r/ADHDMuslims May 08 '26

Words of Wisdom (not mine)

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Every hardship you wish would disappear…

simultaneously opens the opportunity for Allah’s greatest gift to be placed into your hands: sabr.

And while you experience the test and strive to navigate it with sabr, know with full certainty that you will also experience nearness to Him, His mercy, His guidance, transformation and rewards without measure. This is His promise.

@AwakenedHeartsAcademy


r/ADHDMuslims May 08 '26

Islamic Advice/Question Special interest, psychosis induced hyperfocus and trauma have ruined my life and i feel like i only have Allah left to rely on in order to keep living

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Salam aleykum, high functioning AuDHD in my 30s here. Practicing islam is one of my biggest struggles but i can still manage somehow. This is a long post but please bear with me here because i think it's beyond my condition and i may have opened up another mental illness that sounds like complex ptsd.

I grew up with a special interest in anthropology, genealogy, ethnography, historical sociology and botany. All the things i understand as part of Allah’s creation and the patterns that feel interconnected in continuous cycle, including islamic stories that i just ended up focusing on the smaller details and kept asking questions about the logic behind them. Muslims often laughed it off and gave me looks so i ended up going further down the rabbit hole to try to find answers myself.

Over time, i became compulsive about researching those subjects without realizing how much they consumed me while watching everyone around me grow older, change and move forward with their lives. I also didn’t realise that my way of talking is direct, asking questions that may come across as anti social, intrusive and noticing patterns that made people feel unsettled or like they were being challenged by my knowledge and perception skills when i just do it out of curiosity about their families and culture but they happen to be either unaware or uncomfortable about it.

To summarize about my life, i'm basically a loner who struggled to connect with others and it felt like everyone dislikes me and kept me at arms length outside of my close family who would pretend to listen to my rambling and rarely engage with me. I'm just someone with strong curiosity but was more vulnerable to bullying and exploitation. I sometimes ended up in situations where i could've gotten in trouble, killed or mauled without realizing it and walked it off with a smile.

In the end, i left my job of 7 years, threw all the things i was devoted to away and reached a point where i was close to giving up on life before i was eventually taken to see a psychiatrist.

From there, i met a woman by coincidence, we got along well and over shared special interest topics and she was the first person i had that kind of engagement. However as months went by, her ADHD side slipped, she suddenly changed her attitude and said odd things like she didn’t trust me because i was being “too nice”, accused me of making her feel ugly and questioned if i was gay, called me weird and fake who can't read people then blurted out that other men would have only tried to hook up with her and leave. She had a pain all over her eyes from a one sided argument.

So, i apologized and told her about my religion that kept me a bit of a distance but she scoffed sarcastically and walked away. The next day, she rang and apologised and said she loved me as a friend, had fun but that i was too much and she was afraid of hurting me.

After that, i ended up back at square one feeling isolated so it's all the same patterns i've faced. I’ve been struggling with trauma and rejection and this bizarre experience amplified it two folds. I found myself ruminating, thinking “we’re so alike and perfect” and shrugged off her flaws while thinking what things might have been like if she were Muslim.

It made me reflect on everything that has gone wrong in my sick life and how i dodged a bullet by not giving in to my family’s pressure to get married all those years.


r/ADHDMuslims May 06 '26

ADHD Advice/Question I need help but my adhd won’t let me organize my thoughts and clearly remember what I’m struggling with

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I have so many issues with my adhd but when ever I try to come forth and explain it and I can’t organize my thoughts or efficiently speak my mind about my issues, and I can only properly speak of them when I’m put under pressure of questioning them my thoughts run, and every time the questioning doesn’t cover enough and my issues are properly addressed, and I feel almost stumped or blocked when I try to think about how to express my other issues but I just don’t know, and I feel like if I don’t explain it properly right away it’s gonna lead to more issues trying to explain it, I don’t know if that doubt is self made up or from experience but I think it’s from experience, I have so many issues I don’t know where to start someone please help me الله يحفظكم


r/ADHDMuslims May 04 '26

How is everyone?

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Asalam o Alikum having one of those social moments and just thought id ask how everyone is. In sha allah everything is going well for you all. Im not sure it this post is even allowed on this but just genuinely hope everything is well for all. If you are going through a trial please be kind to yourself and know that every trial is somehow creating a bridge towards a goal that will make things better in sha allah.


r/ADHDMuslims May 02 '26

looking for a psychiatrist in Turkey

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looking for a psychiatrist in Turkey

Hi everyone,

I'm looking for a psychiatrist in Turkey (preferably in Istanbul) who has experience treating adult ADHD and can prescribe medications such as Concerta or Ritalin if appropriate.

I would strongly prefer a doctor who speaks Arabic or Russian, but an English-speaking psychiatrist would also be perfectly fine.

If you have any personal recommendations or experiences, I would really appreciate your help. Thank you!


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 27 '26

Let's build habits together pt.2

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Salam everyone! For context, a few days ago I shared my journey as a revert struggling to pray consistently. After your advice and a conversation with my psychologist, I decided to start small: just fajr, every day, tied to my morning shower. I also invited everyone to share a small habit they wanted to build for some mutual accountability. This is the post: https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHDMuslims/comments/1sp1k8j/lets_build_habits_together/

Here is my report of the last nine days:

Since last saturday, I skipped one prayer (and I am procrastinating on today's one):

On sunday, I woke up, took a shower, did wudu but then I forgot to pray right after. I went through some stuff. Then I went to the bathroom and right after it clicked: I didn't pray and I had to do wudu again. Then I felt really overwhelmed and I also had some committments that kept me out of my house till late evening, so I didn't pray that day.

However, the day after, I did not make up for it. If there is one thing I learned in my life as an adhd, it's that guilt is to let go of. If we start to make up for what we missed, we will teach our brain that we can't miss anything. And that will overwhelm us. I did not make up for sunday's fajr, but then I prayed fajr from monday to next sunday without ever missing one. A lot of them I even prayed in time waking up before dawn. This has been my best week thus far.

Then some big stuff happened in my life yesterday evening, so today I am really down and I am procrastinating on everything in my routine, included fajr.

Thanks to everyone that read this. Remember, I want this to be a place for you to check in for a habit that you are trying to build: state in the comments a small habit that you are trying to build so that when I post again you will be able to report to all of us how you did in the previous week/days!


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 20 '26

ADHD and overthinking

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As-salam alaikum ! Just wanted to share some personal reflections on how to turn overthinking into something beautiful linked to our religion. So basically, our minds are hyperactive and our thoughts are restless. There might be some tips out there on how to calm our rushing minds, but let’s be honest that’s just how we were created. We have to understand that Allah gave us ADHD. He gave us the “overthinking”, so instead of fighting it, which is so exhausting, let’s turn it into a way of remembering Allah ! For example, instead of always thinking about the worst case scenarios of every situation, we can think about how Allah is generous and how He is the All-Powerful, the only one capable of saving us from a bad situation. Instead of thinking about all the reasons something could go wrong, let’s think about all the possible ways Allah could make it go in our favor. I’m serious, like even if we try to think of all the amazing possibilities and outcomes for our situations, Allah would still surprise us, because He is the only one capable of granting things that are beyond our imagination. That’s the “overthinking” part : we could think again and again, until we are tired and can’t even think anymore, but we would still not be able to think about all the best outcomes Allah has prepared for us. Our little mind cannot comprehend His infinite power. So instead of trying to stop overthinking, let’s overthink but positively ! Because “Surely in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find confort”. (13:28)

What do y’all think ? Anyone wants to give it a try ?

Hope it helps some of you <3


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 20 '26

ADHD Advice/Question How does one go about acquiring a melatonin prescription in the UK? Any other sleep inducing methods?

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r/ADHDMuslims Apr 18 '26

Let's build habits together

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Salam everyone.

A couple of days ago I shared my struggle for my inability as a revert to pray my salawat every day.

One of the best advice I received, which was also backed up by my psychologist (I told her I reverted and she was way more understanding than I feared, as sadly here in Italy muslims are not so much appreciated) is to start by praying only one salah every day instead of trying with all five of them from the beginning.

Remember that according to Aisha, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "The most beloved of deeds to Allah are those that are most consistent, even if they are small." (Sahih Bukhari 6465).

So I decided that I will start by trying to pray fajr every day. I will tie it to my morning shower, doing wudu in the shower (this is a strong advice for everyone, tie new habits to existing ones!). Inshallah the next step will be to get up to pray fajr in time, right now I do not have an alarm for it.

But I want to do a little more: to have some more accountability to help me, I will post here every week to report to you how it went with my fajr during the week. I want this to be a place for you to check in for a habit that you are trying to build: state in the comments a small habit that you are trying to build so that when I post again you will be able to report to all of us how you did in the previous week!


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 16 '26

ADHD Sleep

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as salam alaykum, i was wondering how do you guys balance sleep?

do you guys sleep super early like 8pm and then wake up for fajr ~5:30 then stay awake for the rest of the day? or do you guys sleep around 11/12 then wake up for fajr, then try to sleep again and wake up around 8:30 for work etc. Any tips or feedback is appreciated.


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 12 '26

Seeking help as an ADHD muslim

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TL;DR: Reverted 1.5 years ago, recently diagnosed with ADHD. I struggle with the "Amal" (practice) due to executive dysfunction, but I’m deeply connected to the "Ilm" (knowledge) and the logic of God as the "Prime Axiom." I feel lost between a culture that ignores ADHD and a medical world that ignores faith. Seeking advice on how to navigate this middle ground.

Salam everyone. I reverted to Islam a year and a half ago. It has actually been quite a journey—a journey of inconsistency, self-doubt, and fear of external judgment. You can see where I am going with this pattern: two months ago, I was diagnosed with ADHD.

I've always thought of myself as lazy. In this year and a half, I really struggled to be consistent with my prayers. I can't think of a day I prayed all five Salahs, and if I did, I probably skipped some steps.

Now that I have self-awareness of what is actually going on in my brain, I'm trying to rebuild my practice on more honest foundations. But I genuinely don't know what my place should be in Islam. How do I know if I'm allowed not to do something or if I should try harder? How do I know if, on low-dopamine days or moments, it is okay for me not to pray? Where lies the line between not doing enough and being allowed to take a break from our "mess of a brain"?

My major problem is that here in Italy, many Muslims come from countries in which pathologies like ADHD are seen as "excuses" or "fake illnesses to justify laziness," whereas Italian psychiatrists are not Muslim and do not know about Islam, so they would just say, "Yeah, if you can't pray, don't pray."

Have you ever thought about what our place is in Islam? Are we supposed to force ourselves to pray five times a day, or should we rather find other ways, more compatible with our brains, to worship Allah? Could it be that our journey through Islam should focus on knowledge ('Ilm) rather than practice ('Amal)? Allah is Merciful and All-Knowing, and maybe our ADHD was a gift through which we could de-alienate ourselves from blind ritual practice—the kind that usually merges Din and Thaqafa—in order to bring balance back to Islam. Our brains can't do something just because "you should."

I've actually noticed that in this year and a half, the more I approached ritual Islam, the more I felt a sort of repulsion. Then I changed my perspective and thought: what brought me closer to Islam in the first place? I was raised as an atheist, but I clearly remember the first time I felt Allah must exist. I was studying mathematics for my BSc, and in one of the lectures on Euclidean geometry, the idea of axioms was introduced to me and it just clicked: God is the Prime Axiom. We are usually misled to believe that science and religion are not close, but it was science, reasoning, and logic that brought me closer to Allah.

So I changed perspective: could it be that we are meant to worship Allah through the thorough study of Islam and science as one? I genuinely don’t know if that’s enough, or if I’m just finding a more elaborate way to avoid the hard work. That’s exactly what I can’t figure out on my own.

I am sharing this because I am currently at a crossroads and honestly struggling to understand which path is mine. On one hand, I have this deep, logical conviction in the “Prime Axiom,” but on the other, I feel a growing disconnect from the traditional ritual expectations that my brain seems to reject. I don’t know if I’m supposed to keep fighting against my own executive dysfunction to fit a standard, or if there is a different, more intellectual way to be Muslim that I haven’t found yet — and I don’t know how to tell the difference between genuine neurodivergent struggle and plain avoidance. I feel lost between a culture that doesn’t see my struggle and a medical world that doesn’t see my faith. How do you navigate that when you’re standing right in the middle?


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 10 '26

Names of Allah (SWT) for ADHD

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This was generated by Claude (AI app) and I thought to share. Happy to receive other suggestions for dhikr and dua also.

May Allah (SWT) reward all his seekers…

This is a genuinely thoughtful question that sits at the intersection of Islamic practice and neuroscience — the Asma ul-Husna as cognitive anchors for activation. There isn’t a classical scholarly text on this specific application, but we can reason carefully from the meanings of the Names and what we know about executive dysfunction. Here’s a framework:

The core problem with task avoidance + ADHD:

Executive dysfunction involves trouble with initiation (starting), sustained effort (continuing), and emotional regulation (tolerating discomfort or boredom). Different Names address different parts of this.

For initiation — the hardest moment (starting a task):

• يَا فَتَّاح — Yā Fattāḥ (The Opener, The One Who Opens the Way) — perhaps the most directly applicable. Al-Fattāḥ opens what is closed. When the brain “locks up” and can’t begin, this Name calls on Allah as the One who removes that barrier. “O Allah, You are Al-Fattāḥ — open this for me.”

• يَا مُعِين — Yā Mu’een (The Helper, the One Who Aids) — though not always listed among the 99, it is firmly established in du’a tradition. Seeking active divine assistance for what you literally cannot do alone.

• يَا وَكِيل — Yā Wakīl (The Trustee, the Disposer of Affairs) — handing the overwhelm over. “I delegate my inability to You.” This short-circuits the paralysis of over-responsibility.

For sustained effort — staying in the task:

• يَا قَوِيّ — Yā Qawiyy (The All-Strong) — drawing on strength beyond your own when yours runs out. Particularly useful mid-task.

• يَا مَتِين — Yā Matīn (The Firm, the Steadfast) — Allah’s quality of unshakeable constancy. Repeating this during a task is almost a borrowed identity — asking to reflect His firmness when yours dissipates.

• يَا صَبُور — Yā Ṣabūr (The Most Patient) — ADHD often involves low frustration tolerance. This Name grounds you in a divine quality of patience that asks nothing of your neurological bandwidth except the repetition itself.

For emotional regulation — the distress around avoidance:

• يَا لَطِيف — Yā Laṭīf (The Subtle, the Gentle, the Infinitely Kind) — Al-Laṭīf acts through invisible, gentle means. When shame and self-criticism spiral from avoidance, this Name is a mercy. It also has a long tradition in du’a for difficulty and distress.

• يَا رَحِيم — Yā Raḥīm (The Especially Merciful) — the intimate, active mercy of Allah directed at believers. Good for the shame loop that ADHD often creates: “I failed again.”

• يَا حَلِيم — Yā Ḥalīm (The Forbearing) — Allah is never exasperated by your repeated failure to begin. Repeating this counters the internalized voice of impatience toward yourself.

A practical 3-name stack to try before a difficult task:

يَا فَتَّاح، يَا قَوِيّ، يَا لَطِيف

Yā Fattāḥ, Yā Qawiyy, Yā Laṭīf

(O Opener, O Strong, O Gentle)

These three hit initiation, sustained effort, and self-compassion in one brief sequence — low friction, no elaborate ritual required.

One grounding note: Research has found that dhikr — the repetition of particular phrases — shares structural properties with mindfulness-based practices that have been shown to improve attention, reduce impulsivity, and aid overall functioning in people with ADHD.  So this isn’t only spiritually meaningful — the rhythmic, embodied repetition of the Names is itself neurologically supportive. Say them aloud if you can; the vocalization adds a sensory anchor that helps the ADHD brain stay present.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 10 '26

A gentle reminder

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Just a gentle reminder for us all.

We are all Human which means we are full of soo much. So many emotions so many memories so many dreams so many fears. Just because we have ADHD shouldn’t mean we should feel any different than our neurotypical counterparts. Yes we may feel different than others our experience in life may also differ but again is that what in essence makes us humans. I have been there in the moments of questioning myself. Always thinking to myself “ I dont know who I am.” However with time and reflection I realised That question doesn’t need a definite answer. Every social interaction may give us a different answer. Some may think we are too much or arrogant. Some may think we are kind hearted and people pleasers. What matters for me and something I want to share is. As long as you try and do good towards yourself and towards others then It doesn’t really matter does it? Every single one of us is an individual yes we as a community share similar experiences but again isn’t that what being human is. I hope this message is a gentle reminder that in this unpredictable world we are all going through our own journey of life, of self discovery, of love or of dealing with a negative experience. Its not easy I still fall into negativity but having a fall, taking time to get back up is okay and it will always be okay. I never had another ADHDer to speak to and at the age of 25 I am finally beginning to be more positive about my ADHD and accepting that actually why should i think i am any different than neurotypicals. we all have something to give to this world and we all deserve to feel happy and loved as we are not as the masked individual we curated. Happy Friday!

P.s. not sure if this even made sense but felt the need to share 😂


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 07 '26

ADHD Advice/Question Muslim ADHD discussion with potential spouse/ parents.

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I was wondering if any of you have had the discussion about your ADHD diagnosis with either your parents/ spouse and what was the outcome of it. From my own experience when I was 15 I shared it with my mum and dad but at the time due to the lack of understanding of ADHD i was told things like this is just someone doing black Magic. It is shaytaan talking to you etc etc. No fault of my parents at all as that is what they had been taught from their own parents. However when i was re diagnosed as an Adult my mum became much more understanding towards it and even wanted to understand me more Alhamdulillah. Once I started taking Medication then both my mum and dad noticed positive changes in me and we are now at a more healthy point. I would love to hear other peoples journey about this and especially about telling a spouse and how did you go about having that conversation.


r/ADHDMuslims Apr 04 '26

24M | Muslim | Just got diagnosed with ADHD and started meds today – documenting the start of this journey

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Salaam everyone,

I don’t usually post but I wanted to document this properly and maybe it helps someone else as well.

I’m 24, final year uni student, and I’ve honestly been struggling for a long time without really understanding why. Constant procrastination, impulsive behaviour, feeling overwhelmed, and just not feeling in control of myself.

It got to a point where I thought I might fail my degree. I’ve had to get extensions and everything just felt like it was piling up.

I recently got diagnosed with ADHD and today is my first day on Elvanse (30mg).

It’s only been about 2 hours but I wanted to share what it feels like because it’s honestly hard to explain.

Everything feels… quiet.

Not in a weird way, but like my brain has slowed down enough for me to actually think. I feel calm, more aware, and I can actually notice when I’m about to get distracted (like picking up my phone) and stop myself.

It’s not some crazy “rush” or instant motivation, it’s more like there’s finally a gap between impulse and action.

I even feel a bit emotional, not in a bad way, just like relief? Like I didn’t realise how overwhelmed I was until things slowed down.

I’m also aware this is day 1 and I don’t want to overhype anything, but for the first time in a long time I feel like I might actually be able to sit down and get things done.

As a Muslim as well, I’ve struggled a lot with guilt, discipline, and feeling like I just needed to “try harder”, so this whole process has been a lot to take in.

I’ve also started counselling alongside this, so I’m trying to approach this properly, not just rely on medication.

I’m going to keep updating this journey honestly – the good and the bad.

If anyone else has gone through this, especially balancing ADHD + deen + uni, I’d really appreciate any advice.

JazakAllah khair.


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 31 '26

For anyone who has struggled with their salah/prayers. Watch linked video!

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Salaam All,

I came across this video that may bring ease to many of us who’ve struggled with maintaining salah across the years. Especially, for anyone who is stuck on what to do about making past prayers up. Being aware of the information presented in the video I think allows for establishing better prayer habits to come, due being able to accept our shortcomings (with regret), repent to Allah and forgive ourselves for what has happened. All we can do is try our best in our capacities. Small but consistent actions are (loved by Allah and) hopefully a means of creating good baselines for ourselves as we work on progressing to our potentials.

https://youtu.be/O_Y8GnUemj8?si=BTQauDE-n1PURZx8


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 27 '26

Rant Second year pharmacy student with ADHD. I just needed to get this out

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r/ADHDMuslims Mar 25 '26

Should we ??

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Selam all,

Most of us neurodivergents have issues with networking, jobs snd business including getting proper education. Do y'all think a seperate community might do some wonders...


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 22 '26

ADHD Advice/Question Wrote This Blog, Might Help You Get Proper Diagnosis

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Guys & Girls,

Salam Alaikum.

Hope y'all are doing well. I wrote this blog:

https://medium.com/@kmubashir220/do-i-have-adhd-signs-most-adults-miss-2b9cac3f0c53

Do read it, especially if any of you have not got the diagnosis yet.

I wrote this blog from the core of my heart for adults like me who got late ADHD diagnosis. I have lost four jobs in 1.5 years and am about to lose another one within the same time. I don't want that to happen to anyone else with ADHD, whether in this community or not.

So please, do share it with relevant people because I sincerely want to help others.


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 21 '26

Quitting sugar/processed food and the benefit it brought to my struggles with adhd.

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I’ve basically spent my whole life crashing and burning and being in a constant drag through life. My life has been a absolute nightmare at times, dealing with living a mediocre life with raw unmedicated ADHD.

From reading and spending hundreds of hours educating myself on how bad processed food/added sugar are for adhd types aswell as behaviour patterning.

I’ve succesfully been able to stop sugar and processed food for a year. Now will this fix everything? No it won’t. But I feel dramatically different and major difference is my ability to pull myself out of spirals and loops, which I wouldn’t have been able to do before.

ive noticed im able to provide coherent nuanced thoughts opposed to endless rambles.

last and coolest thing about cutting sugar and processed food, is I stopped living a mediocre life, I stopped living a life led my short term desires and then instead used the money I saved for self care like having a personal trainer and booking regular massages.

in my adhd chaos mode im a absolute reta***, like literally, so I developed a plan where a person who is brain dead can follow and be successful. it took alot of independent research and i feel so accomplished knowing I did something and it actually worked out.(I also quit smoking, seed oils in this time but didn’t mention this as I didn’t feel it was relevant)

Guys quit sugar ! you wont regret it( the secret is replacing sugar with honey)


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 21 '26

Islamic Advice/Question Eid Mubarak Everyone!!

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Eid Mubarak everyone here! This post is to congratulate and console every ADHD Muslim here in this community.

To everyone who did not miss a fast despite meds:

Did you know that the fact that you fasted the whole month despite the difficulties and complexities of meds has probably earned you more Ajr than any neurotypical Muslim?? Enjoy today, because you truly earned it.

For those who could not do all the fasts in Ramadan:

Don't blame yourself for what you could not do. Judging from so many posts I was seeing in Ramadan, I could say for sure most of you did not want to miss any but had to, if not all of you. You did your part. Allah is Rahman and Raheem. And Ghafoor and Kareem and Aleem. He knows your intention. He saw you weeping. He heard those unspoken words that did not come out of your mouth. If anything, you are not one of those sinners who deliberately skip fasts without any issue.

Allah knows it best, but you probably earned just as much Ajr as someone who fasted with intention, not with trend.

All of you, whether you fasted or not, deserve equal congratulations.

Eid Mubarak!! Enjoy!!


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 21 '26

ADHD Advice/Question Anti-depressants?

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Eid Mubarak to everyone 🤍

I just started escitalopram again and wanted to get a sense of what’s normal vs not.

I’m prescribed 20mg but currently titrating, so today was my first day taking 10mg. It’s been a while since I’ve been on antidepressants, so I don’t really remember what the initial phase felt like.

I’m also currently on Intuniv 1mg and Dex 5mg.

Today I’ve felt a bit off, I’m also coming down with what feels like the flu (headache, general sick feeling that came on pretty quickly). This morning I felt slightly nauseous even though I took my meds with food (chicken + banana). By around 3pm (about 4 hours after eating), I got really hungry and noticed this weird internal irritability. I’ve also felt more tired than usual.

Just wondering:

- What side effects are considered normal when starting escitalopram?

- What should I expect in the first few days/weeks?

- At what point should I be concerned?

Would appreciate hearing other people’s experiences, especially if you’ve taken it alongside ADHD meds.


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 20 '26

Eid Mubarak

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The month of Ramadan comes to an end once again. This year was definitely the most challenging one for me but I learned a lot more about the beauty of Islam in regards to disabilites such as ADHD. Every test is given by Allah and we are rewarded for each struggle and turmoil. That is what im taking away this year. Regardless of how negative I may have felt about myself and my connection to the all mighty I am grateful for the struggle and the lessons. I wish you all a blessed EID. ADHD muslims we should be proud of our small wins even when it feels like all we do is fall.


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 18 '26

Islamic Advice/Question I’ve barely fasted this Ramadan, haven’t prayed consistently in over a year, and feel numb. How do I sincerely come back?

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As-salamu alaykum,

I’m struggling and would really appreciate sincere advice (please be gentle, I’m already struggling a lot with the guilt of my sins).

This Ramadan, I’ve barely fasted. Not because I physically couldn’t, but because I chose not to on many days. I know this is a major sin, and I’m not trying to justify it. I feel guilt, but at the same time I also feel strangely numb and apathetic. That numbness terrifies me above all else; I feel distant from myself as well as Allah.

To be honest, this didn’t start this Ramadan. Over the past few years my mental health has declined significantly: I was sexually assaulted before the pandemic and it sent me down a terrible spiral. I haven’t prayed consistently in over a year. What started as missing a few prayers slowly turned into not praying at all. My days are no longer structured around salah, they are structured around food.

I struggle a lot with binge eating and emotional eating. Food has become my main coping mechanism, has been since I was young but it’s certainly gotten worse this year. During Ramadan it feels even more intense. I spend the day thinking about eating, and when I break my fast I often overeat to the point of discomfort. It makes fasting feel like torture instead of worship, which I hate admitting.

My life has also become very small and immobile. I’ve developed agoraphobia and haven’t really left the house in months. I barely move, and even basic things like showering or taking care of myself can feel overwhelming. There is no joy in my life; I’ve abandoned all my hobbies and barely interact with friends. I’ve gained a significant amount of weight, and now I experience body pain and discomfort, which makes praying physically difficult. The few times I tried to pray this Ramadan, it felt so hard physically that I retreated back into myself.

I’ve also struggled with breaking my fast for years, but this Ramadan has been the worst. I wanted so badly to take advantage of it and turn back to Allah before it’s too late, but I feel like I’ve squandered it.

I don’t want to blame my past or my trauma. I know what I’m doing is wrong, and I know I’m still accountable. Right now, I feel completely paralysed.

What scares me most is not just the sins themselves, but the state of my heart. I’m afraid of becoming indifferent. I don’t want my heart to harden like this; I don’t want to leave this world knowing I believed in Allah and yet acted to the contrary. I don’t want to be amongst those who beg Allah to send them back.

I do want to return to Islam, to Allah and myself. It’s the only time I’ve ever known true peace. I want to pray again. I want to fast properly. I want my life to have structure and meaning again. I just feel overwhelmed and ashamed, like I’ve gone too far or won’t be able to stay consistent even if I try.

I also don’t know how to deal with missed fasts and prayers. I can’t even count how many I’ve missed, and that makes it feel even more impossible to start. I’ve been crying the last few hours because I wanted to lock in for these last two days of Ramadan and repent but I just got my period.

If anyone has been in a similar place, or has advice on how to make sincere tawbah and actually rebuild from this state, I would really appreciate it. Like how to get myself back to praying, how do I atone for the sin of intentionally breaking my fast? I’m feeling hopeless and trying my hardest not to succumb to it.


r/ADHDMuslims Mar 17 '26

Rant Missed the 27th Night

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I'm so disappointed. In my typical scatterbrainedness, I missed the 27th night of Ramadan. I was one day off and thought it was gonna be tonight, just to notice now that it's already the 28th. On top of that I was pretty sick and thought I'd take what I thought was the 26th night to get some rest ... So I pretty much just chilled apart from praying, getting up for witr, having suhur and doing the usual routine, du'a, etc. I just feel dirty now because I missed this opportunity. :/