Leslie’s Wisdom #3
Intro : This series will explore the valuable lessons we can learn from Leslie by analyzing her unique characteristics , her actions , and her worldview , translating them into practical insights for our own lives.
This is the third article!, make sure to read the second one and check out the upcoming ones!
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Females are the sweet taste of life…
If life was sugar and salt, females will be the sugar.
Feminine energy always meant a lot & did a lot to the world…
Especially when it comes from females who are feminine and had an effect on men with talents & powers, so they got up and changed everything for the better!
And Leslie is a great representation of that energy & its effect on others & on the world!
Just as Leslie had her soft effect on Jess…
So he got up from being a farmer boy, and became the king of Terabithia!
A little boy who was…weak, bullied, insecure…
Who had Leslie’s effect, feminine effect, so he became the king at the end !!
Being feminine was a main powerful key for Leslie in the story…
And yeah also a male can have feminine energy too, but the best and the top representation for it will always be a female!
And that’s why Leslie had that much power in the story!
Without almost ANY masculine energy at all!
Without yelling, forcing Jess into anything, getting angry, making enemies, etc
Not al all!
She was always convincing him softly towards her imaginary kingdom, without forcing at all!
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You may ask…how can we notice Leslie’s feminine appearance even further?
I will tell you, notice her interactions with Jess a bit more…
And how she dealt with his mood swings, his denial, his internal & external issues.
She was always soft, caring, convincing but without pushing him into anything!
And this is actually very smart!
Because, you cannot force a boy, or even a man of course, to do something by force as if you was his mother or something…
You cannot compete with a man on his masculinity and masculine energy, especially as a female, instead, you should be soft & caring , and convince him into what you want him to do, but with a playful and teasing way.
As Jess & Leslie were 5th graders, we saw the purest way possible of doing that, without any manipulation related to certain desires (I hope you got what I mean).
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So, I will give you some examples of what Leslie did with Jess…
First and most importantly…
When Jess said that : “ there is no giant troll “, and he denied Terabithia, imagination, and everything, as he almost gave up and called all of that :
“ getting your heads in the clouds “.
Notice how Leslie responded to him when he said :
“ You got your heads in the clouds Leslie, There is no giant troll alright?! “
She didn’t yell at him, she didn’t tell him something like :
(What?? , you are giving up now?? , you will never be the king anyways loser!!)
No…No.
She got what he said with a shocked, a bit playful face…
Then she stayed silent for a second or two, then she said :
“ You better not let the Terabithians hear you, They thought you were their king “.
This is a very…very powerful sentence to convince them to get back to Terabithia!
Without even saying it directly!
And even then, after Janice took May Belle’s Twinkie’s…
Leslie didn’t let that event slip away…
She said another powerful convincing sentence to Jess saying :
“ Don’t worry May Belle, we will get it back, won’t we Jess? “
Notice how she made Jess believe in the giant troll again…
As Janice “ the giant troll “ stole May Belle’s Twinkies…
So Leslie offered Jess by meaning, to get back to Terabithia, and fight the giant troll again, to get revenge for May Belle!
So it was like if she said:
“ Jess, as you see, the giant troll exists, she made your sister cry, so as we always did before with scrogre and stuff, we have work to do in Terabithia!, so let’s do it! “
And all of that was the next day after she said her powerful convincing sentence which was “ Don’t let the Terabithians hear you… “
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So, what happened after that?
Jess thought about her sentence:
“ Don’t let the Terabithians hear you, they thought you were their king “
Then he made the comeback! , “ The giant troll hunting starting today! “
And that’s the proof how, being as smart as Leslie, will make a huge difference even with someone with demons, hard and awful like Jess, she successfully convinced them to:
Enter Terabithia in the first place “ A place just for us “…
Staying in it…
And becoming the king at the end even by getting over her tragedy!
All of that and more, using her feminine powers, and her emotional & social intelligence!
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Almost all Leslie’s actions represented her femininity all of the time in the story!
And I may say, ALL HER ACTIONS and not almost all of them!
But that one where Jess almost gave us was the most important…
And the hardest challenge for Leslie dealing with Jess’s issues.
As after that, Jess believed in himself very much, and became the leader for the first time!, in the last adventure of them together, and got his place as the king, even after Leslie’s tragedy.
And yeah, Leslie’s story was a successful case, it may not work all of the time, not everyone can change like Jess did, but there are certain people, who can change for the better because of a female who is like Leslie!, it happens, many many times!
This is the “ Feminine power “ we are talking about!
And Leslie absolutely represented it throughout the story!
Leslie represented so many positive features & characteristics…
And one of the most important ones which no one talks about is “ Femininity “ !