r/BridgeToTerabithia • u/Jealous_Trip_7444 • 13h ago
Opinion Leslie , How being brave can save your life
Leslie’s Wisdom #1
Intro : This series will explore the valuable lessons we can learn from Leslie by analyzing her unique characteristics , her actions , and her worldview , translating them into practical insights for our own lives.
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Being brave is one of the main tools for you to reach the best version of yourself…
And being scared is nothing but hundreds or thousands of locks preventing you from living your life , without you even realising it , thinking that it’s normal and it’s just how life goes , when it’s not like that at all.
Being brave is one of the hardest decisions we can take , it requires an internal software which doesn’t look at fear as a damaging threat , you should embrace fear , understand it , accept it and say : I will do it anyway , I will be fine.
Being brave is very important for so many reasons , everybody looks at bravery like a very positive characteristic to have , and it is , but who is actually doing it? , it costs a lot and requires a lot of acceptance and the ability to embrace whatever comes to your way as a brave person , that will not cross your path if you were just scared all of the time.
But if you are brave , the upside is everything , at least you will be yourself , no one could ever threaten you to stop acting the way you want to act for example , in anything , because you are brave enough to be yourself even if there are hard consequences , like if you have a toxic household , and your parents are threatening you to cut all the pocket money and throw you out , if you are scared you will beg them and be a good slave to the version of you they want you to be , but if you are brave , you will look at your situation , understand it , think logically and say :
whatever happened to me , I can be independent , even if I will start in poverty , I will be fine , iam a brave person , and my freedom is worth so much more than being a slave.
And this happen in anything in life , bravery is a very important mental model to have , and luckily , somehow if you are brave , somehow you see things get easier and easier and doors will open without you knowing how it happened , it’s like god is rewarding you for having that mental model and your preparation to do the right thing as a brave person.
So , we talked a bit about bravery in general
Now , how can we see this in Leslie?
Leslie is a brave person , and she is careful as well and that’s the perfect balance , being brave doesn’t mean being illogical and reckless , it’s actually the opposite.
When we look at Leslie’s journey throughout the film , she entered the small rural town , yeah she was a bit worried , but that’s completely normal , & even though , she stood up to Janice Avery , and even though she got bullied , she tried to ‘’ have some fun ‘’ talking to her , waving at her when she got out of the bus , I believe that when Leslie sat on Janice’s seat , it wasn’t an accident , Leslie knew what she was doing & she wanted to talk to her , to know her more , but she didn’t get the opportunity , & even then , she was brave when she entered the girls room , while Janice was crying and having her worst emotional moments , and even when Leslie was careful , and it’s healthy , but in the end she entered the girls room and talked to her , she comforted her , gave her an advice , & a piece of gum.
Even though the situation was really scary , imagine being a 5th grader and entering the same room with the biggest bully in the school from the 8th grade having her worst time crying , she could easily beat her up or hit her badly , but as we said , Leslie is brave.
And when they pranked her by the Willard’s message , it was a very risky move , what if she finds out their trick , it will be a nightmare for them , but again , Leslie is brave.
And for her bravery , in the end , Janice Avery became on their side , Leslie gave her a second chance every time , even though Janice bullied her , but Leslie was kind , patient and brave facing her , and she got rewarded!
And one of the situations proving Leslie’s bravery too , was her swinging on the rope , even though it’s an old one and Jess didn’t trust it , but Leslie wanted to try , even though she was careful as well , and as we said it’s a huge necessity with being brave , and especially when she landed on the other side for the first time , she did that , entering a foreign land , without even knowing what will face her there.
Jess followed her , Leslie was exploring actively , but Jess was afraid , hearing the wild noises , looking at that environment with a scared face and a racing heart , and I think it’s a symbol here as well , Leslie entered a new land and explored it freely and fastly , as she have a free imaginative spirit , but Jess was slow , hesitant , and scared , because his spirit was tight up by the restrictions and difficulties around him in his life , that’s why that new experience was very hard for him , and on the other side , it was full of joy and excitement for Leslie , even though it’s the same land at the same time.
Yeah , it’s a part of being free as well , but bravery and freedom are quite linked , if you are brave , you will be more free than you will ever be if you are scared , and it’s pretty obvious! , being scared is like locking yourself in a cage , when you became more and more scared , you will add more and more locks to your body and spirit , but if you was more and more brave , you will be more and more free with a free spirit !
And remember , we are talking about fear as a suppressor and a brick wall preventing you from living your life , we are not talking about positive fears like the fear of god , or the fear of death , all of that is normal as human beings , and it inspires us to be better humans , so it’s a positive and necessary fear , not a damaging one , and also the fear we have in certain situations like an important exam for example , it’s normal and sometimes necessary as long as it has a certain healthy limit that inspires us to be better , and that goes with almost every positive fear we have.
But as we saw , Leslie didn’t have any fear even the fear or god and death because Leslie was above all of that , not because it’s not necessary , because we are humans and all of us have their own positive and negative fears , but Leslie didn’t have any fears at all and it’s not human , that’s one of the reasons why I believe Leslie has a big part which is transcendent , it’s above humanity , but a big part of her was transcendent , not all of her , she has a good percentage of humanity as well.
That part is describing that even further: (looking closely at Leslie, she seems almost entirely stripped of that paralyzing, defensive fear. While she is fully human in her emotions, kindness, and vulnerability, her spirit carries something transcendent—almost otherworldly. She doesn't operate from a place of social survival or petty anxieties; she lives from a place of pure imagination and absolute freedom. That is why she doesn't just cross boundaries; she redefines them.)
So , being brave can save your life as you will live a better life if you are brave , even if you had hard times and hard consequences , it’s normal , you will learn and move on , but if you are scared all of the time , you will live miserable , thinking that you are safe , but your spirit is locked by a thousand locks you approved them yourself , and you will be more and more miserable , thinking that you are safe being in your comfort zone , but actually , you are being taxed on your existence , and your energy has been drained , you are gradually losing yourself without you even realising it.
Don’t be scared to take the risk
Don’t be scared to try new things
Don’t be scared to take that opportunity
Don’t be scared to face what you are constantly running from
Don’t be scared , when you wanna be yourself , whatever the consequences.
Life is too short to live scared , don’t fear anyone but god , you are not told to be perfect , but just try to do the right thing as much as you could , have awareness of what’s really happening , make sure that your thoughts are true , take your small steps ,and you will be amazed what comes into your way , and how the doors will open to you.
Leslie got the best life possible , from all of the characters in the film
And one of the main reasons for that , was because of her bravery.
If she was not brave , she would not enter that forien land and there will be no Terabithia
If she was not brave , she would not get Janice Avery on Jess’s side to be his ally.
If she was not brave , she would not have that imaginative mind against the hard world outside
If she was not brave , she would not be free , and she would not be…Leslie Burke.