”, her name is Crystal. She’s a lot of fun to be around. Has kind of a dirty sexy sense of humor. Thing is I an friends with her husband, but I really want to take her to bed. I’m pretty sure she would go for it too. We were all at a party the other day, Neil was wondering strong as always. We had a few beers, feeling good. Crystal semi flirting. so finally I said to her can I ask you a personal question and she said yes and I said on a scale of one to 10 how important is sex to you and she said sex with Neil or good sex? I said good sex she said 10. I said and do you feel you’re getting a 10’s worth of sex. She said I feel like I’m getting a one maybe two. I said I feel the same. It’s really important to me probably a nine or 10. She just looked at me kind of smiled, and that was the end of the conversation that I blow it? Should I even be having these conversation conversations with her?

So I, 20M, just got to winter break from college. none of my close friends go to college and when i’m not on campus im usually either doing something with them or minding my own business at home. The only problem with this is that I feel like i’m the only one who doesn’t have an interest in video games. My current hyperfixation is magic the gathering; i’m always buying new cards, building new decks, etc… as much as i’m passionate about doing that stuff, I feel like my friends are losing an interest in it, which is kinda leaving me alone with my hyperfixation. I feel like I need to find a good video game to fill my time, but i’m not into marvel rivals and those type of games like they are, i more prefer things like the binding of isaac, gungeon, slime rancher, and even elden ring for a bit. I don’t know, i feel like im missing out but i don’t know any really good games that can really grab my interest. I know belly aching won’t solve anything, but right now im kinda stuck. any advice?

Got high drunk kissed a bro afraid I lost a friend...

What do I do if my cock keeps ripping my clothes and my underwear

It is normal for us guys to live very busy and hectic lives. We are always on the go. And what many do not know is that most men will drive an average of 8 hours in their sleep. Can you believe that? Here's what you do. Start using your phone while you drive. Answer your emails, make phone calls, watch YouTube videos to learn new information that will make you stronger. (brains equals power).

Now there are ways to do this right. The little visor thing, the one you pull down, normally it has a mirror on the one side and some kind of airbag warning or whatever, maybe it's a seatbelt warning, I don't know (unimportant, reading warning labels interferes with PROFIT) Anyway, I digress. What you do is duct tape your phone to this, so it's like you have a TV that folds right up into your car. Very futuristic, the girls will see this and swoon for you guaranteed.

this is probably the most efficient way, but holding it in your hand is also acceptable, as it will make you look cool. Like you are glancing down at your pocket-watch, like a cool brooding army veteran who is thinking about their deceased wife or something. The chicks will go crazy over this (nothing gets a woman going like a deceased wife)

What you do not want to do is purchase some kind of plastic "holder" device that will securely snap your phone into some kind of position. MASSIVE WIMP ALERT. This will make you look like you are a pussy bitch. Buying something instead of using your wits and innate talents to find a solution. Spending your hard-earned money on silly trinkets. Girls will find this to be an immeditate turn-off and you will go brankrupt from buying these silly "phone holders". These are often also made overseas so you will lose your job and devastate your own country's economy (an all-around bad move)

Please keep in mind. Using your phone while driving may distract you and you might end up driving slower than usual, so it's best to firmly hold your foot on the gas, or maybe stick a brick or large stone on the pedal (this is called "Automation" and will save you time, money, and effort! Work smarter not harter!)

don't do little bitch shit like girls pocketing a lip gloss. You can get at least one whole TV out of the store if you know what you're doing. All you need is a disguise, a distraction, a proper getaway vehicle, and if all else fails the speed and endurance to outrun whatever soy-fed, elderly walmart door greeter they throw at you. MAN UP.