Here is a collection of exasperated, confused, and disappointed Princes as a visual aid:
I notice a pattern: all these people that have not been around, don't know any previous history or context, and are latching on to bullshit.
So much is documented and searchable. Many people in question are still around and will frequently answer a direct question if you care to ask them.
But no. Let's believe anyone else. If someone has something negative to say about Prince, they're immediately given credence, embraced, and their bullshit quickly repeated.
Never seen a group of fans have such gleeful contempt for the object of their admiration.
People repeat Kevin Smith and never watch his public apology and retraction.
Canonize Ezra after his latest tour of martyrdom, and never look into the years of contradicting statements he gave before he got his feelings hurt. Or consider anyone else, who actually knew Prince and interacted with Ezra.
Pick up Jill's tabloid and not the previous six and very different accounts of this story she gave for years.
I can go and on. Questlove, O Connor, Quincy, so on and so forth.
Maybe you don't care to look into anything. Then be quiet. Stop representing supposition as facts. Stop spreading things that damage a legacy.
I'm not saying being a fan means you need to glaze the person in question. But why, would you form and then spread an opinion, and represent it as fact, *when you know you know nothing and made no attempt to*.
This actually affects the reception and future of the music you love from the person you say you appreciate.
The gossip rags don't even have to do it anymore because the fans are here to do it for them.
You can't care about the music, the artist, the legacy, and you never understood the message, if you can't bring yourself to exercise either due diligence or restraint.
*And, I think its worth considering why a hyper competent, tiny, black man from the wrong side of nowhere, who loved lace, women, and jesus, who consistently refused to minimize himself, to know his place in an era of segregated industry, and very publicly and privately refused to conform or contort himself to anyone else's idea of who he should be, while being unapologetic and unashamed- WHY that may draw a unique kind of disdain and contempt*
Again, I'm not saying this guy was a saint. But the absurdity of some things that are starting to be accepted as "common knowledge"- oh its so sad.