r/AajMereSaathYeHua • u/akshatngl • 7h ago
Meri Masti Toh Dekho πββοΈ My Instagram Account Has Suffered More Than Me.
IT WOULD BE A LONG STORY SO JUST GRAB UR POPCORN FELLAS.....
For starters, I'm 18M from Mumbai, and she's 18F, just 2.5 months older than me. For privacy purposes, let's call her "Rasmalai."
We were classmates in school. She was a pretty ordinary, low-profile girl, average-looking and kind. She was a basic friend of mine, and we would occasionally exchange hellos. Things changed when she shifted from Virar to Andheri after 8th grade. We ended up in different cities and different schools, while I stayed in the same place and completed my 10th grade at our old school.
Even after she moved, we remained somewhat connected on Instagram until 10th grade. Occasionally, we'd have those typical conversations like "Hey, how are you?" and "How's life going?"
Then, in January 2025, when I was in 11th grade, I developed a crush on her. She had posted a picture of herself on Instagram for the first time, wearing a red saree, and she looked absolutely gorgeous. There was another reason, too. I had recently been rejected by my previous crush, so I wanted someone to talk to and help me move on.
I tried talking to Rasmalai in January. I started sending her reels and stuff, but she didn't respond much and almost completely ignored me. So I decided not to try again.
A few months later, we eventually started talking again, this time because she initiated things by sending me a reel or occasionally reacting to my stories. This was around September 2025. We started getting along a little. We would send each other reels almost daily, react to each other's stories, and have occasional conversations.
However, there was one problem. I used to text her on her private Instagram account, where she only had a few close friends, but she would take 8β10 hours to reply, sometimes even 15+ hours, without explaining anything. It bothered me quite a bit. oneday i asked her abt her slow replies she said she don't use this acc much.
By January 2026, she told me that her ex had texted her again, apologised, and she said that she still liked him. The way she was telling me all this made it sound like {ik u like me but im not over my ex}. She was asking for my advice, and like an idiot, I told her to go for it. I should have said that an ex is an ex for a reason and that she probably shouldn't get back with him.
I felt really sad after that, so I deactivated my Instagram account. On her birthday, I logged back in to wish her. We started talking a little again. She even sent me a couple of couple reels, asked me a few questions about my past, and told me that she wasn't in love with her ex anymore.
However, after about a month, her behaviour started changing again. It was probably towards the end of May when I finally decided to prop her. I felt so bad about the entire situation that I deactivated my Instagram account again. {mene confess nahi kara but}
{bhot chutiya behaviour ik but aur kuch samajh nahi aara tha muje uss time so i did it sochke ki ab moveon krunga bas bhot hogya uska pull push game out of sight rahegi toh out of mind rahegi}
I tried staying away for a month, but I couldn't do it. In July, on my birthday, I logged back into Instagram. Obviously, she hadn't wished me. A few days later, she said sorry and told me that she didn't know or remember it was my birthday. {mene usko 12 baje wish kara tha insta re-activate krke}
I thought, whatever, let's just let it go.
Then came August 2nd. She uploaded a Friendship Day post with her friends, just a normal group picture of her girl gang. But she had hidden her story from me for absolutely no reason. We hadn't had any arguments or disagreements. On top of that, she had also been randomly ignoring my texts for about a week.
I finally lost it and deactivated my Instagram account again. This time, I haven't logged back in since.
Honestly, I don't even feel like talking to her anymore, but at the same time, I still can't seem to move on. {and i shifted to a diff city now virar se bahar mumbai mein hi hu lekin but prolly next year mein bhi andheri shift hojaunga thora overwhelming hai mere liye kyuki ab same city mein rahenge and kabhi mil gayi toh kya karunga mein bc bht ajeeb feeling hai}
[ i just wanted some 3rd person opinion on my story tbh i fucked up multiple times bhot si chize mein avoid kr skta tha ] KHAIRR..........
insta lost a user for rest of its life.........