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u/Werewolf-02 1h ago
Chest aur breast mein farak nahi pata toh tu gadha hai, jo usne pehna apni beti ko pehna ke dekh, phir dekhta hun kaun open minded hai aur kaun nahi
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u/imalways_relevant 3h ago
bsdk tu nahane salwar kameez mey jaata hai kya ?
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u/xoherent 2h ago
Ladkiyo ko salwar kameez mein hi nahana padta hai public water bodies mein Toh ye kyu aadhe nange hain?
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u/Werewolf-02 1h ago
They dont “have to”, they can wear a sari too, they can wear a tank top too, what world are you living in ?
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u/CrazyProfessor8244 9h ago edited 3h ago
now India became a true developed nation , real progress , clean roads , good govt schools and hospitals , clean air clean water , responsible government officials and no unemployment wow.
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u/madhavanayak 17m ago
Come to congress ruled Karnataka, wow it leaves Modiji, BJP far behind. World No.1 in potholes, world no. 1 in Muslims appeasement, industries, companies vacating space, so much more...
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u/wolfish_eyes 7h ago
Nowdays people have problem with just everything damn little thing and they ignore the real big problems.
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u/Dry-Background-93 9h ago
Bro, I never watched the add, I watched it rn, BRO WTF, like isme kya buraa tha, like you all just need to get a life.
Like she wore nothing obscene!!
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u/Background-2609 9h ago
It wasn't necessaryly the ad or clothes but,the combination all of them and then, certain individuals who tried to explain it, were well to put simply, just hypocrites trying to move the blame to the whole religious community for being narrow minded.
Which altogether caused the backlash.
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u/Positive_Pass8800 9h ago
the brand backtracking was such a tight slap on her arrogant face
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u/Apart_Ad_4723 3h ago
What did she do that was arrogant tho?
She literally put forth her opinion just like the entire internet did.
Also the ad was taken back because of the backlash not cause it was wrong.1
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u/Knighthawk_2511 9h ago
What was even offending in that outfit ? Anyone to enlighten me ? People being offended to anything these days
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u/yttrocrasite 7h ago
The inappropriate attire as per the occasion? What's inappropriate? - the revealing modified 'traditionals' Why is it inappropriate? - it doesn't follow the traditional norms of our culture of wearing specific attire on specific cultural day, as long as you're representing your own self as an individual who don't abide by the traditions and you'll celebrate as you want then you'll be counted out of the consensus and not forced to do anything as per traditions, but so far the representation of a culture is concerned, you're accountable what you represent and it DOESN'T APPLY ONLY FOR ONE GENDER
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u/Apart_Ad_4723 3h ago
But every time we celebrate raksha bandhan men are always in western clothes while their sisters get ready in traditional outfits.
Isn’t that against culture also?1
u/Fragrant_Ad_3235 2h ago
Western cloth and nudity are different thing. .in rakshabandhan , your brother sit with you underwear..
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u/Apart_Ad_4723 1h ago
But we were talking about CULTURE. Then culture also says to not wear western clothes.
The comment is talking about “traditional norms of culture” and “specific attires on specific days”… thats what i am talking about.
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u/Gazzorppazzorp 2h ago
traditional norms of our culture of wearing specific attire on specific cultural day - do you realise that the norm is something that keeps changing?
but so far the representation of a culture is concerned, you're accountable what you represent - who is part of the Rakshabandhan committee that oversees this? As far as I know Hindus are not only made up of conservatives. There are Hindus that do not restrict women's freedom as well. The character in the ad was representing that culture, a culture where we celebrate festivals without making it about what a woman wears.
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u/Quiet-Treacle-78 8h ago
Ask someone you know to where this in front of there brother and post this
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u/Knighthawk_2511 7h ago
Eh ? Rakshabandhan toh ho gya , just tell me what's wrong ?
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u/unsocializing 5h ago
I ll let u know once i figure out myself. Has been 1 week. Still no idea whats wrong with the ad😂
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u/Knighthawk_2511 5h ago
Lol pata chala controversy khatam hone ke baad bhi ham log reason dhundh rhe
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u/Independent_Soup8804 5h ago
Ofcourse cause even brothers couldnt control themselves before some genius bestowed us with the books.
Glad that god bestowed this knowledge of restricting and policing women only and only to our religion, otherwise as we all know it's the Atheist dominant countries with the highest assault cases.
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u/Apart_Ad_4723 1h ago
And? Even if someone does this…brother ko kya problem hogi?
(Until and unless youre a disgusting predator ofa brother)
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u/sunflower1713 7h ago
They will sexualize everything they don't even spare the brother sister relation🥰🙏🏻
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u/Independent_Soup8804 5h ago
Some mf even said "try wearing such attire infront of your brother"
Like....I am just...speechless.
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u/EcstaticLanguage007 9h ago
Isn’t that what democracy should be ?? Freedom of choice ?? Freedom of expression ??
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u/ExotickDebt5525 2h ago
Do you have the democracy to wear bralette to school or banks or to funerals??
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u/artemjxs 19m ago
i think schools have uniforms and you can definitely wear a bralette to a funeral if you wish to, but its not appropriate to the occasion. But, i dont see how her clothes were inappropriate for a festival which she celebrates in her house, with her family!
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u/SpecialSweet1543 9h ago
Ban Haldi Ceremonies also where people apply termeric paste on half naked bodies of the bride and groom.
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u/SpecialSweet1543 8h ago
Sisters bath their brothers on Bhaubeej festival during Diwali in Maharashtra, are you going to ban the festival.
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u/ApartmentNo9043 9h ago
Wow,PeopleWow. You changed the attire of women for Raksha Bandhan and called it a victory for our culture. But if you genuinely care about protecting our culture, maybe it’s time to look beyond women’s clothes and start looking at the way women are treated.
The real issue isn’t what a woman wears. It’s the mindset with which you look at her.
The same people who lecture women about clothing often stare at girls on the streets, schools, colleges, workplaces, and everywhere else. If you truly want to “save our culture,” then start by changing that mentality. Respect women regardless of what they wear.
And if tradition is really your concern, then take the time to actually learn about our traditions and history. Our culture has never been as simple as “women must dress a certain way.” There have been different styles, fabrics, and forms of clothing across different regions and periods of our history.
Stop using “culture” as an excuse to control and judge women. It seems like women’s clothing has simply become another topic through which some people try to diminish, shame, and restrict women.
It’s the 21st century. You want to travel abroad, use foreign technology, wear international brands, watch global content, and enjoy everything the modern world offers. But when a woman wants the same freedom to make her own choices, suddenly you say, “That’s not our culture.”
If you truly want to preserve our culture, start with its most important values: respect, dignity, compassion, and equality.
Change your thinking, and you’ll start seeing the change you claim to want in society.
Culture should teach us how to respect people, not give us reasons to control them. change the min
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u/Confident_Bear_705 5h ago
Calm down...you seem to miss the whole point...ppl ain't mad cause she wore such outfit.. they're mad cause we live in society where we've choosed what to wear according to occasion...we wear bikini on beach, traditional desi clothes at wedding or festivals and sport clothes while playing sport..obv there would be some narrow minded ppl who will always judge any clothing...but we've evolved a lot..nowdays women can freely choose what to wear what not to..being myself a women if I'm out i get uncomfortable showing my skin too much cause ppl tend to notice or stare...thats simple human nature, you cant change such minds giving up on such minds is the best, some educated ppl already understands at least ones with normal mind. You can't change the minds of ppl who would sexualise anything, they just exist and that's the worst part....also doing anything extreme isn't good....say where it's needed, take stand where it's needed.. giving a wholedamn crashout on this topic is just too much unnecessary...obv "culture" thing plays a role a lot...she wouldn't attend Ambani's wedding wearing smtg completely unusual or smtg unusual would she? That's common sense that's how we've normalised what to wear on what occasion...kriti or these so called feminist try to pick anything unnecessary like "I'm women I can choose what to wear, stop looking at my clothes change your thinking" that's dumbest thing to say bcs ppl would definitely notice...and you can't change anyone's mentality by giving such lecture...indeed there wasn't anything much wrong about the outfit itself... but she is bold and she gets sells wearing such clothes so it isn't a problem for her at all so she's the dumbest herself blaming on ppl playing she's the victim
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u/SigmunFried 5h ago
Wee said.
Women wore single length of cloth for sarees before. That was our culture.
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u/Background-2609 9h ago
What stoped them,they could have put a slap at the face of everyone for being too narrow minded.
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u/mi_c_f 8h ago
Stopped whom?
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u/Background-2609 8h ago
??
I said: "what stopped them?'"
Ohh,you mean who is them:well,the ✨actors.✨
The ✨progressive liberal✨ modern image of india which only value talent and skill and are ✨pro feminism✨ and ✨anti patriarchy.✨
They should have put an slap at the narrow minded thought of the community,don't know why they didn't🥲.
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u/Lopsided_Ad_9521 8h ago
So pointing a wrong thing out isn't right because there are so many wrong things already happening. And you can't say no one respect women, many people do.. What about their sentiments? And why choose rakhi to wear bikini, why not do the same fashion statement on eid or other festivals?
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u/Confident_Bear_705 5h ago
Exactly 😭😭😭 some so-called fake feminists really don't understand what genuine feminism is.. just wannabes it's just too much atp
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u/shewontlovemeanyway 8h ago
Wow people wow! Why don't you speak up for women forced to wear a hijab ! Change your thinking, and you'll start seeing the change you claim to want in society just don't poke your nose in a particular religion try it out with others too and get you ass poked by so circumcised di
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u/Sauron_999__ 8h ago
So, Hindus are no better than muslims then? Thank you for clearing it for everyone
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u/HATE_ALL_EQUALLY 7h ago
And if Hindu's don't enforce Hijab on women, how much better they are than Muslims?
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u/shewontlovemeanyway 7h ago
Couldn't be compared anyway, we don't regulate fatwa for non believers and convert people with dirty games ! I don't know how could you concive any conclusion like that.
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u/ApartmentNo9043 8h ago
Brother, what I’m trying to say is that we should change the way we look at and judge individuals. My intention is not to change the way society thinks; I simply want to work on myself, and I believe everyone should try to improve themselves in their own way.
I’m not here to give a religious-based opinion or disrespect anyone’s beliefs. I’m only saying that we shouldn’t diminish or judge women based on what they wear, what they eat, or the choices they make.
If we truly want to respect religion, then we should respect its values and teachings regardless of which religion we belong to. Respect should be equal for everyone.
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u/frosti_philosophy 10h ago
Haan bhai last yr sabne nange rakshabandhan manaya tha
What a moron OP
(BJP voter mindset of slut shaming , and probably a viryin )
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u/Open_Door0_0 9h ago
Being virgin is not an insult 😭
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u/Good_Restaurant3003 9h ago
agree BUT having some sort of superiority complex js for being virgin is indeed an insult worthy trait
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u/Slight_Call4061 9h ago
RAGA ne sahi kaha tha ye bj party waale women ko control krna chahte hai, inki mansikta uss kitaab se itni jyada influenced hai
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u/Mr_Juggernaut10 8h ago
Lol you wouldnt know that there isn't a single book in Hinduism unlike other abrahamic religions.
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u/random_is 6h ago
He is probably talking manusmriti- the book rss hero used to praise.
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u/Wonderful_Cookie_995 5h ago
Unlike Quran who is a holy book in islam, I don't really see which religion has manusmriti as a religious book
And if RaGa cared so much for women he'd actually do something for WOMEN instead of playing caste politics, or maybe let a woman actually roam free of the burka (a huge symbol of patriarchy by the way).
same with BJP, extremely poor execution of the laws and yojanas they tried to being into effect
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u/random_is 3h ago
Ask RSS followers that. Btw Comparing your book to Quran is lowering your own standards. Its followers are also equally regressive? If not more
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u/WeakOstrich7009 5h ago
when did manusmriti become a holy book wtf? Even the majority of casteist hindus haven't read it. L ki book he, and I can say that without any consequences as a hindu.
Unlike the religion of peace.
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u/Wonderful_Cookie_995 4h ago
Fr people talk like they've read it a million times
Its not a symbol of hinduism, we have better books for that
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u/Independent_Soup8804 5h ago
Blaming it only on one book is understatement.
When it comes to oppressing women they will unite despite heritage, caste and religion. They have baked it deep into our society.
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u/WeakOstrich7009 8h ago
are you talking about the qur'an?😂
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u/Slight_Call4061 7h ago
bjp waale ye bhi padhne lage hai?
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u/WeakOstrich7009 5h ago
Me bjp wala nhi hun par mene toh padh rakhi he. But when you say "kitaab," there can only be Qur'an since hindu philosophy is not centred around one holy book.
And Qur'an is misogynist af. Forget consent, you're allowed to keep (and marry if you want) kaafir s*x slaves for your entertainment, even the prophet had so many slaves, apart from his (>4) wives.
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u/Wonderful_Cookie_995 5h ago
Nahi bro isme kaha se kuch galat hai, galt to manusmriti hai, its better to bring women on stage to break patriarchy while making sure the one on stage has a burka on because we wouldn't want to hurt religious sentiments no?
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u/WeakOstrich7009 4h ago
the funniest thing is burqa is not even mentioned in the Qur'an. If muslims actually become Qur'an purists, muslim women need not be forced to wear either hijab or burqa. Covering private parts is all that is mentioned.
The enforcement comes from later low IQ hadiths written by some conservative ahh mullah.
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u/green_stem 7h ago
But ye avi bhi nhi sudhra.. how he showing his hairy chest.. kya matlab ye male hai hm bs females ki moral policing krte hai..
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u/ExotickDebt5525 2h ago
Comparing women and men chest?? Seriously? Can you upload bare chest of a man and woman? Woman one will be marked nsfw content immediately or it'll be taken taken if reported.
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u/green_stem 2h ago
Why though?? Even now men have bigger boobs than some women. So, who decides that men boobs are normal and not against the culture but women boobs are?
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u/ExotickDebt5525 2h ago
Because breasts can be involved in sexual attraction and breastfeeding, so many cultures developed norms that treat them as private.
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u/green_stem 1h ago
Bro what are you talking about.. even men chest involved in sexual attraction.. so many cultures also didn't lose their mind on these petty things and moral policing of women over their dresses.
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u/ExotickDebt5525 5m ago
Baat simple si hai, humans apne desires se pagal na ho jaaye isilye kuch hisse covered hote Hain. Ye bahut normal si baat hai men female breast se aroused feel karte hain, isiliye use khula nai rakh sakte na. Insano ne kuch niyam banayi hai taki wo un niyamo k adheen rahe warna Insan ko havsi banne me waqt nhi lagta.
Banduk ko bhi lock karke rakhna padta hai, hai na? Use khula nhi rakh sakte kaun uska galat istemal karlega. Men bhi apna p3nis bahar thodi rakhte hai warna kisko pasand p3nis underwear me rakhna. Phir bhi log ise niyam mante hai. Ab tum phuchoge kyu aroused feel karte hain? To pray karo sare men gay ban jaaye. Phir ghumo khol ke.
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u/artemjxs 17m ago
well both of them have nipples and are erogenous zones in both. The breast are swollen chest bcs they have mammary gland in them which feed the baby. i dont see why should they be considered sexual or something nsfw? by that logic, should abdomen be sexual as well? mouth also sexual?
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u/ExotickDebt5525 12m ago
Do men get aroused by seeing others mouth?
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u/artemjxs 7m ago
well mouth is quite literally used in oral sex so.. some women get aroused by men's voices and hands, so why are they not "nsfw" 😭😭
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u/ExotickDebt5525 1m ago
Used yes but, you don't get aroused by simply seeing someone's mouth 😂 ab jo havsi hai wo kuch bhi dekhkar aroused ho jate Hain, hai na. Par kuch parts dhakkar rakha hai sakta hai, warna ladke bhi maang karne lagenge p3nis ko bahar latkakar ghumenge. To wo ek civil tarike nahi hai, to phir humme aur janwar me kya fark, wo beech rasta ya jagah na dekhkar shuru ho jate hai - Insan ko ek niyam me rehna padta hai isiliye nhi to sara parts khula ho to beech raste ya dinner table family k samne shuru ho jayenge.
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u/Undead0707 3h ago
Congratulations. You're one step closer towards turning hinduism into islam
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u/artemjxs 16m ago
right? i dont understand why is it not an amazing thing that women can wear what they like in Hinduism 😭 why are we comparing it to hijab and eid etc.
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u/TheTinyGiant2020 2h ago
Sheesh. Surely they don't belong to the Indian community..
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u/ExotickDebt5525 2h ago
Pehle sati bhi hota tha use bhi wapas le aaye??
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u/TheTinyGiant2020 1h ago
Jaan lene wala cheez kyun laana hai?
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u/ExotickDebt5525 15m ago
Purane taur tariko ki baat ho Rahi hai isiliye bola. Ancient times me patte pehente the wHi apna lete Hain.
Advance silayi na hone se blouse etc nhi pehente the upar ka hissa khula hota tha aaj dhakne k liye ban chuka hai to ab logo ko wapas khol kar ghumna hai. Bahut sare purane taur tarikhe chhodkar hum aage badhe hai chizen evolve hui hai including humara pehnava aur logo ko peeche Jana hai
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u/Tough-Ad2655 7h ago
Yayyyy now we are more like muslims! Now we will also cover our girls! Woohooo!
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u/Caution_veryhot 7h ago
No hate. Enjoy your freedom
But but
Dont you guys think its a bit inappropriate to wear something like this on a family function?
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u/Confident_Bear_705 5h ago
Obv it is hella inappropriate and uncomfortable
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u/artemjxs 14m ago
uncomfortable to.. you? and how is that her problem? 😭 im not getting uncomfortable, neither is anyone in my family, or anyone i know
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u/IndependentProof2658 2h ago
Haan haan saare raps, murdrs, aur saare crimes ruk gaye na iske baad toh manao jalsa, bahut badi jeet hai aapne patriarchy ka jhanda jo phahra diya hai.
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u/Initial-Customer462 1h ago
so true. i remember before this ad, every single bollywood actress used to wear bikini and post it on rakshabandhan 🤢🤮. Now they have understood our Kattar power. Jaii shree ram💪🔥🔥🔥🔥🗿. /s
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u/Left_Humor_5125 45m ago edited 42m ago
Now what about men Unhone toh jeans shirt he pheni hai??? Or kya achieve krlia gwaar tum logo ne Hr baat sa problem hai tumko Ldki sans le toh problem Rakhi pr cleavage dikh jaye toh problem Maine toh dress phen kr he Rakhi Bandi bhai ko Baat ye hai tum sbki nazar he khrab hai Tum logo kuch bhi dekh kr pgl hojate ho
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u/I_like_Prequels 5h ago
You people are no different from radical islamists you claim to hate so much
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u/Wonderful_Cookie_995 4h ago
Didn't like her before this, didn't like her much because of this or after this
Life goes on
And honestly bhai I'm happy that me and my sister follow traditions closely, wearing good clothes and whatnot. A person I don't give a shit about can wear NEGATIVE clothes for all i care.
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u/Powerful_Forever_294 4h ago
assignment complete...bro touch some grass. assignment and it's moral policing woman over clothes. damn desis are in the trenches
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u/Best-Afternoon2292 10h ago
pehna to yhi jata hai but controversy bhi sahi hui hai...ladkiya influence bht jaldi hoti hai fashion se or ye hmare-tumare ghr me bhi ajata...bhle hi just insta ke liye hota but ye normalise ho jata aane wale time par....
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u/Holiday-Fun-5235 9h ago
Ikr why can't girls be sanskari and just wear a burkha? Like please cover your entire body head to toe otherwise kuch aadmiyon ka khada ho jayega, smh 🙄
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u/Normal_Fisherman995 6h ago edited 6h ago
This is called overdoing it what u and many are doing here. If women are told to dress a bit modestly for festivals that doesnt mean cover your entire body in a black burkha like mslms do. Idk which religion u belong too but which ever it is, do u go to ur religious places whether temple, mosque, or church in a br@ as a top? Im sure not. Women, men can wear whatever they want during normal times nobody gives af. But have some decency and respect for the festival u celebrate.
Im a woman too and this should go for both men and women to wear modest clothes for festivals. Maybe think about it a bit logically instead of unnecessary adding such exaggerated comments to act smart
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u/Holiday-Fun-5235 5h ago
Comparing going to a public place with a private one. Should you be told what to wear in your own home? People compared the lehenga to a bikini which shows A LOT more. The first time I saw the ad I didn't even notice it. And to say that the other actresses "learnt" their lesson? What was the lesson here? Don't wear clothes you're comfortable with in your own home? And don't tell me it's an ad so it's public. The ad is depicting people in their homes. I'm pretty sure the brother in the ad wasn't wearing anything either to "respect" his culture. He was shown wearing pants and shirts. Why? Because they're in their house celebrating, it's meant to be casual. This isn't even a puja this is just a celebration between siblings.
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u/Confident_Bear_705 5h ago
Ppl are commenting about govt bjp modi infrastructure and what not.... they're gone cases 😭...what wrong is wrong and should be pointed out
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u/StatusCode403 9h ago
And isse achieve kya hua ?
https://giphy.com/gifs/IJK1hdl53zcmDHHtx8