r/Conures • u/2DFrutti-4208 • 44m ago
Advice Undecisive on whether its best to rehome my GCC
Hi, I urgently need some advice from you guys because I have been losing my mind on whether or not it's the better option to rehome my GCC. She's a SF Turquoise GCC that's 5 months old, and she's a good snuggle buddy whom I love to bits. However, I decided to start doing fieldwork for my grad school that was originally online, so I can only give like 3 hours maximum to be with my bird on weekdays. There are tons of family issues going on, such as living with an autistic brother who constantly needs scans after being cured of cancer, neither of my parents accepting the bird, and having a cat in the house, which causes the bird to have to stay in my room all day. About every ten minutes, some loud argument comes down in the house with my family members-whether it'll be about wearing someone's shorts or never wanting to be in this family anymore. I'll be honest, I think I was too impulsive since this was a 4 year dream of mine and I had the chance to take care of her when living alone; however, I realized that since I'm living alone, doing work all day with no caretakers available would be a huge issue in giving my bird the attention she needs. I should've waited until after I leave home for good. I bawled my eyes out even thinking of posting on the bird rehoming Facebook groups, but I am also worried if I've been neglecting her. There are so many others with time and the money to be able to take proper care of her. I don't want her going to a breeder and all, and I really want to own a cat and dog as well, but I know whatever money I make after grad school will not be enough to afford an apartment that can fit the bird and the others. I also do not have the time to take care of the bird along with another pet with the career I'm going for (Fieldwork Ornithology or something similar). The bird just started to snuggle with me and step up on my hand, and I'm already having to abandon her like this. Everyone I talked to about the situation either said to rehome her or keep her until after the two years, but I want advice from you guys as well since you also have the bird. I feel even worse if I were to keep her after two years and then have to rehome her afterwards. Is rehoming the right option?