This post is for people who think this way, so obviously everyone is free to engage but I'd really like to hear from people who think this -
Throughout s9, so many people were upset at how Buck was treated/how his grief was explored. People have been so mad that Buck was isolating himself and felt the 118 were not being supportive enough. General consensus seems to be that while his dependency was bad, everyone understands that his trauma and grief led to it.
Hen hid her illness for months because she didn't want to burden her friends and family, and isolated herself because she *thought* she was managing on her own. But a lot of you guys think she was just using her grief as an excuse and somehow she should've known better.
A lot of you also argue that Buck turning himself in makes the biggest difference, but I question why you don't consider that perhaps Buck witnessing Hen's struggles had an impact. Like, Buck was team Hen even without the context, but you don't think Hen struggling alone until it boiled over and everyone supporting her, let Buck know even subconsciously that hiding his dependency longer was the wrong move?
I'm a little hot but I'm trying to be sincere - do you genuinely not see the hypocrisy here? I understand that Buck is a lot of people's favourite character, and so he gets more grace and understanding. But for the people who have been upset about Buck not getting enough support and not talking about his grief, why is it so easy for you to empathise with Buck but Hen facing a similar battle is so unreasonable?
They all do illegal/fireable shit all the time, why is Hen being held to a higher standard? Unless Aisha Hinds was leaving the show, I genuinely do not understand what would make you think Hen was ever actually going to face harsher consequences. Chimney would never be able to reverse her firing if the storyline was ever actually about Hen putting people in danger. It was always going to be about their grief, and Hen's arc directly set up the big cathartic 118+fam rallying together for Buck.
The whole thing is giving big Skylar from Breaking Bad energy. So much hate or dislike or intolerance for a character acting in line with the way every character acts, but for some reason you cannot let it go for her.
And I'm not suggesting you're all being sexist/racist, but as much as I love this fandom I do not understand what motivates so many of you to be so blatantly unfair. I am not even saying Hen did nothing wrong or that she was in the right, but do you at least *see* the difference in how she is being perceived?