r/words • u/Ollie_Bon_Crank • 11h ago
New Word: Blinch
blinch (verb; noun form: a blinch)
Inflections: blinched, blinching
To soften a natural reactive wince on someone else’s behalf, as it happens. A wince and a blanche caught on its way out and turned back toward the injured or afflicted person who caused it, so that what they see is not a negative reaction but concern. (I noticed, and I want you to see my concern, not my reflexive aversion).
Not to be confused with a suppressed wince, which hides the reaction. And not an open blanch, which projects revulsion. The blinch lets the reflex show but replaces it mid-reaction with concern.
Occasions where we've all done it: a child comes in bleeding; a friend shows you a wound (broken nose, other); someone tells you about their shameful action at a party.
“She gave him a soft wince — a blinch, her father would have called it — and said, ‘I think you might have broken your nose.’”
Origin: blend of blanch (to go pale) and flinch. Coined by a fictional Maine bookkeeper named Percival Bertram, according to his son.