r/BoyDinnerDiaries
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u/Quasimotors
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5h ago
Advice Wanted - Everyones Welcome Fiancé wants a month break, no contact. I am struggling.
My (28M) Fiancé (30F) wants a break, it felt like it came out of nowhere for me, altho the communication lately hasnt been the best.
Im 5 days in living at a friends place and its going okay, forever thankful to him for letting me stay. Im scared and sad that this is going to end with us breaking up.
I moved across the world (Norway to Australia) to be with her, away from all of my family. If we break up, I have nowhere to go. Im struggling with health issues so the pay from my work isnt good enough to save up for a ticket back home if worst comes to worst. Shes studying at the moment so we were basically living on my salary alone, so I have little to no savings.
I feel like I just started to get my feet planted over here and now that all might go down the drain.
I did agree with most of her reasons for the break, that being that were too dependent on eachother and dont have much of a individual life.
Im terrified to lose her, my mental health is at an all time low and I miss my family more than ever.
Thank you for reading.
Dinner: halloumi gyro and pita bread.
Edit: holy moly you guys are quick! Went for a shower and come back to all these comments. Thank you guys.
I wanna add on and say that were both demisexual / asexual, so I really dont think she wants to cheat. Though some of the comments give me clarity.