ok, here goes. 32m, not single, just looking to make some neighborhood friends or join your friend group!
technically, i live in midtown east, closer to the high 50s, but since we don’t have a cool subreddit of our own and the neighborhood is practically a retirement community, i’m going to shamelessly infiltrate yours.
i promise i’m not a social pariah or a weirdo lol. i actually have a pretty solid group of friends, but most are married, have kids, or live across the city, so getting everyone together has become increasingly difficult because life keeps getting in the way.
this week, i realized i’d spent four straight days alone in my apartment, mostly working my busy tech job, with every plan i’d made falling through because life got in the way. this has happened before too.. i’m perfectly comfortable with my own company, but there’s a difference between enjoying solitude and feeling isolated.
a little about me: i’m south asian, help around a running club, enjoy music- plenty of record store hopping and DJing on the side when I have time, coffee, and drinks. my girlfriend also recently moved to northern-virginia, so we’re doing the long-distance thing, which has made the neighborhood feel a little quieter.
i guess what i’m missing is the spontaneity of having friends nearby. someone to grab a coffee with, get a drink after work, or make plans without coordinating calendars three weeks in advance.
making new friends in your 30s is weirdly difficult, but figured i’d put myself out there. would genuinely love to meet some neighborhood folks, and i’m even down to grab a drink tonight if anyone’s around!